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I am able to "feel" spirits and sometimes see them. Can everyone do this? I have heard people say they can, but I don't think they can to be honest. But anyway, how can I use this and make my ability stronger? I meditate but that's it. I can now see outlines of spirits at night and when I try hard enough I can see the aura of my hand,

A year ago I saw a spirit. It was a man, and to this day, I can still describe him perfectly. I thought I was the only one able to see him except the dog. But then a couple weeks ago my friend told me he saw him too. Ever since he saw him he has had premonitions. I haven't been able to see earthbound spirits very much since the incident with the man. But I started meditating and now I kind of can.

A couple weeks after the camping trip where I saw the man, I was spending the night at my friend's house and we were in her attic (all three of us me, her, and one other girl). They went down in the kitchen and I remember only spacing out to feeling him there. I saw a flash of him and felt his emotions. I don't remember them to this day though. I do remember that I was not scared yet, I started to cry. My friend is still scared of her attic when I know places aren't always haunted, people are.

Just last night I was meditating, then the room grew very hot then dropped to a very cold temperature. I didn't think much of it until I opened my eyes and saw something, an aura I think. So I concentrated on my hand and saw my aura. It was amazing yet weird. I had never tried this before. I have the normal extra sensitive mind but I also have this. Its odd but I love having it.

I only tell my closest friends but its hard to tell them because it sounds like I'm lying and it's from a movie. Well, it's not. I want to learn how to strengthen my ability so I can communicate with earthbound spirits even more. If anyone can help me then please do so. Thank you very much

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Gaois (1 stories) (7 posts)
9 years ago (2013-02-08)
For me, medium ability is strongly, reeaallly strongly connected to empathic ability. I've had a particular thing happening repeatedly for a couple of years. When I 'see' my now familiar spirits, I go to my empath place, to feel what emotions I am able to pick up. It really helps. If I pick up emotions, I place myself into meditation, focus on crown and heart chakras. It's not a very drawn out process. For me meditation is the key. Also, another person, or a tape recorder is helpful, because I can't remember everthing when I come out of meditation state. I try to meditate daily on the Chakras. It helps LOTS with making the connection. I don't think I could do it otherwise.
creasybear (10 posts)
9 years ago (2012-10-31)
Some opinions here please.

As a young boy, age 5-6 I could apparently see ghosts, but I cannot remember this. 29 years later I have had a few incidents that I find abnormal.

I can sense the mood or vibe of a situation / people.
Normally it is confirmed that my feeling was correct.

I see blackish objects in a distance, mostly moving.

When looking at photos of myself, there are normally orbs in the background. With my oldest son, now 3years, there is an orb in about 50% of his pictures.

I smell scents. I smelled a strong tobacco scent the one night, and the following day received word that a friend had passed away the same time I smelled the scent. The other night I smelled a sweetish ether scent, not sure what that was about. Also smelled a strong male cologne, I think this could've been my best friend that passed away or grandfather - not sure.

Then there was a recent incident where I was about to sleep, then I heard my name being whispered in my ear, my ear actually tingled. I really got a fright.

I also got a feeling of being watched in a house, then later found out there is/was a ghost of a little boy in the house.

