Hello my name is Corey (I am a 15 year old male) and my girlfriend's name is Nadia (she is 15 years old as well). I shall start from the very beginning, when Nadia was 4 years old her father committed suicide and changed her life forever; ever since then she has been able to see dead people (like her father, uncles, and her grandfather; also on occasion a 5 year old little girl named Kaityln (she has never known a little girl of this age or name). Well whenever she sees these people in does not scare her that much anymore unless they touch her, because she is used to most of it.
Ok, well my father died November 14, 2010 and Nadia has never met my father or seen him but for some reason he went to her and talked to her a couple of times and he told her that he hated her, I do not know why my father would hate her but when he told her why he said it was because whenever she would self harm I would too because it makes her stop because she starts to care about me; but that was why he told her he hates her is because he blames her for me self harming and he told her she is a bad influence on me.
Alright well now back what I am trying to get at, this past Sunday the 29th me and her were on the phone around 2AM and she told me everything that I just told you in the paragraph above; and after she told me that she started to cut herself so I cut myself to make her stop and as soon as I started she said she saw my father (for the first time) and he tried to take her body over in a sense, but he stopped for a little while so she said she was going to open her cut back up and I said no and I cut again and as soon as I did so she started choking like something was choking her and she said she knew it was my father.
What I just want to know is why would my father be doing this he made his peace on this earth and he should be in heaven but why would he not be? Me and Nadia both believe God is the one true God but we do not pray or anything I do every once in awhile but she does not. But back to topic is there anyway to make my father leave her alone and leave her alone?
P.S. My step brother still has my fathers ashes and we are going to put his ashes on his mothers grave here in the next week or two.