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Does She Have A Gift And If So Why Does It Hurt Her?

 

Hello my name is Corey (I am a 15 year old male) and my girlfriend's name is Nadia (she is 15 years old as well). I shall start from the very beginning, when Nadia was 4 years old her father committed suicide and changed her life forever; ever since then she has been able to see dead people (like her father, uncles, and her grandfather; also on occasion a 5 year old little girl named Kaityln (she has never known a little girl of this age or name). Well whenever she sees these people in does not scare her that much anymore unless they touch her, because she is used to most of it.

Ok, well my father died November 14, 2010 and Nadia has never met my father or seen him but for some reason he went to her and talked to her a couple of times and he told her that he hated her, I do not know why my father would hate her but when he told her why he said it was because whenever she would self harm I would too because it makes her stop because she starts to care about me; but that was why he told her he hates her is because he blames her for me self harming and he told her she is a bad influence on me.

Alright well now back what I am trying to get at, this past Sunday the 29th me and her were on the phone around 2AM and she told me everything that I just told you in the paragraph above; and after she told me that she started to cut herself so I cut myself to make her stop and as soon as I started she said she saw my father (for the first time) and he tried to take her body over in a sense, but he stopped for a little while so she said she was going to open her cut back up and I said no and I cut again and as soon as I did so she started choking like something was choking her and she said she knew it was my father.

What I just want to know is why would my father be doing this he made his peace on this earth and he should be in heaven but why would he not be? Me and Nadia both believe God is the one true God but we do not pray or anything I do every once in awhile but she does not. But back to topic is there anyway to make my father leave her alone and leave her alone?

P.S. My step brother still has my fathers ashes and we are going to put his ashes on his mothers grave here in the next week or two.

Thank You

Corey

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animaltalker (13 posts)
 
9 years ago (2011-07-12)
maybe your father doesn't want you to grow up to fast. I know mine doesn't want me to date until I am 18 so ya! Tell your girlfriend to just ignore him and yes so ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm also pray to God for help it might help. 😊
whitebuffalo (guest)
 
9 years ago (2011-01-22)
I just HAD to check back in.
Everything OK over there, coreywodonnell?
Thank you.
A5 (2 stories) (144 posts)
 
10 years ago (2010-12-15)
People call it a gift. She has it and sometimes it's more like a curse. Taking the pain of others is hurting her. Your pain because of that hurts her as well, but she's glad you're there. Neither of you want a problem with your father.
(see sage advice below. Also, tell her about this website. It's perfect.) ❤
A5 (2 stories) (144 posts)
+1
10 years ago (2010-12-15)
Corey~
First I just have to say it's good to hear that you listen to your girlfriend's experiances and stay with her. That has got to be helping already.
Second your father watched you and saw that you cut yourself assuming it was her fault. When she cuts herself it's because she feels helpless and like she can't do anything to stop what's happening. She doesn't understand what's going on. People except for you must think she's crazy and she might not want professional help for that reason.
Cutting herself is releif in a strange way. It's because the physical pain is better than the emotional and easier to take. You cutting yourself because of her is not helping. It must cause her more pain and it helps neither of you. I can see why you would, but she really just needs someone to talk to who believes in her and wants to help. For her that is you and she is extremely lucky to have that.
You may want to tell her a little advice coming from my friend. He is a ghost himself and I don't think I could do without him. -Hurting yourself because of others being hurt doesn't make the others stop hurting. It only puts more pain in the world. There is a better way to stop everyone from hurting and that starts with you. Once you stop that you can help the other people and have a better effect on everyone.
If both of you stop cutting yourselves you'll feel better about everything and so will your dad. The world doesn't need any more poltergists. Ask her to try talking it out with him, while you are with her.
I'm sure he doesn't want to hurt you, and hurting your girlfriend must be just as bad. Do this and he might be able to make amends with her and you.
Not that experiance talks or anything, but cutting yourself makes nothing better. On the contrary it makes life suck worse when that is possible.
Please listen to our advice and always to your girlfriend.
Hope this helps
~A5
ZiShu (129 posts)
-3
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
Hello Corey
I can help you and your girlfriend.
My friends have her abilities. We can relate what she is going through. We can help her not be so stressed out with these experiences.
I do not believe that is your father that she sees but a Devil disguising as your father to fool her. I will be able to stop him. But first we must contact each other. Email me please, its important. It worries me that you both have to do such much pain to each other just to get through with this. This is not the way. Listen to everyone else how to deal with this.
lilylove (3 stories) (362 posts)
+1
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
even if you do love each other this isn't something you can solve if your girl can see your dad and he saying he hates her it might be his way of trying to say she needs to stop with her cutting and he doesn't want you to be hurting youself just to make her stop. Sure maybe you don't understand why your dad said what he said but I can see that your dad cares for you a lot but please for you and Nadia sake get her to seek help again she does need help even if she cuts once or twice a month you said so yourself that she has a lot of stress and stress is bad at 15 or any young age. Don't think of this as a mess she needs help and sorry if my words are harsh but seriously be realistic your actions won't always help her I hope you relize that. Good luck
coreywodonnell (1 stories) (3 posts)
 
