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I Need A Mentor To Be A Medium


My experiences with entities started when I was 8 years old. I woke up at midnight and saw a transparent lady wearing a white gown and a veil. I couldn't see her face. I was so terrified and I thought she was going to kill me. I told my mother about it the next day, and she didn't believe me. Growing up I saw different things like a smoky hand coming from the ceiling or dark gray smoke coming from the ceiling but going towards the ground. I also experienced a smoky demon with red eyes and claws sucking the air out of me while I was half asleep half awake. I've seen shadow people and sometimes heard my name being called. Growing up, my mom had called me a liar and never believed me. I grew up feeling like I was weird and different. When I was a child, I dreamed of a house that I've never seen before. The next day, I went with my dad to his client's house and that was the exact house I saw in my dream. I am also a lucid dreamer. One night in college, I heard the sound of a crumpling plastic bag in the garbage next to where I was sleeping. I thought it was the cleaning lady until I realized that my I locked the bedroom last night. I knew it was a spirit so I made myself go into a state of mind like I was half asleep. There was a lady kneeling next to my bed. I asked her If she wants to tell me anything. She started talking but it sounded like she was under water and I didn't understand what she said. Then she got up and floated to the window. I also had an entity like a black figure with a hood like the grim reaper terrorized me while living in my bf's apartment 10 years ago. It was blacker than the darkest black and I felt that it was evil. It would stand next to my bed when I sleep. One time, it went under the covers with me. It will pop out next to me then disappear when I turn to look at it. It opens the door and turns off the cd player. I can sense it when it is present even though I couldn't physically see it at times. I had so many more weird experiences. Last year, I moved to Houston and I joined a psychic circle. I learned tarot and learned reiki. My mom started believing in what I do. Just then, my mom admitted to me that my grandma who passed away when I was 2, can see and talk to spirits and was also a healer. She also read tarot cards. I felt that my mom was ashamed of this, that's why she kept it a secret and called me a liar while I was growing up. I am now 31 years old. I want to help other people if I have the gift. I have no control about this. I just can't see spirits at will. It just happens sometimes. I would like to become a medium in order to help other people like my grandma did. I live in a northern suburb of Chicago. I would love to have a mentor or a friend who can guide me and help me improve in this. Thank you.

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JessicaD27 (1 stories) (2 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-07)
I would love someone to speak to as well. I had one at one point but then I never heard from her again so she left me terrified and just as confused. I have seen things, felt things, and heard things my whole life. I cannot control it and that scares me. If anyone can help me please email me at thesweetmombakery [at] Any help would be great and greatly appreciated!
bbdeathspark (4 stories) (617 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-05)
Whether you see the problem or not, it is Anne's site, and her rules are law. If you would inhabit this site you'd have to listen to her.
kraken (guest)
11 years ago (2011-11-05)
I honestly don't see the problem, I thought this site was to connect people with similar experiances, not to blacklist them because you worried about your sites potential. Just trying to help, this sites limited with communitaction and becomes messy after each post, I find communication capabilites are inordinately pedestrian
Eagleclaw (386 posts)
11 years ago (2011-11-04)
I agree with Anne.
Also, let us not forget that this is the one place and only place where anyone with an ability can come and get free advice and guidance from those who have advice to give. It's a way for us to help each other. Let's try to remember this fact.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
11 years ago (2011-11-04)
Kraken, if you want to start a Facebook place, then do so, but stop using my website (repeatedly I may add) to promote your page. If the format here doesn't work for you, please feel free to move on. No one is forced to be or stay here.

kraken (guest)
11 years ago (2011-11-04)
I just wanted to start a psychic group on facebook I use it on a daily basis, it would make communitcation less restricted more private and also institanious so we could work together live. I have been useing face book to prove my clairvoayce for about a year now... I've predicted one of my freinds positive futures as well as prevented one of my best freinds from getting raped and another from gettign arrested. The im'ing system is great for discussions. LEt me know ig anyone is intrested...
Mysticcrystal (1 stories) (4 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-31)
Hi, Kraken. What kind of group are you thinking about? Start one, I'll definitely join. Keep us posted.
kraken (guest)
11 years ago (2011-10-30)
Do any of you have a facebook? Would any of you like to start a group?
palmerific89 (8 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-29)
Im looking for a mentor I use to see them as well but I got really freaked sence then iv had dreams of people I know have resently past once my friend came to me he was sorry and wanted me to kno the next day I talked to a friend and they didn't know of my dream they told me he died 5 days ago iv been looking for help as well but one thing me and are alike my grandma and mom see spirits as well but its never really talked about my other grandma mastered tarot I have her notes and I do it as well my father lile your mom don't believe it but its not out of shame its fear and misunderstanding don't let your fear control you when they are around I know they seem to read minds. You can speck to them in your mind when you can't seem to talk.
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-27)
Sorry Ruths story: Suicide a Mediums experience,
Type into small box search at top right
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-27)
A Sensitive senses via feelings, intuition.
With psychic ability of one or more of the claires.
A Sensitive according to normal belief can train to become a Medium in giving proof that the deceased
Family member is ok.

