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I left this in another post relating to questioning whether an ability is present, so apologies for repeating. Any comments would be appreciated.

I have a similar situation and would like some guidance. I had several experiences earlier in life which led me to believe I had a certain level of psychic ability, but never really focused or developed (or verified) any potential. My experience started on my first visit to a spiritualist church age 15.

I was actually totally skeptical and looking to see how they were tricking the congregation. I was searching to see who would be selected next by the guest medium and clearly heard a voice in my right ear tell me it was going to be the chap on the end of the aisle. 2 minutes later - the chap was picked. I was sitting at the back of the room, far right with nobody sitting to the right of me.

Since then I have 1) seen what I believe to be my spirit guide 2) had a friend lose their keys on a 4 mile walk, ask my spirit guide for assistance and a 'mind's eye' image of the exact spot where to find the keys was given to me - the keys were exactly where shown, over a mile away from where we stood in thick grass. 3) several instances of voices telling/warning me of things about to happen - all but one happened within a very short time from being informed - some of which I managed to tell others about before they happened, including some unsavory instances.

I am 20yrs on from this period of being sensitive (or perhaps I am way off track and have no such abilities) but have recently started to feel similar feelings. I have had full conversations with my recently passed mother (but always in a relaxed state so real as they seem I cannot be sure at all).

I feel a certain presence often and with it comes overwhelming nausea & I get the distinct impression that communication is being attempted and I am somehow not tuning in properly...? During this presence I also hear a piece of music which I cannot quite put my finger on.

I think my question is similar in that even given all of the above I am unsure what to make of my situation, but feel that I would definitely like to develop my ability rather than ignore it (if in fact there is an ability to develop?)

Any guidance, suggestions or opinions would be gratefully received.

Many thanks, Ben

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Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-06)
It is possible that we do not actually have any powers/abilities but that instead we sense messages from our Guides/Angels. It is quite possible it is they who inform us of premonitions, visions, predictions, etc.

Therefore, it makes sense when you said that you see your third eye open from outside and face inward, rather than open from within you and look outward. This would mean that your Guides are Guiding you.

Oracle, Psychic and Medium for 42 years

P.s. "Haunting in Connecticut" and "Knowing" are excellent movies to see.
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-01)
dont know where 'clown' came from, but it made me laugh when I just read it back to myself
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-01)
wow, medium of the Gup - this makes sense as its not the 1st time I have sensed a pregnancy before announcement, although its the 1st time I remember hearing the rattle, but I think this was a helping hand from my guide. I asked for a tangiable sign and my guide showed enough to make this connection.

I think I had another small breakthrough today. I have tried several times to visualize my 3rd eye opening but kept finding that although I was seeing the eye opening I was always viewing this from outside in, not inside out so all I saw was the eyelid opening and an eye looking at me (hope that makes sense)

Today I managed to briefly see from behind the eye and actually saw a few images and heard a few words (unless of course I have finally lost my mind - either way it was a blast and felt real)

I saw a boat, blue bow which I believe is a fishing boat. The name was not written but initially came to me as 'Destroyer', then 'Destruction' but with a bit of focus the word Destiny was clearly given to me audibly. Then an image of fire, then the name of the road on which I work was given as a written image (like a sign post).

I didn't (couldnt) feel that the boat was connected to the fire or road sign, but sense the road sign and the fire are connected somehow.

Does this sound like the kind of typical experience associated with the 3rd eye?

Many thanks Oracle - I will find a local group when I feel a little more confident, but really appreciate your input and guidance

Best Wishes - Ben
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-31)
You do seem to have a strong connection with children and new conceptions (possibly because you have many children yourself, or because of the miscarriage, or both).

In answer to your question, from my experience timing is very important in the spiritual world, and in our world we can become very impatient and frustrated if we cannot solve a mystery or decipher a sign right away. Sometimes we just have to let go of it and set it aside until it needs addressing again. I was send one sign over and over and it drove me and my friends nuts trying to solve it. Finally a year later we understood after seeing it recently in the movie "Knowing". In the movie there was the sign my Guides had sent me. At last I was able to know what it all meant. Do they do this to us on purpose? 🤔 My guess is that their idea of time is different than ours. What was one year here must have been minutes in their world. They are here yet in another dimension.

