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For a long time now, I've had some sort of gift. I've predicted many things, which happened to take place. I've seen and spoken to spirits (one of them being a famous Hollywood actor and my dead grandma called my name out years after her death). I also see the number 23 everywhere I go (I have no idea what this means?).

I normally see boots walking around the hallway (my brand new house is built on an old steelworks site). I also vaguely see women or young girls. But a few days ago, I saw a young Victorian boy. As clear as anything you could imagine. I was simply in shock and burst into tears, having to be calmed down by my parents. This connection seems to be getting stronger. But I'm so frightened.

I'm 17 years old. I've always believed that I have a gift, and now I'm truly starting to believe it 100%. I'm just very confused about what I have to do? I think the fright gets the better of me. I've been told to go to a local Church and possibly strengthen the connection. But what will this do? Will I be able to control the connection and interact with thousands of spirits I come across? As honored as I am, I'm terrified. However, I think I'm ready for it. Seeing that little boy shocked me, but I can sense that he finds an interest in me, and I'd like to have a friendship with him. I do actually want this, I'm privileged. How do I come across this though? & if anyone has had the same experience, I would love some more information or any important info I should know.

Thank you!

- Tiffany

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joshua (guest)
15 years ago (2009-07-19)

Have a look at the above site. You may find it very interesting. Look at the a - z index and find what yoiu want to look at.

All I can say is you are a lucky young lad. I am 58 years old and started about 20 years ago with my psychic ability. It scared the life out of me at first. There is so much to learn, so many books, so many questions you will need to ask.

Yes, go to a church, but make sure it is a Spritualist church only. Don't go to any other church. You will meet others like you there and you will get all the help you need.

Once you have learned more about it, you will then understand what it is all about. It is not here to harm you in any way, quite the oppisite accually. The number 23 could mean anything. It might be a date, a time, an address, an age. But look at numbers on the site I gave you, it may mean something else totally.

Don't switch off and stop doing it, trust me when I say, it is the most wonderful gift you will ever have.

ostara8 (124 posts)
15 years ago (2009-06-08)
ok, everyone is exeriencing this number thing. I was too (still am) and so I bought the following book that you should get.

Doreen virtue
Angel numbers

Good luck
ostara8 (124 posts)
15 years ago (2009-06-08)
i really just think you should relax, there is no rush for anything. What is meant for you, will be revealed, I promise. It is important to try and establish a connection with your spirit guides. Talk to them, and they will respond in some form or anther shortly. They will guide and help you with whatever you ask, but you must ask. We all have spirit guides for this purpose. Call upon yours today, and relax:)
Mnm0409 (guest)
15 years ago (2009-05-10)
i have a same exsperience and I'm 13 all you need to do is make cotact and ask him some questions become friends ask him if he has any unfinshed buisness good luck tiffany 😊
vendettaBabes (3 stories) (335 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-10)
Why shant' you not work on the opening or balancing of your chakras? Also, numbers have always been very very important. They bring with themselves power and knowledge, but to receive it correctly you must be able to understand it. Do some research for it, but MAKE SURE YOU BALANCE YOURSELF FIRST. This is something most people cannot understand; Perfection means Balance.

foxfire290 (6 stories) (7 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-09)
I have seen and heard things since a child and my kids and her kids see also. The house we lived in for years had a bad entity in it it was very spiteful. I always tried to protect my daughter best I could. Basically how we survived is pretending we didn't see it didn't feed into it. And never ever discussed it in the house at all. It messed with us but I guess because we didn't acknowledge it, it figured we didn't see it. All I can say is use your gut instincts always if you sense danger listen and heed the warning signs. I'm 47 and only now have I ventured to converse with a spirit but I am still cautious.
mystical2 (16 stories) (483 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-09)
I have had experiences with the paranormal and such since childhood. For the most part I have tried to ignore it at certain times in my life and that didn't work for me. I more or less went with the flow. Now I live with several spirits in my home. All I can say is be very careful and trust your instincts. If it doesn't feel right then it more than likely isn't. All spirits stuck here do have some type of negativity with them, some more severe than others. And of course, there are the others who are tricksters and want to attach. Most need help crossing over, however you still need to be careful. Learn protection. Without knowing how to protect yourself, it can be dangerous. All my life until recently I never knew about protection. My health is taking a toll now. Spirits can mess with your feelings and cause health problems. I now have found a teacher who is helping me and teaching me. Adventually my health should get better. I recently wrapped white light around a very negative spirit and angered her. My cat died 3 days later; his organs shut down. I am not trying to put fear into you; fear is not good. I'm just saying it is better to learn how to protect yourself before moving ahead. Hope this is helpful.
psyvamp (5 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-08)
well I've had my gift for under a year you will stop being scared after the dead becomes as boring as the living or you see the good in mediumship like I have a unhelthy relationship with a dead girl she is like a sister to me
Ruth (4 stories) (156 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-08)
Hey Alex, I couldn't agree with you more!

