You are here: Real Psychic Experiences :: Psychic Medium :: The Spirit of my Husband Sleeping Next to Me

Real Psychic Experiences

The Spirit of my Husband Sleeping Next to Me


This happened a couple of months ago. I was asleep and was in the "not quite awake" stage of waking up when I felt this pressure on my body. It wasn't enough to make it hard to breath but enough to keep me pinned to the bed. When I opened my eyes I saw the "spirit" of my husband sitting on my stomach area. The weird thing is that he is not dead and was fast asleep right next to me. I couldn't understand what was happening.

Just as I was about to open my mouth to say something, his spirit got off me and the pressure lifted off my body. I still couldn't move though. He left the room through the bedroom door and a second later the spirits of a little girl (about 6), an older girl (about 10) and a young boy (about 13) came walking into the room and sat on the bed. The boy sat at my feet, the little girl on the body of my husband next to me and the older girl just behind her. The spirit of my husband returned and sat back on top of me.

All of them were smiling at me and the little 6 year old reached out and held my hand. I then felt my body tingle all over, like pins and needles and the feeling came back to my arms and legs. The images of the spirits faded away but I could still feel the hand of the little girl in mine. As the feeling subsided I turned my head to look at my husband lying next to me still fast asleep.

I have never had an experience like this and was very confused as to whether I just dreamed it or if it was real. It felt like it was real as I don't recall "waking up" after the experience. I was fully conscious when I turned to look at my husband and when I could still feel the little girl's hand. I felt that they were trying to tell me something but I don't know where to start. If anyone can relate to my story or give me some indication of what it all means I would by highly grateful.

thank you


Medium experiences with similar titles

Comments about this clairvoyant experience

The following comments are submitted by users of this site and are not official positions by Please read our guidelines and the previous posts before posting. The author, Art, has the following expectation about your feedback: I will participate in the discussion and I need help with what I have experienced.

Timfaraos (426 posts)
7 years ago (2015-02-22)
My friend, why would your husband's spirit, or the child sit on your stomach? I think they were demons. Listen to this story: a lady friend of mine was being visited almost nightly, by her dead 3 year old nephew... They talked and laughed together. This went on for months. When she told her christian friend about it, her friend told her: 'I bet that it isn't your nephew! That it's a DEMON! Next time it comes, tell it: In the name of Jesus Christ, show me who you are!' Well, she did that, and guess what, the 'nephew' turned into an UGLY DEMON, and ran through the wall, leaving a rotten stench behind! LOL! My friends, the most dangerous enemy, is the one who wants you to think he doesn't exist!... Just like little red riding hoods grandma, who was a wolf in disguise... He comes to you disguised as cute little children, or poor dead people, that ask you for help! LOL! Don't trust them or talk to them... Just say: 'IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST, GO AWAY, AND GOD BLESS YOU!' Simple as that! Better safe than sorry. Visit website: 'real life angel and demon encounters'. See ya!
shay (1 stories) (2 posts)
12 years ago (2009-04-29)
Hi Hayley. I hope you check this msg. Last night I had the same experience! I googled it to find out more about what had happened, and your page came up.
Basically, last night I was awake and had a hard time falling asleep. Right now I am on the brink of a breakdown due to school stress, and stress in general. So to continue, last night, I was laying in bed, and all of the sudden my body felt really heavy, so heavy that I could not move it. A second later I felt my boyfriend next to me. MY BOYFRIEND IS ALIVE! HES NOT DEAD! WE DONT LIVE TOGETHER BUT HIS SPIRIT FULLY CAME TO ME. His hands were not on me, but I could feel his body next to mine, and his energy. Then I heard him talk to me and say something about cherries. Then he said he loves me and adores me. THEN he blew on my neck, but it was not a light blow; it was a strong blow of really cold air! I shivered for a second, and when I tried to move I couldn't. All the sudden I couldn't feel him next to me anymore, the heavy feeling went away, and I could move. I didn't see him, but I know he was there.

Did you find out what any of this means? I would love to know.
If anyone else can give me some answers I would love to hear it,
sarahan (23 posts)
13 years ago (2008-04-17)
Oh yeah; About the children. I meant to suggest reading Echo Bodine. I believe she is the psychic who advises calling on a team of angels (?) who will come in when requested to do interventions with stuck or lost or confused spirits and take them to the light. I think she called them The Rescue Squad. I got the impression it is made up of volunteers along the lines of Search and Rescue teams here. It sounds funny, but I hope it's true. It's hard enough to be helpless to aid the living. (Including ourselves, too often.)
sarahan (23 posts)
13 years ago (2008-04-17)
Maybe there is a third way to "puncture the auric field". Fear, lust, what about trust? I don't think this thing was Hayley's husband either. There are nasty people in this world who exploit children in order to gain a potential victims's trust, so why not in other dimensions as well?
Edmund (578 posts)
14 years ago (2007-12-06)
Leeny... How to help the children... That would take what I call and old soul type, pretty advanced spiritually. But I think that surronding them with love would help quite a bit. Spiritual experiences of mine I wouldn't know where to start just because I'm so ordinary ! I'll have to let a little bit out every now and then... Lest I put everyone asleep on this site !
CC113 (17 posts)
14 years ago (2007-12-05)
Hi Edmond,

I'm really enjoying your insight. Do you mind if I ask about your spiritual experiences? Also, do you think there is anything that can be done for the children? What if one surrounded them with love during meditation for 15 minutes or so. Do you think that could raise their consciousness enough for them to connect with there own spirit guides and break free?

