Angel Of Death?

I can forget my name or my sex but I would never forget the first spiritual experience I had, it was very scary that a was scared to sleep for a couple of days. I sleep off on the rug beside a chair, something woke me up around midnight but I was awake in a funny kind of way, I was conscious of everything around me but I couldn't move yet I could hear the 'tick tock' coming from the wall clock. Then I sensed somebody walking round me to sit on the chair beside me, the person said just one name to my mind, the owner of the name was my pops friend. I was so scared that I forgot the message, the man died after 2 weeks. The second time was even more scary, was on my bed sleeping when I woke up to the feeling that I needed to wake, I couldn't move and I sensed someone sit down on the bed and like the first time a name came to my mind, the person died the next day. I have had that kind of experience 5 times in 3years and all the persons whose name I heard died, each time I get confused why I should know when someone is to die. I wish I could just see number like other folks or see other things. Please, what should I do? Sometimes I have crazy dreams, like flying over an area and going to the area unconsciously later, seeing people in a dream and seeing them in real life, at times my dreams don't make any sense but at other times they look so real that I know its only a matter of time. Met a woman of recent who made some psychic calculations about the outcome of an event (football match) and she was right to the last second. Anyone have that knowledge should please share, wouldn't mind knowing about that kind of reading. Is it possible for someone to dream about what he or she wants to dream about anytime he or she wants to.