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Empathy Or Guts?

 

So, as I stated in my last story, which I suggest you read if you haven't otherwise this won't make sense, I am having immense feelings of empathy. Or at least I think I am. I am still quite unsure of what I have, though most of the people here that have made the effort to try to help me out have told me its empathy.

Sure, we all feel empathy to some extent, but as I have figured out, most people ignore this sense. My mom seems to say she agrees with me only because she wants me to feel good about my self, but she doesn't know I can tell. This hurts me more than if she were to just tell me she didn't believe me.

The only other people I have told are here on this website, and I feel like I need to tell someone. Of course, if my own mother won't believe me then no one I tell will. Not even the person I am almost positive I love. Don't judge me please, because I know it's weird to say I am an empath, and that I am truly in love when I am only 15, but bear with me here.

I want to know for certain what I am, empath or average. But I don't know what to tell you all. I guess I could start with some of my first feelings of empathy. Besides the crazy rapist man that dated my grandmother, of course. If you want to hear about that, you will have to read my first story.

For this story I will tell you a little bit about a girl who I would love to name, but won't. She is dating the boy I love. She is literally oozing evil, but only someone like me would notice without having to get too close to her. Sure, you could argue that it is simply because I am jealous that I feel like this about her, but that's not it at all. I can tell the difference between a fit of jealousy and a true vibe, and she is full of bad vibes. I felt it the moment I met her.

I met the boy I love one day back stage in a play, and since we were in the play (in a way) she had to come see it. I met her after the show while I was with the boy. He left me without a word and went to her. Yes, I was jealous, and even outraged when he came back to me like nothing happened after she left, but there was much more. Even before I knew she was his girlfriend, I felt the vibes, they smacked me like waves and made my head pound. She was terrible in so many ways and it only took a look to know it.

The back up evidence I got from people who were closer to her than I was the deal breaker, and I knew that she really was as I had suspected, evil. She is one of the most pushy and controlling people I have actually met. She is like the kind of girl you see on TV and want to jump into the screen and smash their face into the wall of the set. Yes, that bad. She wedged her way into the boy's life while he was dating this girl's friend. She just kept pushing her way in until he gave into her and started dating her instead, which obviously hurt the first girl's life in some way. Not only did she shove her way in there, she immediately began to control him and everything he did, not letting him hang out with his BEST friend from kindergarten just because she was insecure, pushing him to make bad decisions, and sending him so close to the edge various times.

She was so terrible to this boy, even after his parents divorced and a rumor was spread about him, which happened much too close together, that he one day was so close to the edge that he couldn't take it anymore and went outside in the winter with a short sleeved shirt on and chopped wood for three hours straight. Now, I can't possibly say what drove him to do this, but I know for certain it had something to do with the girl. All of the last few weeks of school I have sensed something within him, something he doesn't want to let anyone find, not his parents, not his brother, not his girlfriend, not his councilor, and definitely not me. But I see through his shield, which is an excellent shield to be honest, and it breaks me to pieces to know he is in so much pain underneath. I constantly worry he will do something irrational, worry that he will go over the edge once and never make it back, and I hope that I can prevent it someday if he will let me in.

Sorry for trailing on so long, that should have been two stories, I think. Regardless, thank you for reading, and please share your opinion on my 'empathy' (if you should decide to call it that,) it means a lot to me.

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Ladfyhawke (1 stories) (103 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-03-13)
JacAnn45,She knows about you. And there may be others she feels this way to also. Be aware that this young man will have to be the one to push her away or someone else like that will 'capture' his attentions again. If you send negativity towards her you will be being like her and it will change you. Better this young man sees the true nature of who you are to know there can be a different, better relationship for him, should he choose it. Also remember people have a tendency to defend rather than admit they have made a mistake... So this could take some time. Better you should send blessings to them both to find a better path. And live, in front of them, the better choice to show it can be different... He must decide, not you. Blessed be, Ladyhawke ❤ PS I believe you to be an empath caught in teenage emotion, this is a hard place to come through.
shadowrider13 (1 stories) (16 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-03-13)
i know it is tough for you. I have empathy too and I think I can relate to the guy your talking about. He feels alone and doesn't know who turn to. Hes probably worried if he should tell and if he does who. I know you said he doesn't want to tell anyone but its more than that hes worried what will happen if he does. All I'm trying to say is it doesn't matter if your his girl friend or friend I think hell confine to you if you just ask him if he can trust you to help him. Just ask him what's wrong and let your empathy flow with you and him. I don't know if you will ever be together but you can at least help him out with his problem. I know from experience on how he feels. Do what you want but just keep in mind how he feels and don't let jealousy corrupt you. Hope it works out shadow.
shapeshifter78 (2 stories) (169 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-03-12)
I hate people like this. They treat people like toys to play around with and leave them in scraps when they are done with that person. They are those people that date someone because they are the quarterback for the football team rather than because they like/love a person. Also just because a person has an aura of darkness does not necessarily mean they are evil or bad. They might have just felt a lot of pain and anguish in their life. And part of it may be just her being insecure with any other girl being around "her man". They are overjealous and this is shown when she pushed away his best friend.
kirstolena (1 stories) (26 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-03-12)
Take what I say "with a grain of salt" because I don't know you and I don't know your situation as well as you do.
But I've noticed sometimes, I feel what you're describing about people when they don't like me.
She might feel like you're a threat to her, if she senses your feelings towards that boy.

I'm definitely not saying that that's what it is, since you said you've also confirmed her personality with other people. Just something to think about.

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