Good going!

Ruth - medium 3 years 😆
Br1tt4ny (3 stories) (28 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-07)
Tiffany: There are spirits everywhere you have to become used to them. In my particular case I tried to close the door and lived with mild experiences since. Now that I have had some troubling encounters I am forced to refocus my mind on my gifts and seem to have opened a flood gate. I say learn and go with it meditate and accept without fear. Journaling helps me.
alex_ (5 stories) (24 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-07)
I know how you feel! I'm a teen and just discovering things about my self like this.

You're also not alone on the whole terrified home front. I've had a deep fear of ghosts and looking in mirrors (in the dark) for a long time. If I hadn't learned how to get over my fear recently, I probably would've been scared for you!
I know what it's like to be scared of something that you don't really understand, and don't want to fear. It's hard, being afraid, no matter how scary it is.

What really has saved me was meditating on the White Light. I haven't been scared since. I'm also 17, and a beginner Medium and strong Empath.

What I did was:
1. Learned about ghosts as much as I could. I had run into ghosts before in dreams and in my consciousness. It's a scary thing! But once I began doing research and watching shows and interviews, I began to really understand ghosts and the after life. This helped release a lot of my fear. It may not seem like it, but it makes a difference.
2. I learned about the scary parts of the afterlife, and read up on really scary (and TRUE) ghost stories and stories about demons. My personal opinion is as scared as the stories make me, I NEED to know what the worst can do. Otherwise, I'm clueless. Personally I watch "A Haunting" on Discovery Channel and read stories on here about possession and such things. A Haunting is people telling their ghost stories. Haunted homes, demonic possession, and all of it is pretty extreme. They also do reenactments as well as have the people narrating their story. It's interesting and realistic.
To me knowing the worst prepares me.
3. Meditation! I made sure to do research on this first though. When you're meditating you are opening yourself up to the psychic world and the paranormal and you must protect yourself from bad entities and demons! I say the Lord's Prayer and Meditate on the White Light two or three times a day. (As recommended to me by a well-experienced medium)

Three easy steps that have helped me on my path to completely conquering my fear and making me a better Medium and Empath.

Hope this helps! If you want advice or just to talk to another beginner medium your age my email is:
Alexfershizz [at]

Good luck! May God bless you and keep you safe!

Alex [:
Taurusgirl10 (8 stories) (113 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-07)
You shouldn't be afraid.
I've seen the spirit of a ten year old girl drenched in blood.
You shouldn't be scared of it.
They probably just need your help.
Just like the little boy on the movie sixth sense, maybe they need to tell you something.
I have no idea what the number twenty three means.
But it's incredibly creepy that I've been seeing numbers too.
I've been trying to figure that out.
If I find out what the numbers mean, I'll be sure to tell you.

Till then,
XtjrX (7 stories) (300 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-07)
Tiffany: Numebers are significant. Perhaps find yourself a "gematria" server. In different languages letters have a # value associated with them. Enter 23 into one or several such gematric decoders, maybe you'll find something that resonates with you. My # is 270:) Also, when you TRULY believe you can do, your ability can very much go into hyper drive, and it's totally overwhelming. When I was really scared I empowered myself by studying up on my experiences, and of course comming here to have a sense of community. I hope this helps you some.
CeeDee (1 stories) (36 posts)
15 years ago (2009-05-07)
Hi Tiffany,
Many spirits you will encounter wants to make a contact with you, all are not suitable for you. Choose wisely.
You may try to establish a contact with higher energy that will help you in guidance in the astral plan. Meditation is a good way to achieve this.

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