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Ever since I was little I have always felt different, some how not normal but I never would have suspected that I would ever be haunted. The continuous experiences happened over three years and after a while I was getting so scared and traumatized that I had to tell my mom what was going on. I told her about everything that had happened. There was a little blonde hair, blue-eyed girl in my closet just sitting there, taunting me, and staring at me. She was just begging for my attention and it and she continued to get it. I said to my mom, "What is going on?" And she said I was imagining it all but I wasn't.

After a period of time I became able to see different people all over who weren't in really old fashioned clothing. One experience really freaked me. I was outside the grocery store and I saw a homeless man on the sidewalk. I walked up and gave him a dollar and it dropped on the floor my mom said, "What are you doing?" I pointed to the man and I looked back but he was gone so I ran to my mom and started crying I was so scared.

Five months later I saw the little girl again but this time I heard the name 'Christina' and 'Stew'. Two days later a letter came in the mail for a Christie Stuart so we sent it back. To this day I still see the little girl in my closet and other people. I have two big questions for you 1. Am I psychic or imagining it? 2. Is this normal for an eleven year old?

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stormtree (1 stories) (53 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-19)
1) Yes, this is psychic.

2) It is absolutely normal for an eleven year old girl who is sensitive to spirits.

Some people think of "normal" as being like everyone else. Well, lots of people have experiences like this and push them down because they are afraid people won't believe them. So you're different because you are sensitive and you are not pushing it down. Good for you.

Some people say "normal" when they mean healthy. And those who don't understand psychic stuff think that anyone who sees what others don't is having a hallucination, meaning that they are not healthy.

It was my job for thirty years to help people who were not mentally healthy. You sure sound healthy to me. And hallucinations don't tend to have accurate mailing addresses, anyway.

And by the way, as far as feeling "different" goes...I'll let you in on a secret. Most people do, whether they admit it or not. And on top of that, most people aren't as aware as you are.

But this part is very important: you talked about being scared and confused. I'm really glad that you posted here. It is important for you to find safe grown ups and friends who understand about ghosts and things.

If you have any other questions, feel free to post here again. It's important that you feel safe and get answers.

SarahMarie33 (2 stories) (10 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-19)
completely normal! Actually, there are a lot of people your age who have been like you.:) I'm 19, and know about four others around my age.

Thanks for sharing this! I don't see people, but I see visions sometimes and pick on peoples emotions and pain.

So I wish you luck in the future and hope you stick with your psychic ability. Don't close off, just learn to harness it and control it.:) Goodluck! Remember you are never alone, there are plenty of people just like you who feel the way you do
Pho (10 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-16)
My lil cusun tiggy has had a lot of experiences like that we don't know what but we think hes haunted by more then one ghost... I feel really bad for you I hope you don't start seeing them in dreams.
DiandraSaysRelax (10 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-16)
the word normal could have different meanings depending on the specifics. Some people see these things so you aren't alone. I wouldn't call it normal, because it's not for some people. But I wouldn't call it something that is neccessary to get all overwelmed about. I don't believe you are imagining this. Just relax. Try not to be so scared.:)
blue_fire (1 stories) (39 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-16)
You are normal darling! I have a daughter and son about your age and they see the same things as you. I also saw spirits when I was your age, I see them from time to time now, but it is more likely now for them to come to me in my dreams. Be careful not to open yourself up to the ones that feel bad or evil to you, block them out and ignore them, but you should have no problems with the ones that are good. Also, be sure not to get involved with saunces and Ouija Boards to make contact with the other side. It is possible to open a "door" to the wrong place. In addition do not get mixed up in witchcraft and things of that sort, if you need to find information about how to handle your gift, read the Bible there is information in the bible about your gift. Or in the very least if your family happens to be atheist ignore the occult books, or if you are another religion look in that religions book. There is information about all sorts of gifts including seeing spirits in the Bible, Koran, Hebrew bible and Septuagint, and many others. In the very least darling always consult God about your gift and be sure to block out the Devil, if you are a believer. Not trying to scare you with the Devil talk he cannot effect you if you believe in God and Jesus, he can scare you but he cannot effect you unless you let him. My mother also always told me that I was just seeing things, but to those who have not experienced things like we have or that do not remember seeing these things as as a child have a hard time processing the possibility of the existence of these things. Be patient with your mother and please do not lose confidence in confiding what you see and what happens to you in your mother. Her heart is in the right place, but she may not be able to understand what is happening to you and therefore not able to understand how it feels for you to truthfully feel like you have seen these things and for her to deny that these things are possible. Have faith, Have confidence in your mother, and know that you ARE normal!
visioner116 (3 stories) (22 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-15)
i'm the same age as you and I think you should calm yourself down. I hav it worser than you. I see murders and screaming. I think you need to relax and think this over.
XtjrX (7 stories) (300 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-14)
I'm going to take a poke at this "normal" concept definition-if nothing else it should generate fruitful dialogue.

I think most people use the word "normal" as: A base line or starting point from which we/they measure the validity of our/thier own personal experiences.

However, normal is different across culteres, and what is or isn't normal changes all the time even within the same culture. I guess what I mean is: normal isn't constant, it's just an assumption of what our collective reality "should" be like seen through the eyes of everyone else at that point in time.

The whole point of this reply s: normal is confusing. It won't get you closer to the answers you are seeking.

Just be... :)
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
14 years ago (2009-05-14)
Seeing spirits is quite normal for a 4yr old (the age my husband first saw a spirit). Its quite a world to live in.
Sounds like you received a letter showing confirmation:Christina Stew lived and passed away there where you live.
Proof your not imagining what you saw was real, it can fill quite overwhelming:living in a dual world. Which is regular reality/which is spirit!...blessings
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
14 years ago (2009-05-14)
Define normal. It's normal that children can see and hear things most adults cannot. It's "normal" that parents tell their children that it's their imagination because it's been so long since they themselves might have had something like that happen to them, and their parents told them it was their imagination. It's normal for you to grow out of this because you don't want to feel different and there is social pressure to conform.

However, you may also wish to explore this, talk to these people so see what they want, help them cross over and further your abilities and maybe even teach children down the road that they are normal to have this ability. The best teachers are the ones who have walked the path so this might be a very interesting future for you.

Thanks for sharing and keep asking questions and doing your research. You're not alone, you're not imagining it and continue being strong.

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