Edmund (578 posts)
14 years ago (2007-12-04)
Leeny... I would need to be in the house for a while and talk one on one with Haley to know more.
Haley is aware now and it won't be easy for "Mr. Opportunity" to do his thing. Also some religious/spirtual advice from some well qualified spiritual advisor that they trust wouldn't hurt.
My experience with these spirit types is that they hate Love and family and if there is a nice loving family close by they will do everything to destroy it. He knows the three "spirit" children and has power over them... They were trying to seek motherly comfort from Haley and Haley... If it is a form of evil they grow weaker in the presence of Love and Faith... My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Leeny Mesquita (guest)
14 years ago (2007-12-04)
To Hayley:

The only person who knows the right direction to take is you. Think about your options, the highest/best choice is the one that brings you the most joy.

Does your husband have any memory of coming to you, or of the children?

To Edmund:

If Hayley's loves her husband, and believes he is her soul mate, then I can't understand why he would be sitting on her chest. Also, he's laying right next to her, why would he need to astral project? Why not just talk to her?

I think your explanation fits nicely. I understand adepts can change their appearance in that plane of existence. In that case what does it want? To harvest energy for it's own purposes? I understand there are only two ways to puncture the "auric field" (for lack of a better term) and gain access to creative power of someone's subconscious mind, through the survival instinct (fear) and the sexual instinct (lust). If it's masquerading as her husband and bringing in children I'm guessing it's shooting for the lust gateway (for now).

Since appearances can be so deceiving, how can one tell the difference? In my experience it's important to pay attention to the way an entity makes you feel. If she feels love and inspiration
it's her husband. If she feels confused and afraid something bad is going to happen, it's not.

I still don't understand the mechanism of targeting though. Any insight?
Edmund (578 posts)
14 years ago (2007-12-04)
Leeny... Your on to something, I'm just getting edgy feelings that the astral/etheric projection of Hayleys husband is really a spirit who is keeping the children earthbound. Especially since you keyed on the weight on Hayleys chest your 100% right when you say its not a positive sign.
Hayley (guest)
14 years ago (2007-12-04)
Hi Leeny

My relationship with my husband is very good, we are very close and I believe we are soul mates. He sometimes says he thinks I can read his thoughts because of my reactions to him or the things I say while he is thinking of something.
I have a daughter (not his) but he has been in her life since she was two and sees him as dad, she is now almost 7.
your explanation seems true to me as I have had other experiences with body vibrations that I've thought is astral projection but I also feel that CVT6072's explanation also holds water for me aswell. Which direction do I take?
thanks Hayley
Leeny Mesquita (guest)
14 years ago (2007-12-03)
Hi Edmund,

That is odd indeed. I think there are some interesting things going in this case. It sounds to me like they were also etheric/astral bodies (alive or not I don't know). I'm not comfortable speculating why her husband would bring them in, but in my experience that sensation of pressure on your chest is not a positive one. How she's feeling is going to be a big indication of what's happening.

Edmund (578 posts)
14 years ago (2007-12-03)
Leeny... I agree with you on the astral projection of her husband. But I am more interested in your thoughts on the children especially the 6yr. Old whom Hayley held hands with. Its not common at all.
Leeny Mesquita (guest)
14 years ago (2007-12-03)
I've had a very similar experience. It isn't a dream, you and your husband are not ill. You actually were in contact with an astral/etheric projection of your husband.

Do you mind if I ask how your relationship with your husband is? Do you or your husband have children?

Proceed with caution, but know this: you are in control. You are safe. I suggest looking into remote viewing and astral projection. I don't have all the answers yet, but if you want help erecting a protective barrier around yourself, I'd be glad to help!


CVT6702 (15 stories) (111 posts)
14 years ago (2007-11-23)
I reread your story and see I got it wrong you say stomach not chest, so I would think about that area.
You might tell him about the dream and ask him if he is having any pain or distress in this area.
Sometimes things like Constipation can also be an early warning on health problems if it is a constant problem.
CVT6702 (15 stories) (111 posts)
14 years ago (2007-11-23)
We will call this dream analysis.
I have been channelling for spirits for a long time, and quite often my dreams are delivering a message.
In the dream your husbands spirit is trying to get your attention, then he leaves the room and comes back with three spirits who are evidently the spirits of the dead.
I would now begin to watch future dreams carefully and see if you detect in the dreams that there is a threat or health problem in your husbands future that could lead to death.
If you do then you can take action to try to save him from an accident or health problem.
Sometimes dreams that seem not so nice are actually dream messages meant to help us avoid situations in our future.
Now your husband is sitting on your chest causing you pressure and pain and that might be a good place to start a problem with the heart or in the chest area so that could be about a medical checkup and perhaps some revisions in the diet.

To publish a comment or vote, you need to be logged in (use the login form at the top of the page). If you don't have an account, sign up, it's free!

Search this site: