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My Dreams, My Empathy, My Unanswered Questions


I have had experiences stretching back to when I was a little girl that I could now say were the starting of abilities. I am extremely empathic. I 've had to learn the hard way that what I'm carrying in emotion isn't always mine in the 1st place. I've went from a person who mingled with a lot of others to a person who chooses a small group of friends that I see at different times. I feel drained of energy quite often. I'm only beginning to feel comfortable enough & confident enough to say I know I'm a lot more empathic than most around me. I see this as a blessing but when you have your own personal problems I want to just shut everyone else's out. Now a lot of things make more sense. I sometimes feel that by nature I would give everything I am until there's nothing left to give. I've also learnt & it pains me to say this, some people (even people that you love) will take until there's nothing left. After they leave I feel I need to re-energize in time for their next visit as ridiculous as it sounds. I have found a lot of good answers for this & techniques to try. I continue to research this

Overall most of my messages/visions/warnings? Tend to come when I'm asleep. I never knew or thought it was "special" & still don't know if everyone has it to the degree I do & just don't talk about it. Examples being, I dreamt of my 1st serious partner who I had 2 sons with before we met. Then a month later I met the guy in the same place as I dreamt & the same setting. Only difference was his hair was shorter (I know that's a minor detail but strange to me all the same) So when it happened I shrugged it off. I've had premonition like dreams about natural disasters that have later been confirmed, again always very similar to what I dream apart from in those dreams I am experiencing the disaster for myself not viewing it from a distance (again I don't know if that matters). After I had my second son I had a dream that I was in the maternity hospital &had given birth & was in a room surrounded by people I didn't know but seemed to know me, with a man that was not my partner &the baby wasn't my new born son. When I woke the dream made me really upset. So much so I did something I never do. I shared it with my partner. I put it down to stress of having 2young children to now care for & it was just a dream. To cut a long story short, I split from my children's dad & eventually found someone else. He always seemed so familiar to me but I never knew why. It wasn't until I was in hospital having our daughter that it hit me hard, I was surrounded by his family in the same room I'd dreamt of with my new baby & my new partner, only difference was they weren't strangers anymore. That dream took 3years to make sense.

Lately I have been seeing things in my peripheral vision more than ever. I can sense a presence & don't know how to go about dealing with this. I also have started seeing quick flashes of faces in front of me when I'm relaxed but not asleep. It's hard to explain as its unlike anything else I could compare it to. The images are in rapid succession. A few incidents have now happened just after I hop into bed. 1st time I felt a gentle squeeze to my arm, I opened my eyes expecting to see my 4yr old but there was nobody there. I didn't feel threatened so settled well that night. The 2nd was a bit more unsettling as I had my cover yanked off my shoulder, again just a few minutes after getting into bed & laying down. I didn't want to open my eyes that time & didn't feel too good.

I would like some feedback to find out if everyone has these things happen & if so how they cope as I have some horrific dreams that I couldn't begin to try & share for fear of being labeled nuts! I have tried to keep a dream journal to make sense of things or to just get it onto paper instead of weighing on me. I have so many questions.I'm 28 & kind of thought people with gifts have them all their lives not off & on or spontaneously? The long standing things been my dreams but that doesn't mean they make sense:/ as for the other experiences anybody's opinions would be valued greatly no matter what it is. I hope what I've written has made a bit of sense. I have nobody I can really open up to that understands. When I try they get creeped out. HELP!

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mazab84 (2 stories) (71 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-10)
Leeannminton,your so right with what you've said & i'm sorry to hear about how your feeling now. Maybe its part of the journey we have to go through before we appreciate our gifts & embrace them. I hope you never feel like you have to completely block it out again.I'm going to commit myself to shielding & train myself to be more positive & to be disciplined enough to say no when need be. I now feel better equipped to deal with whatever is thrown at me. Sending light & love your way. ❤
mazab84 (2 stories) (71 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-10)
Thanks again for the comments. I do feel if I completely shut it off i'd end up being numb to everything which wouldn't be right for me. Somuch of who I am would be what i'd be blocking out. I never realised that so shielding is the best option. I guess there's just been sometimes i'd wished I didn't need to feel absoloutley everything & have it affect me.

PathR,all the things you do to shield yourself seem to really work for you. I hope I can take a few pointers from that to start with & build a strong foundation. Positivity & belief will be key. I hope to be able to say no to the more draining people just like you do. This will be a good step forward for me as i'm not really dealing with it at this point in time.I'm just closing myself off from others. Todays a new day.