It used to be said that a Medium is born not made by training. Now a days people are Mental mediums:
Using their psychic abilities. To bring proof of
Life after death from deceased to living.
Some of the skill is psychometry, sensitivity, and
One I was told heard messages and gave them but never
Saw the deceased soul.

A Medium communicates with deceased people to the living. This would include seight, hearing, feeling.
Not too many of these around.

There are Mental mediums whom use thoughts, feelings, sensations, sensitvity to give a reading.

Physical medium exzude ectoplasm or etheric energy of the deceased. In this instance the Physical medium serves as a hoist allowing the deceased person to speak directly to the living relative. The physical medium's voice would sound like the deceased and the physical hue that resembled the deceased would shadow over the medium.

Trance medium- channels information which can be a higher soul as: Angel, spiritual mystic, to inlude a deceased family member.

As for your abilities. You described a woman whom drawned.
An energy that is gray can be a soul, and depending on its
Activity can be an earth energy.

The etheric plane is very close to the physical and
When we are in a precognitive state: half awake and asleep, suffer paralysis and see both worlds, even

Some of what you say is due to the fact the area
Had a discarnate soul still here.

Normally many mediums train first with the tarot and use this as a tool. Then people go into classes for platform readings for mediumship. There are also psychic fairs in US when one feels comfortable.

There are stores as Psychic Eye which has classes.
Psychic shops have a few weeks or weekends.
You also have options of the two spiritualist churches in Chicago, also google: Metaphysical Church which may have specific courses without having to join. = for the tarot.
They ask for a donation. Sorry but I never joined. My own training came from a school I used to go to
In England.

Some of the exercises you can practice are using
A deck of playing cards face down. Guess what color,
Then as you progress guess what suit, or what symbol.
2nd) have a friend draw a picture and you draw what you see.
Use items from friends or co-workers, give information
That comes to you to the individual.
From a friend or family member-do reading from pictures. Tell them if they are alive or dead with

See Search this site: type in
Suicide-A Medium's Experience-Psychic and Medium Experiences.
My encouragement would be to use
Protection and learn about clearing your home and area plus understanding cold reading-when you've never met a person. Then cold reading-which is reading physical gestures to make a educated guess
To give a reading.
Learning about energy exchange is important from the
Point we exchange and can be depleted from a reading.

Here is a story from Ruth.
I can't speak of mentoring from her.
But she used to be open to help people from time to time.

Hopefully this will help the two of you looking for some answers.
ashley_3584 (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-27)
Im also looking for a mentor. I've researched mentor classes etc and they want a substantial amount of money. I know I'm a medium, and an empath but I don't have any control over it. If anyone at all can please help me my email is ashley_3584 [at]
Mysticcrystal (1 stories) (4 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-26)
Thank you PathR. I was reading some of the stories here. What is the diffirence between sensitive vs a medium? Am I a medium? The only time I tried to communicate with a spirit was when I tried to talk to the lady kneeling next to my bed and I wasn't able to understand what she said.
I moved back to Chicago 4 months ago. I haven't had a chance to join another group here because I don't have anybody to watch the kids anymore like before.
It would be nice to have some guidance to develop a gift if I have it. I'm still not sure if I'm a medium. I was thinking, maybe the places where I've seen the spirits were just haunted and it is not because I have a gift that I saw these things. If you have ghostly experiences, does that make you a medium?
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
11 years ago (2011-10-26)
Looks like you are on your way since joining
A group.
Practice is good.
For some pointers back track some of the stores and
Look from Ruth from Australia, she is a medium
And would be a good source.
Also there is a woman whom was a medium to
Princess Diana when she was alive.
Her name is Sally Morgan.
As a child she saw spirits all the time and was
Taken to a spiritualist church which taught her
To embrace and work with her seight.
She too inherited her abilities via her grandmother.

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