I've been able to 'see' things pretty much as long as I can remember. When I say things, I mean people that have passed on. As a child it freaked me out, but as I've gotten older I've come to terms with it and can differentiate between who is alive and not.
When I 'see' ghosts they look just like normal people but they seem to have a different light about them, almost like a shimmer, and I have a friend who has always stayed with me since being a child, his name is Ila. Which in turn is funny as my name is Ali... Ila backwards.
Now recently I have been seeing shadows in my home. I know it's a man, and he seems to have taken an interest in my 2 year old daughter who refers to him as the 'monster' She is truly terrified by him.
Now obviously this worries me a lot, I have tried asking him to leave, telling him he's not welcome, as I can sometimes communicate with them. But it is troubling me that I can't see him. All I can see is the shadow of him. And it's not just a fleeting glance, I see him just standing in my door way, and it's really unsettling.
The air in the whole house feels really thick when he is around, and my daughter see's him too. She just stares saying 'monster mummy, monster' and gets very scared and won't settle until I feel that he has left.
I have spoken to a few friends who are experienced in this field and they seem to think that this man, doesn't know he has passed on and that's why I can't see him. And also it has been suggested that he has been wandering for a long time, and this is the first time he has gotten a reaction from anyone, so that's why he's hanging around...
I'm getting worried as he is coming around more often and as I said before my daughter is genuinely terrified of him...
Any help of ideas would be most appreciated