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I Dreamt A Man Telling Me That My Mate Is Going To Be Late?


I had this strange vivid dream an year ago. It was some kind of bureau where a man was writing down the names of couples that are together. Almost everyone had their mates except me. I went to him and asked "what about me?" He is just shaked his head saying that the guy who is for me, is going to be late because he is confused between me and another girl. Unless he makes a decision I will have to wait.

I was upset.

At that time I hadnt been seeing anyone. But felt insulted by the dream, I didn't want to be an option. And also most of my friends and family are now married.

I told my mother about the dream, she explained not every thing is black and white.

Anyways a couple of months later I check my facebook and find a message from an acquaintance wanting to reconnect. Tbh, over a course of 5 or 6 years he had try to connect with me but I had been struggling with personal issues and would be just aloof.

We hit it off. We started talking and hanging out. I felt a strong connection with him unlike any other. More months passed by, I realized I liked him a lot. I confessed how I felt. He was in shock but he broke the news that he had just started dating someone else and that he never expected that I would like someone like him.

I felt dejected ofc. We still kept talking. He was confused between me and the other girl. I remained friends but was in pain. I remembered the dream I had. The situation had eerily turn out like that.

After a couple of months being anxious, I couldn't take it anymore and decided after his birthday I will stop talking to him and will tell him not to contact me anymore because I can't be his friend when I have feelings. I wanted to run away from him.

Things changed unexpectedly though. He said he felt happiest when I am around. And the girl is seeing is not sure about him. He decided to stop seeing her. They amicably parted ways. We started dating. Its been 6 months. He has been the best boyfriend I ever had. He cares a lot for me and is kind. I have never been this happy.

I wonder at times is he the guy that was being referred to in my dream.

I am scared too. That things might end and this is some cruel joke the universe is playing on me. He already had trouble introducing me to his parents because of his hectic work schedule and problems at home.

I saw another vivid dream that he had made a surprise visit to my home talking with dad. I woke up really happy.

I don't know what to make of all this. Is it just a big coincidence or fate?

I had dreams come true before, but now I am just scared.

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Jubeele (2 stories) (53 posts)
7 years ago (2017-10-22)
Hi Shadowsong, my heart goes out to you. I married against my parents' wishes, uprooted myself and left for another country. Then after more than six years, I learned that he'd never loved me. A person who doesn't value the gift of love from another isn't someone worth having around.

I feel that your dreams were your higher senses were warning you about your ex. It's clear that on some level, you knew about his duplicity and was somehow trying to warn your conscious self. Trust your instincts.

You're a precious person and worthy of love. Take care.❤
Shadowsong110 (1 stories) (4 posts)
7 years ago (2017-10-20)
Latest update: We ended up having a very traumatic breakup. He had been confused about me and the other girl the entire time. Betrayed us both. I said he needs to time get his head together and figure out what he wants from life. He is adamant he wants the other girl badly saying he has no romantic feelings for me and that he was an idiot, deluded himself to think he loved me.

Now we arent on speaking terms anymore. To realise that the years of the time we shared was nothing but a lie is extremely painful.

I guess the dream wasn't true about the outcome. He chose her over me.
Shadowsong110 (1 stories) (4 posts)
7 years ago (2017-05-23)
The last dream I've had is that I am waiting at the altar. Guests have arrived. My boyfriend hasnt come yet. And there are these eerie voices saying to me "What did you think? That he is going to marry someone like you?".

It is quite similar to how I feel when I have an anxiety attack. I start to feel I am a burden.

Anyways while I was tensed waiting and thinking he won't show. The guests around me were happy and cheerful, they told me not to worry too much and that he will come. He is running late but he will come.

I woke up then.

I feel maybe the weddings of my friends and the fact my boyfriend is talking a lot about marriage which might be influencing my sub conscious. I really don't know what to make of it.

I even had a dream, months prior that my boyfriend is pointing to a date on the calender and the numbers were written with blood. He said this is when we are going to get married. Waking up I felt... The date was important to me somehow but I can't remember for what or why. I wrote the date down just in case then forgot all about it until the recent episodes.
Shadowsong110 (1 stories) (4 posts)
7 years ago (2017-05-23)
The next dream was about me supposed to be attending a wedding around 7:30 pm.

I was feeling lethargic much as I do in real life because of depression. It was getting late around 9:30pm. I decided I wouldn't go to the wedding. My mother however comes to me saying I should because there is still time. The wedding won't be over until 2am. So I finally got up and started getting ready... Turns out I was wearing a bridal dress.
Shadowsong110 (1 stories) (4 posts)
7 years ago (2017-05-23)
Latest update is that my boyfriend and I are still going strong. Each day is a new adventure. He is in his last year of graduate school and under a lot of pressure.
My dad recently was diagnosed with cancer which has affected me badly. I suffer from anxiety attacks and depression.

Around early May a couple of my friends have gotten married.

Last week I saw a couple of dreams which were weird and I couldn't make sense of them.

First was a nightmare concerning my boyfriend were he said he never said he will stay forever and it is getting late. It affected me very badly when I woke up. I felt very disturbed. Two days later my boyfriend had a serious car accident resulting in multiple injuries and was told he was lucky or he would have died.
IntuitiveMama (22 posts)
7 years ago (2016-11-26)
Hi Shadowsong110, I really liked your story. I think the best thing for you to do is relax and enjoy what fate has brought you - a very nice young man. Don't worry about or contemplate your future, that is yet to be determined. This person may be a very significant part of your life, but perhaps not a forever person. What you can do is take every day as it is, enjoy your relationship, and see where it takes you. Maybe you'll have another dream to tell you! Please post if you do! I wish you the best!

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