LeeannMinton (1 stories) (14 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-10)
I've never had sprits try to communicate with me, but I have had them let me know they are within whatever home it is I am in, which they ultimately consider to be theres. I am an emapath, and as far as your question of whether it is possible to completely turn it off, yes, but I would not suggest it I turned it off for two months and now I'm really regretting it. I feel lost from myself and I'm having to dig deep to pull my spiritual self back up, my spirit guide is actually sitting in front of me now shaking her head I haven't seen her in a good 6 weeks until now, and its because I did exactly what she told me not to do. I was not true to myself when I blocked out the world. NOw I've got to be true. SHielding is a good thing to practice, but to completely block everyone is not safe, because ultimately I think what windes up happening is you wind up blocking out your own emotions.
doll (2 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-09)
Dreams don't make sense at first but with time, and patience it all comes together. Your not alone remember 😁
PathR (4 stories) (1245 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-09)
mazaba84 on the subject of being an empathetic.
We all work differently.

I use shielding my home-day/night plus clearing the
Space visually. On weekends I do a routine of smudging, cleaning plus open the windows.

When we first arrived at UK we had all kinds of visitors. My husband had one touch him, and saw a
Women with old vintage clothing move the curtain.
I was very unsettled and was speaking in my sleep.
We had wind and sound around us. My husband complained he felt surrounded by a bunch of Indians.

I have worked 1/2 of my life in Hospital, clinics
And the energy was draining. It would take me a few
Days to get my energy up, then back to work.

So I resorted to thinking positive affirmations aka:
Beliefs during the day. Use shielding over myself,
Plus clearing the Hospital I work at.
I do prayer and chanting which has changed how I react hence allowing me to say no to the draining people and not attract others energy or spirits to myself.

I realize some of this sensativity can be sensing others, thoughts and stresses. But if you follow the above mentioned. You will be in a position to not be
A receptical of the negative.

Yes people can shut down psychically, it takes an iron will. But if you do, you could cut yourself
Off from being in tune to spirit and then regret it later.
mazab84 (2 stories) (71 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-08)
Thankyou so much for taking the time to read & reply. I feel a lot of weight lifting partly because I don't feel ridiculed by you all.Empathsam,I can really identify with what you've said about your own experiences. Its amazes me how we have had similar coping strategys. I too shut everything out! I still feel like i'm on a rollercoaster at times so I am trying to learn a way of shielding myself like you suggest. I do write down the more disturbing things as writing it on paper feels like a release. Do you do similar things to record what you dream?

PathR,alot of what you've written has helped on the spot thankyou. Do you know of a way I can learn how to become more disciplined inorder for negative influences not to affect me? The fact entities are contacting me during the night isn't as unnerving as them physically touching me & yanking covers off etc. Do you think laying ground rules is essential? Wether I like it or not these things are happening. Its how I move forward with my journey that matters.

I would just like to ask if its possible to completely shut your abilities off?I'm guessing not as I seem to pick up & recieve in any situation 😕 I am excited to have found a place to come learn & talk to people who can help educate me. Sharing certainly is caring.I'm ready to start embracing this 😁
Empathsam (3 stories) (109 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-08)
I would like to take a guess that we are the same brand, so to speak. I am a younger Empath, yet I have had a hitroy of accurate-semi accurate precognitive dreams. I need to know a little more to asses the dreams, as mine arent nearly so common. I have dreamt about mundane things like what people will wear to major things like plane crashes. Many came true. All I can say is time will reveal all things. As per the empathy, try working on "Shields" to block out excess emotions from the outside world. DOing this I shut off excess emotions for 3 years straight! But this is a gift and you should embrace it. Dont be too scared now!
PathR (4 stories) (1245 posts)
8 years ago (2012-06-08)
I too believe messages come in the night, some of
This seen exactly as it occures in daily life, and
At points there are identify symbols mixed in.
Which seem to be markers with the message.

Some of this is actually viewing others lifes.
At other times it is prophetic showing my own life
On daily or weekly basis with all the changes.
Years back I found it overwhelming. But through the years I have understanding/experience proving all would be ok despite all the changes.

As you have mentioned regarding empathy. Understanding
Human nature and our own is part of the dance to balance our own energy.

In regards to children and moving forward in life.
The spirit people of our family are well aware of our unions. And they actually adopt us as we consumate our lives in marriage. They like to visit at marriages, births, deaths, and when we go through trials in life.

I found that by discipling my mind to not entertain neg toughts I could help to raise plus protect my own vibrations.

Wishing you well in your journey

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