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Empathy, Ghosts and Deja Vus


I've always known I was different. I used to see ghosts but not anymore. But I will always remember when I had my first encounter with a ghost. I was in kindergarden and I saw a woman standing at my bedroom door when I first woke up. She was wearing my mother's favorite pajamas but looked nothing like my mother.

The other thing I want help with is my empathy. I can't control it! I'm always annoyed when it's not my own feelings. And also when my friends get hurt, I'll be sleeping or sitting on the couch when I get an awful pain! If anybody has any ideas how to control my empathy, please comment. I'll try to get involved in the conversation!

Also, I get very intense deja vu. Sometimes I get it six times a day. Even more in new places.

I also see into my past life. I died at the age of six in a car accident with my grandfather. My family was abusive and we were poor.

I see most of this in dreams or suddenly remember something that has never happed ever before!

And sometimes I dream the future but only every once in a while. Sometimes I feel sick right before something bad happens. Either Something bad is going to happen soon or I'm really sick. (I'm never sick, though.)

I'm really only concerned about my empathy, though so please comment!

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Tinakrislane (9 posts)
16 years ago (2008-10-04)
We're totally the same... I saw spirits a lot when I was younger. And now I don't see them anymore. And I'm 13 at the moment. 😐
And empath. Yeah I have that too. I try to ignore it ad do something that can distract me. But it doesn't work that good. But its better than nothing. 😕
maggiemayhem (1 stories) (8 posts)
16 years ago (2008-08-24)
After reading a couple of stories, I think I'm in the early stages of empathy. The feelings aren't that strong... Only if I'm with the person. But, I do get randomly upset so that might have to do with it and I just haven't payed close enough attention? I don't know. Haha, this site won't let me post my story because there are too many on the site at the moment.
vendettaBabes (3 stories) (335 posts)
16 years ago (2008-07-02)
OUCH! Vampireangel, that stung! I love my empathy! LOL. Yeah, I know its a pain, but, what's so great about being normal?! Not kidding! Anyhow, who ever wrote this story [sorry, but I can't write your name. Too long 😉 ] I am a kind of strong empath and getting better at it every day! Woo hoo! I would just j'adore to answer quetions for you too. Ask anything, and I'll answer as soon as possible! Chao!
Vampire_Angel (8 stories) (123 posts)
16 years ago (2008-06-21)
Empathy is a pain! I know exactly what you are going through. I can help you. When ever you have a negative energy or pain, what I do is picture your body filled with a dark negative energy then just blow out and picture the negative energy being replaced with a light posotive energy. If you are near a sink, blow it into the drain, or into a bag, etc. Or if you are just in a random place, blow out and picture it soaking into the ground. This seriously helps. I do it all the time. I hope it works for you. I wish I could help you more, but I can barley help myself! Haha. If you find anything else out, could you please tell me? Being only 14, when the emotion over comes me, well, I get grounded... 😢
stellar6 (2 posts)
16 years ago (2008-04-25)
Dude I know exactly what you're talking about. The trouble sometimes is that it's hard to tell if I'm feeling bad or if I'm picking it off of someone else. Recently what I've done which kind of helps is to imagine where my heart is. This is where all the different emotions collect in me, if I'm feeling really bad I focus on seeing a cloud in my chest. Then I take a deep breathe and exhale. With the breath out imagine some of the smoke escaping from your mouth. I keep doing it until I feel like it's all gone. Then it's best to imagine some sort of barrier, whether it be a box or light. Imagine it keeping out all those unwanted negative feelings. Hope that helps 😊
Katie (42 stories) (369 posts)
16 years ago (2008-03-26)
Some people just see 6 ghosts in there life and that is it. I have seen about 7 or more. Heard the rest which was about 10. That all happened last year. My dreams come true and my visions. Words and information pop up inside my mind and its all true. I have had dreams about my past but don't really understand it all. I dream about strangers and there life's then see them as ghosts. I have had dreams about future events and the day before. I have had dreams of people close to me about there health I didn't know about and accidents they come true.
green (1 stories) (7 posts)
16 years ago (2008-03-21)
The only way I have learned to deal with empathy is to ask for protection. I either see myself with a white light all around me or say to myself " I in circle myself in a white light of the Holy spirit and I will not let other people's emotions/feeling affect or influence me. This works the best for me and should be done before you expose yourself to other people. I do it sometimes in the morning and before I enter a crowded room. You should feel a bit of a calm feeling right after the shield is enforced. Communication with your higher self is the key.
hunnybunny (3 stories) (21 posts)
16 years ago (2008-02-01)
hi well I'm still learning about my empathy and I just learned about it when I was 14 I have a year with it now and latly I have been learning the only way you can control is is by just making the person feel better because that's what I do to avoide the pain they have sorry if that dosent help you as much...
womaninmymotherspjs (5 stories) (61 posts)
16 years ago (2008-01-23)
I can feel peoples emotions but I can't smell people. I do feel the feelings though. It's empathy.
stevielou (1 posts)
16 years ago (2008-01-23)
hi there I get a smell of a person if I think they are in trouble and also can sence peoples emtions has anybody else felt this way ?
womaninmymotherspjs (5 stories) (61 posts)
16 years ago (2008-01-22)
I have, a few times. Like at my summer camp. When it comes time to leave, we have made such deep bonds, that nobody wants to leave the other campers. It's a very deep and emotional time for all the campers. I always get that feeling around that time!
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
16 years ago (2008-01-21)
Question have any of you got that whole body "tingling feeling" where it feels like your mind is actually opening up... Occuring when you're usually in a large crowd and everyone is feeling sympathy or a sadness that is expressed by thousands/millions but not bitter... But almost understanding way? Anyone
womaninmymotherspjs (5 stories) (61 posts)
16 years ago (2008-01-21)
Well, normally, when I know it's not my own feelings, about two seconds into the feeling, I get a ping type feeling in my stomach. But in crowded places it's hard to tell. There are so many different feelings it makes me sick. And concentrating can help when there are only twenty or so other people in the room. But sometimes I feel so sick, I can't concentrate.
Thanks and talk to you later!
zappy77 (3 stories) (24 posts)
16 years ago (2008-01-21)
This is very interesting. I get a tickle feeling when someone I know gets hurt. I saw a spirit or something long ago. Exept it had a long dress kind of remindng me of a wedding dress. Now with your empathy how does it feel when you get the feelings? I don`t mean other peoples feelings I mean do you do anything when you recieve it? Couldn`t you concentrate to cut out the feelings?

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