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
Yes but if I tell her that than she will continue to do it and I do not want her to continue to cut, so I do like a cut or two and she stops. I know we love each other and I think she understands that if she does it than I do it; which than make everything in my story happen. So its just a big mess that needs to stop.
Corey
moonshine (123 posts)
+3
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
Okay, Corey. Then maybe it's time for some "reverse" psychology. Tell her you refuse to continue to do this, as you feel it is keeping your Father from the peace he deserves. And stick to it! Don't give in to her. Tough love my friend. It's tough for all involved. ❤
coreywodonnell (1 stories) (3 posts)
+1
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
Thank you all for your concer. Well she has had some help before and it kind of helped. She only cuts like once a month or two and I only do it to make her stop. I'm trying my hardest to get her to stop she just has a lot of stress. I get what your saying about my dad being mad Anne and when I said he made his peice I'm saying my mom and him (they've been divorced for five years) held hands and prayed when he was in the hospital two weeks before he passed. Thank you for you concern.
Corey.
whitebuffalo (guest)
+1
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
I have to totally agree with AnneV, moonshine, and lilylove.
Put a rubber band on both your wrists. When you feel like "releasing", snap that band. If it is not "sharp" enough a release, snap it harder.
It has been proven to work.
Wado (Thank you)
lilylove (3 stories) (362 posts)
 
10 years ago (2010-12-04)
Your girlfriend really needs help it not ok to cut yourself even if it helps to make her stop. I can see why your dad worried but you can't be doing this she needs real help and to be honest your not that person and you can't help her. Someone else needs to. You have to tell her mom or an adult before she does something bad.
moonshine (123 posts)
+2
10 years ago (2010-12-03)
Well, I think your girl is sensitive to the paranormal. However, I feel she's being deceitful. She's not seeing your Father. It seems like a good way to get more attention from you. She knows that when she starts to cut, you will too. This in and of itself SHOULD be cause enough for her to stop for good, if she truely cared for you. Personally, if this is your father, I don't blame him one damn bit. I'd haunt someone who was causing my child to hurt themselves too.

Please do both of you a favor and seek help. I think a little bit of on line searching is all it should take to find someone who can help. ❤
Marluxia (2 stories) (6 posts)
+2
10 years ago (2010-12-03)
I understand, and sometimes cutting can be a way to relieve stress. I stopped whenever I discovered more of my psychic abilities. Although I could say go get her help, that is an obvious answer. If your looking for a different less obvious answer. I'll tell you what I did. I used to cut myself too, because I lost my best friend who threw himself off a three story building. That's when I got more in touch with my psychic part of me that I always tried to ignore. Sometimes through deep meditation, something inside a person can change. Also by amplifying your psychic abilities, sometimes you can see more then just the bad things. He could possibly have given her a warning that she could have missed before because her ability wasn't to it's fullest. Perhaps your father had more to say then just "i don't like you." maybe she just didn't hear it. Of course there isn't much of a psychic cure for depression that I know of. But perhaps that answer may be enough. If not please feel free to email me. The email address is on my page
AnneV (4 stories) (1045 posts) mod
+4
10 years ago (2010-12-03)
Corey, How can your father be at peace in the afterlife while his son is hurting himself? He went to her because she is the root of this. This girl isn't just harming herself but you and your father in return. If you love this girl, you should tell her mother to get her help. She's obviously suffering from her past and cannot fix this on her own. If her mother is the source of her problems then you might consider a counselor or teacher. Cutting yourself, as you have seen time and time again, does not fix her problem. It only temporary halts her efforts. She needs professional help, not a boyfriend who prolongs her mental illness through participation.

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