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Having Trouble Understanding Spirits


I've been seeing spirits since I was young, Up until I was 14 I seen them in full body form. Now I Am 21, I mostly see shadows and can hear them trying to talk to Me, I'm having trouble understanding them though, sometimes they are really quiet or it's just mumbling.

Most recently though, within this past year the man I used to hear and see is now showing up in my dreams. He won't speak to Me but is giving Me a bad feeling like he is upset or angry, He is being very persistent though. 4 nights ago he was in My dream again and sat on Me putting pressure on my hands, he was only a shadow to Me but I knew it was him. A friend tried telling me it was just sleep paralysis but I know for sure it wasn't, I could move and talk but he wouldn't get up or talk to Me, he just sat on me, until I physically woke myself up, and It's like he knew I was waking up, I felt the pressure on my hands of him pushing himself off of me.

I'm not sure what he wants and I don't know how to talk with him to find out, He has been with Me for 3 years now, he used to just stand in my room and watch Me, but after some time he started coming closer, never physically touching me, but following me, and then 4 months ago I woke up to him at the end of my bed, and when I sat up he was right in My face just staring at me, again he was just A shadow, I could feel his energy though. And now it just seems like he is trying to get me to listen to him or pay attention.

I never really embraced this so I'm not sure what I need to do from here, I'm just hoping to hear and understand the spirits better.

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MyaaLyn (1 stories) (1 posts)
10 years ago (2012-12-20)
sorry I have not had the chance to reply to anyone on here until now. I will try and give a little background history, I was sexually assaulted on my 17th birthday because of bad choices on my part and a year later I met my biological father (currently in and out of jail) just after my 18th birthday. All these things could be a cause of stress and/or concern and possibly the reason this spirit is watching out for me or trying to get me to listen. I have not seen the male spirit in a while but odd things still happen around the house. I recently started hearing things in my head though, like random words and answers to questions I ask in my head. But I don't know if that's just my subconscious or what. I appreciate all the help I am getting though and loved reading what you guys had to say, gives me some things to think about
FairiesFlight (48 posts)
11 years ago (2012-04-26)
destineelynne ~ yes it is possible to close your "eyes" to anything. Weather it be the homeless person you pass on the way home or the car crash that you don't have time for or even yes, spirits and the spiritual plane. You have a choice.

Now with some people their spiritual connection is so strong that they have a very hard time "not seeing"
But you do have a choice. Some are just easier than others to make.
destineelynne (guest)
11 years ago (2012-04-26)
Thank you, I didn't believe they were and this is how I started to see them. Now, I see them differently. Maybe its a stage for me. Another?, Can it be possible for you to control seeing them. Because whenever I don't want to believe that they are there, I don't see them. Only whenever I force myself to accept them.
FairiesFlight (48 posts)
11 years ago (2012-04-26)
destineelynne~ not all shadows are evil spirits. It may just appear that why because that's how you see them, not fully connected to see more clearly.

MyaaLyn ~ when you were younger you had a stronger connection to the spirit world, that is why you could see and hear them better than you can now. Society and human life, the art of growing up, has taken a toll on this ability. You haven't stayed connected with the spirits and that is why it is harder for you now.

This Spirit you speak of is not trying to harm you. But he does have a message for you and you need to listen to him.

Has anything different happened in your life starting around the time he has been making himself more known? It may be something as simple as him trying to make sure you do not go down the wrong path, drugs, abuse, something like that. He held you down thinking that you would have to listen to him if you couldn't run from what he was telling you anymore.

He will not leave until you have heard the message that he is trying to tell you, or it becomes to late for his message to be able to help you.

I do feel he is trying to protect you, like a father figure would, but that is the only "father" information I see from him. What ever the message it is for you. All he keeps saying is you must understand and that it is very important.

Try meditation, try to communicate to them (him) like you use to when you were younger. Talk to them.

Best wishes, and may peace and love be with you always
destineelynne (guest)
11 years ago (2012-04-25)
I am fourteen, and I started off just seeing shadows. I was told that these were really bad spirits. But, I never got any bad feelings from them. I think it is different for each person. I feel that what I saw wasn't bad spirits just my ability was different than it is now.:)
RevSilverson (103 posts)
11 years ago (2012-04-24)
you write this entity has been with you 3 years. This could be a haunting mixed with sleep paralysis. If he first appeared when you were under some stress you should think back and find the stressors that brought him out. If he appeared to you when you moved into a new place he is part of a haunting and needs to talk. You have an energy signature that is similar to his- that is why he is attracted to you.

Try asking him to leave you alone. That he is causing you stress and you don't want him there. Since he causes you concern don't be nice or fearful- just tell him to leave. If he doesn't see if you can get a psychic to talk with him and find out what he wants.

I am sensing he is somehow related to you or your family. Father figure, uncle. He's around 32-35 wavy hair 160 lbs. Wears some kind of courderoy jacket/sportscoat. He's trying to reveal something to you- maybe he is your biological father? He needs you to know whatever it is. He's insistent about it. Not trying to harm you.

Love and light... Always

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