I was browsing online about dreaming of a family member dying and the dream actually coming true and I saw this website. I was hoping the members here can provide guidance. I have dreamt of people dying before their actual death.
The most recent one I had was of my father. He was perfectly healthy. In fact, he just had his yearly check up which came clean at the time. I woke up one night crying because I dreamt that he had died. I saw him in the coffin and I couldn't do anything. I woke up crying and ran to him to make sure he was alive. Soon after, he started getting symptoms, and shortly after, he died of cancer. Only battled it a month. Both tests he initially took were negative, the positive test was only 2 weeks before he died.
Besides this dream and the ones I had before, there were 4 other instances. But they were different. I was very much awake and was talking to the person. I would just out of the blue, have the thought that this person will die. 1 of the 4 instances, I even blurted it out in front of the person that he will die. These 4 people, perfectly healthy people, also died shortly after I "thought" of these things.
Also, since I was 14, I have been able to see or hear my relatives who have passed away. I would be in the middle of class or just be reading a book when I feel I would go into some trance and I would see them say goodbye to me. I would be hearing mass and I would hear them say things to me. I confirmed this when I relayed the message to my mother who was shocked because it was the exact answer to the question on her mind at the time.
I am not scared but I do not understand why these things happen to me either. I was hoping you could shed some light to it.
I don't know if it has anything to do with what I have. But ever since I went through a hard time in my life about 3 years ago, I have stopped going to church and do not specifically believe in God anymore. Maybe its the anger that I went through, plus my fathers death. Although I still believe in a higher being.
Im sorry that this is so lengthy, I'm really hoping for your input. Thank you for taking time to read this.