Here's my situation (this will be long, I apologize in advanced). I have had premonitions my entire life. The "ability" runs in my family, Mostly auras (which I actually cannot see and the 3 times I have, it wasn't good). During my awake hours, I get the "Gut feeling" and little tidbits of info before things happen etc, But My Dreams and premonitions are why I'm writing here today. Because I don't understand it, and it makes me look (and feel) like a complete loon when I try to talk about it.
Like I said above, I have always had premonitions through dreams. As far back as I could remember I've always had extremely vivid dreams, and I remember 98% of them to a tee, including such details as background noises and smells. My parents always attributed it to me being sensitive (though my mother has always fostered it in me- she has it) When I was little I was terrified to go to sleep because of my dreams.
About a year ago, Something happened that I cannot explain, and it has been pure chaos ever since, which is where I need your help. There is this guy, that I don't know, but I know (we have a few mutual friends). He's a musician and everyone knows how I feel about him. I was at one of his shows, and the strangest thing happened. I was on a balcony looking down at the stage when he came out My boyfriend was standing behind me, when it happened. I was fiddling with my camera, when I got this strange feeling and saw a flash of green eyes and this voice told me to look down, I got this shiver up my spine and when I looked down he was staring up at me and when I made eye contact he smiled and nodded his head, and stood there for about 15 seconds and I heard the voice again that said "I knew you'd be here". And I stood there locked in some sort of trance for the entire set.
Afterwards, when My dude and I went home, he said to me, You know he was looking at you right? It was the strangest thing, I felt like I actually lost you in that moment (My guy is sensitive as well- mostly spirits).
The next day, We went on Youtube to see who had posted videos from the show, and we found one or 2 and my dude commented on them, like "I wonder who he was looking at?" when one of the posters replied "There was a girl in the balcony, wearing this shirt (described the shirt I was wearing). Out of the 4 videos that were posted, all 4 said he was looking at the same person (ME). Then on Facebook, I went to the bands page, and found this picture of him looking up and smiling, and I commented "Oh that's when he was staring at me" and the owner of the pic replied "Were you the one wearing the shirt? Because that's who he was staring at and it was the strangest moment". She and I are now actually really good friends because of this whole thing.
ANYWAY. About 2 days later, the dreams started. They all take place in the City/country he is from. And take place in Spots I had no idea were real (until I googled/started making friends with people that have been there). I have never been to this place, but I seem to know it like the back of my hand. At first I just thought it's my imagination, and they are just dreams (I seem to go into denial when these things happen). But then I started talking to a group of girls at first just for fun, and then we all bonded. The funny thing is, 3 of us have the same birthday, and if you do the time zone conversion, we were all born about the same time only years apart. The 4th one (whom I have the strongest bond with) is a different month and year. At one point, all of our dreams started to inter-connect and we all started appearing in each other's dreams, essentially, we all had the same dream from our own perspective. Same Place. Same time. Same scenario, and they all seem to revolve around me and him.
Because it is known of my "abilities/sensitivity" I can spot a phony a mile away, and it's very hard to be read by a true abled one because I'm apparently very strong (I have been asked to leave 3 times and been told that I'm too strong to read, and besides, I already know). I am able to have my cards read, but only by a true wiccan friend of mine and only over the phone (we both sit with a deck and somehow always get the same cards). My girlfriends and I had our cards read and all got the same thing, That we are all connected and were meant to find each other, Our friend (different month) is the core, and in all of our cards I came up as the Protector/Mother.
So, Flash forward to about a month ago. I started having even stranger dreams involving this person. I started feeling like I was being summoned to sleep, and when I would fall asleep, I would be there with him, and we would talk, and it's a flirting game. BUT This is where it gets strange. I had this experience that I was in his head. He was with someone and it was not the most opportune moment for me to be there, and I basically crashed his party. About a week and a half ago, I was in a car accident, and that Sunday was my birthday, that night I felt like I was summonsed to sleep and when I "got there" I woke up laying across his lap with him rubbing my head asking me what happened- I explained, stuff happened and he wished me a happy birthday and apologized for the distance, I just told him that I want to know this is real.
This past Sunday & Monday is what has me freaking out, wanting to know if I am bugging out/reading way too much into things, or is this truly my ability at work.
One of my girls that I share a b-day with, is in his country at the moment. I told her to go to his house just for kicks and giggles, and said it's o.k. He's home. I knew she was there, and I got this overwhelming panic feeling-that wasn't mine, and a flash of him, I was able to silently communicate and tell him Don't panic, don't call the cops, that is a friend of mine and I sent her there. I want to know this is real, if it is please tell her you got my message. So my friend basically trespassed and told me that she got scared and started running and as she was running down his driveway someone (she doesn't know who) came out and started yelling something. She called me about 15 minutes later and told me this, and that she panicked because there was a car in the driveway and I was able to spot on tell her what type & color and possibly whose car it was, without being there (that happens a lot btw). Flash forward to Sunday night/Monday/yesterday. I asked for another solid sign that my message was received. My friend was hanging out with a group of people and ended up at one of their apartments, and He came up. The person whose house she was at said "it's funny you should bring him up" and went into another room and came back with this scarf, and explained that it was his scarf that he gave her one night in a bar, and explained the story of how and why he gave it to her, and then she proceeded to give my friend the scarf, and said the words that have me convinced this is a sign, she said: I have a feeling that you deserve this more than I do, that it means more to you then it does to me.
My friend called me yesterday to tell me this and e-mailed me a picture of the scarf itself and a picture of him wearing that exact scarf.
Now. How am I supposed to take this? Am I reading way too into things as a series of coincidences or a clear sign of communication?
2 things to take into consideration:
In one of these dreams I saw a scar that at that time, I did not have, but I have it now.
I was able to identify specific pastries and what they had inside of them (despite never having been to this place and knowing it even existed).
What is this? And has anyone else ever experienced this?