The rattle? A new birth is due to someone you know. You are a Medium of the Gup (cup). Gup Keeper? Gup Guide? 😁

❤ Oracle
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-27)
another colleague just told me his wife is 2 months gone.
Maybe its my guide's sign that someone close has a bun in the oven.
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-27)
Ok, I get what you mean Oracle. It's early days for interpretation for me and I did wonder if an unborn could play with a rattle - a bit of a relief actually. We have had 3 boys since - they keep me busy and poor so no more for now at least:)

I think the simple explanation is that it is a sign from my guide. Is it possible it's just a sign for sign's sake as I have asked for one?

It could still be something to do with my colleague. She rang me 1st from the hospital (not my baby btw... For the record) when the miscarriage happened and in so many ways she has had the worst year imaginable - maybe I'm supposed to keep an eye on her?

Also, my brother in-law has just had a baby in the last 5 months - just another possible connection - I will check his rattle to see if it has anything on it.

Oracle - is it uncommon that these things happen and you just have to accept that its not always possible to decifer?

I'm not hung up on it tbh as I am just glad to see some development.

Best wishes - Ben
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-27)
I do not sense the spirit of the unborn child would be using a rattle it has never touched. Also, these souls usual return to the gup/cup to re-attempt birth again. Instead it would make more sense that your Guide wants you to look at the rattle, if you already purchased one. Perhaps there is something on it that your Guide wants you to see? Guides often try to reach us in these ways to relay a message to us. Perhaps the rattle which belongs to your friend at work?

It might even be a hint that they want you to try again for another child.

Often times the answer is much more simple than we assume.

Oracle ❤
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-25)
Ok, what I think:

My initial instinct is its either connected to a miscarriage we had some time ago (12 weeks into the pregnancy) or a miscarriage my work colleague had a few weeks back & I feel that the very small (weak) irregular movements in the rattle reflect the age of the spirit - all the dots seem to connect with this interpretation.

Also, I sense this could be the connection/sign that I have been asking my guide for.

There is no rhythm to the sound so I'd say a musicians instrument is out & I can definitely say its more of a toy sound than a musicians shaker. My mind is showing me an image of a plastic toy being held by a baby chewing the plastic shaker toy and the rattling is the odd involentary movement or rolling over that babies are prone to.

Does the above sound right?

Best wishes - Ben
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-25)

Usually what you sense it is, is what it is. Most often your Guide will send a signal which they feel you can understand or relate to. (Whereas a spirit will use what THEY know more about.)

However, I am happy to report that we all can sometimes be wrong! 😁

Hence, could it be a musician's rattle? In many cultures they are used to make music.

Or a shaman, rainmaker, or priestess's rattle?

Maybe even a rattle snake?

What do YOU think it is?

munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-24)
cheers Oracle, makes perfect sense & as an update I am making some progress (albeit slow)

I haven't made definite re-connection with my guide, but through starting to learn to meditate and using guidance in your previous posts I am starting to feel more connected (if that makes sense), but I am expecting it to take time as I have ignored my spiritual side for so long.

One particularly interesting thing is happening at the moment. Most mornings I am hearing a sound in my inner ear that I can only describe as a baby rattle. Not a constant rattle like a musical shaker, but more of a small un-rythmic movement, like a baby moving its rattle randomly (hope that description is clear enough)

I'd like a few interpretations. My obvious feeling is that I am sensing a baby that has passed, but all I am getting is the rattle sound at the moment - no organic baby noises

Best Wishes Ben
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-20)
Prayer need not be seen as praying to anyone or anything in particular. It is simply the expression of asking for something you want. The request is send out into the Universe around you, and whomever watches over you will consider your request.

Spirituality is not a religion (and vice versa). Religion is the belief and practise of certain viewpoints. Even Jesus seemed to be against churches and uniformed religions and so had often lectured the churches on their selfishness and greed (which is why they helped the Romans end his life). But that is enough on religions. I prefer to call myself spiritual.

munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-15)
Hi ICU & Mitch - thanks ICU, the more I read and research I can see that its been staring me in the face but I have chosen to ignore for years. Where it will lead and how well I can develop is yet to be seen, but I am already starting to feel more centred/focused.

Mitch - The other article wasn't mine - how I wish I were 15yrs again. We are still on the same page though and I'd be glad to pass on any help I get and likewise would be grateful for the same.

