I recently started noticing this bad experience/ability. Around the same time I've been going through a very bad moment in my life. My ex-boyfriend did a 360 on me. He was sweet and I felt safe with him. Ever since he move, everything change, he became mentally abusive and things starting to get physical. So I left and ever since he's made my life hell. I started to really hate him. And I felt a lot of energy come to me that felt good. And I took it in because it relaxed me and made me feel good. He started to get sick and secretly in a ugly way I somewhat liked it. Because he was threatening/tormenting my life (he has info/things on me so I can't drop him yet). He kept calling me to purposely argue and things continued to get worse, Till one night he was admitted to the hospital (because he was so sick) and he found out he had kidney failure and breathing issues. He's 20 years and he was completely healthy before. Doctor's don't understand why or what happen. I felt bad for feeling 'A like' for him being sick. So I tried to stop fighting with him but he kept pushing me.
I kept feeling hurt and emotionally drained and one day I broke. I screamed to high heaven. And absolutely didn't care, I hated him so much and I wanted him to leave; Didn't care how. Things got worse. Doctors Didn't know how long he was going to last, and his liver was starting to go, he had back problems, breathing difficulties. I started to think about how weird it was for him to get this karma.
Now, my ex and I don't talk much-he still calls me once every two or three weeks. (he calls still because he's obsessed and doesn't want to let me go- that's what I see)
Sometimes I wonder he believes It's me. Especially now that he's getting better.
I notice every time I'm very upset at someone (my dad, mom, or a random person) they get sick. My mom is sick right now after I was very upset with her yesterday
This is 8th time since last June, I know there's something.
When it happens and I'm mad, I feel like a big flow of negative energy is flowing out of me. It's hard to stop it.
I feel balanced -energy wise-I feel like I'm in good control when I'm not mad.
Before I was balanced the energy use to overpower me-and I would cry emotionally for no reason
Just confused what is this?
Something big/positive warns me to not get rid of it and learn to control myself better.
Is there a way I could heal instead of kill or sicken?