What do I do from here? Am a bit unsure / scared! 😉
SoutherAtHeart (1 stories) (12 posts)
12 years ago (2009-12-24)
Do you meditate with your eyes open or closed?
Southern At Heart
cookie145 (2 stories) (3 posts)
12 years ago (2009-08-06)
I am right there with you, I am working on my medium abilities to strenghthn them. For quite a while now I have been able to see spirits. I is fightening, but it is cool. I wiould just meditate and focus on myself and my surroundings, and I can just see them. So practice and practice
Cookie 😁
joshua (guest)
12 years ago (2009-07-04)
Hi there
Wow, looks like your on a journey of a lifetime. I will tell you now, you will never look back once you start on a spiritual path. It ia the most amazing experience you will ever have, and for those of them that do not believe you, don't worry, let them live in their own little world. I started my journey about 20 years ago with visions out of no where, thenigs that I saw happened, I became better and better at what I did. I can now invoke spirit and ask them questions, I get answers in the shape of symbols or I hear sounds or I see an anccual picture of what it is. I have regular visits from spirit, a lot of my family and friends who have passed come back to me. I quite often feel the side of my bed drop as if someone is sitting on it. Then I will get something in my third eye telling me who it is, then I know. I have had many many experiences that would turn most normal peoples hair grey. But! Once you learn about the other side and understand its not like the films of Freddy Kruger, it really is a great place, and not scary at all. This is my first visit on here. I hope to talk to many. I used to be on bad I could only take so much of being bullied so left. There were a few nice people on there however.
I am looking forward to talking.
Love and Light to you all.
Joshua 😉
White_Butterflies (1 stories) (6 posts)
12 years ago (2009-07-04)
I am also working on mediumship, along with other things. My advice to you is to research as much as possible. Librarys, the interenet, heck, even the phone-book! A good book I've receantly been reading is "So You Want to Be a Medium?" by Rose Vanden Eynden. There are so many others, and I wish you the best of luck! All the research realy does pay off!
epoy1984 (14 stories) (644 posts)
12 years ago (2009-07-03)
Hi melielyn1. Can you be my special friend? Here is my yahoomail that is cabal_online28 [at] you ever had a time send me mails so that we can communicate privately. By the way can you send me your picture?. Good day =)
physic_needing_answers (1 stories) (6 posts)
12 years ago (2009-07-03)
well, I'm glad that you want to continue strengthaning your powers as I do, but I'm afriad I have no help for you right now as I am in the same boat, looking for the same answers.
12astile (20 posts)
12 years ago (2009-07-02)
One night I in bed just about to fall asleep, when something
Started to brush my eye brow, I said to myself (in my head)
"what you have a eye brow fetish?"and I got a response
Saying "like what your into isn't weird".

I didn't sleep to well that night

Has something like this ever happen to you?
Taurusgirl10 (8 stories) (113 posts)
12 years ago (2009-07-01)
I'm a lot like you. I've been able to see spirits ever since I was little. When I was three, I tlked to someone that no one else saw. And it wasn't an imaginary friend. When I found that out, I went on this website and started submiting stories. I can also see auras.
One thing that you could try to do to strengthen you mediumship is try to concentrate when you think you see a sprit.
Ask it a question and see if you hear it answer.
Try it out with a tape recorder first. Ask a question and let it answer into the tape recorder. If it answers, then you know it can hear you and you can communitcate with it.
Follow everyone's advice and then try again, this time without the tape recorder. See if you could actually hear it answer with your ears this time. And sometimes a spirit can communicate with a medium telepathically, which is through the mind, so keep your mind open to it.
Hope that advice helped. If you have any questions, my e-mail is,

Soniarz63 [at]

shadowmind (3 stories) (17 posts)
12 years ago (2009-06-26)
I myself am trying to strengthen my own medium abilities... I also meditate a lot and I practice "opening myself up" if that makes sense. Property is also haunted not just people. Ever since we moved into the house we currently live in, I have seen the ghost of a little girl. It's not always a clear look, sometimes its just an outline. There is one room in the house that odd things happen in. Different smells come and go. Last night, my sister said, "Maybe she died in a hospital." and the room smelled so much like a hospital that if you didn't know any better you would think you were in one.
To communicate with them, you might try talking to them like you would a normal person and see if you hear anything back. Sometimes, if you listen closely, you can hear them say things to you. Its not always clear or easy to understand.
Not everybody sees or feels the ghosts and spirits around them. I believe that everyone has the ability to, but most haven't discovered it or don't wish to acknowledge it or just flat out doesn't believe in it.

Brittni 😁

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