I would definitely read through all of Oracle's posts as a starting point as there are a lot of hands-on guidance of how to start developing. Click on his profile.

I'm starting with working on my connection with my guide. I feel this is the starting point and I get the feeling that during this process other abilities will strengthen. I have noticed some improvement here by following the method in Oracles posts.

There is so much support in here I feel we are in safe hands - let me know how you get on please and any guidance appreciated.

Best Wishes - Ben
Mitch (1 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-14)
hi Ben, I'm new to this site, but I'm also 15 and going through the whole am I aren't I thing when it comes to my ability! And I know first hand that its very frustrating, you'd like to say yes I am psychic, but you don't want it to be like, just because you said you are, your not etc... And I was reading your blog and thought id love to help you out, and you help me out, the whole back scratching deal, because I've never met another 15 y/o psychic who feels as I do... So get bak to me! Best wishes
ICU (11 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-14)
I think you are a medium, definitely. Should really research and learn more about it.
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-13)
Many thanks Oracle, this is really helpful & I will go through everything you said and all your posts.

I have never felt particularly religeous (although always spiritual... Can they exist seperately?) and if I'm being honest don't know much about prayer.

I need to work out how best to pray in the context of spiritualism. My instinct is just to speak from the heart but I honestly have never strung a prayer together. Does this sound uncommon?

Best Wishes - Ben
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-12)
How to develop psychic ability:

1. First understand what it is. Read up on it until you feel you have become an expert on it. (Click on my profile to read my other posts for more on this subject.)

2. Next learn about Guides and how to make contact with them because it is their job to help you develop your skill. (Read my other posts for more on this subject.)

3. Develop your skill, as well as your communication with your Guides. (Read my other posts for more on this subject.)

4. Learn about Psychic Protection. (Read my other posts for more on this subject.)

How to use it:

1. Start by writing down your dreams and visions.

2. Also write down a detailed list of your abilities and how they work for you.

3. Research each dream and vision afterwards and update them as they come true.

4. Do what you can to prevent those which you are able to. (Sometimes it is fate or destiny that some must happen regardless of what we do to try to stop them.)

How to increase it:

The best way to strength or increase psychic ability is to use it. The more you use it, the more it develops and you eventually will learn how it works best for you and how to control it.

1. Concentration and prayer helps. In other words if you want or need it then it will be there for you.

2. Practise with memory cards.

3. Try to predict the outcome of movies you are watching.

4. Get a lot of sleep and avoid distractions.

5. Avoid msg, processed foods, sugar, caffeine, and alcohol.

6. Meditate and pray in quiet areas where you feel it strongest, and at hours you feel it strongest. Then practise it there.

7. Read up on it more.

8. Sometimes your Guides do not feel needed or wanted, or are busy. If they know you are wanting them, they will return at your request.

9. Research crystals and gemstones. Certain ones can increase psychic ability. Find one which works best for you.

10. Hang out with other psychics. This increases it greatly.

For more of my advice click on my profile name.

To contact me read my own story and post a comment there. I check for new comments there.

Oracle, Psychic Medium for 42 years
munchman (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-12)
Thanks Cloud, revsilverson & techy, much appreciated and will look at everything suggested.

Revsilverson, apologies for the repeat post. I did paste this into my own seperate post as I realised it may get lost in the other persons article. I just checked your reply & many thanks for the advice, makes lots of sense.

Best Wishes - Ben
CloudyCloudyCloud (51 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-12)
In my opinion, I think you might benefit from studying up on spirit guides and possibly shamanism. It wouldn't hurt; and keep in mind this is just my first impression. Also, with regards to your nausea... I've felt that same thing on a couple occasions when I was trying to do some self-healing. I realized that I needed to educate myself about healing and energies, and bought an amazing book called "Energy Secrets" by Alla Svirinskaya. Good luck with your endeavors! ❤
revsilverson (guest)
12 years ago (2009-03-12)
in your "Questioning if I am Psychic" article you ask the same thing. We don't have time to repeat ourselves even though you might want a different answer. Knock it off!

Love and Light
techy75 (1 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2009-03-12)
i myself have had experiences on whether I have a level of special powers. Looks like were both in for the ride and only will our future show (unless we see it before it happens) us whether we are or not. Oyu pretty much are a very strong person and I give you my respect. Kudos 😁 😊 😊

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