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Message From My Father, Forgiveness


My Father left this world several years ago from a massive coronary. That it happened was not unexpected, he did not take care of himself. I expected it in the near future, due to a dream where I saw his doppleganger (if I am using the correct term, a twin, but odd looking). I knew that there were things that should be dealt with between he and I, before that time. But I couldn't find the right time, I waited too long and lost the chance.

His lady friend of the time called me to say that he was in an ambulance after a heart attack. I told her I would meet her there. When I arrived I knew it was a bad sign that the chaplain was waiting for his family. I lived closer than my sisters, they wouldn't arrive for another 40 minutes. After a good half hour of waiting with the chaplain, my dad's girlfriend, K, and I were told that he was gone. Because I remained calm and was comforting K in this time, the chaplain did not know I was his daughter, he thought I was K's daughter. We were invited to go to the room to be with him.

My father had made a lot of mistakes and I and my siblings had a painful relationship with him over the years. I leaned down to give him a kiss. I sensed that he was still there, his spirit had not yet fully left the body. I whispered "I forgive you, dad". Before I knew it, I was crying and blubbering that I never hated him, I always loved him, I'm sorry I was so angry for so long. This happened with K, the chaplain and nurses in the room, I just couldn't stop it.

Then I heard him. It was his voice, inside my head. I heard every word as clear as I have ever heard anything in my life. He scolded me, "What are you cryin' for! You know you don't have to worry 'bout that!" I was instantly calmed and felt such peace. It was his voice, exactly the kind of thing he would say, exactly the way he would say it. When I told my mother the story she agreed that it was just what he would say, just as he would say it.

I am sure that this wasn't just some hallucination like some psycho-babble way of self-soothing, it was too clear, too real. I shared this experience with my sisters, and my brother, who lives on the other side of the country. I told them that I believe the message was for them too.

My father has visited in my dreams a few times since. He never had anything meaningful to convey, I swear it seemed more of a social call. If that doesn't sound too wierd to anybody.

My mom dreamed of him too. They were long since divorced. In the dream, he was dressed like Fred Astaire but all in white, and he was dancing. Two things that are not like him. We believe that it means he is truly well, and happy, things that he often didn't seem to be when on Earth.

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RevSilverson (103 posts)
11 years ago (2013-04-09)
you've hit the nails on the head. Your father's spirit is still visiting you because he knows you still feel badly about not clearing this up before he passed. He knew you loved him deep down and he is comforting you by appearing healthy and happy. But the greatest gift in all of this is that he is showing you that we continue on after we shed our physical form. That's the part you've missed. Our consciousness leaves the body with its ability to communicate and passes into another realm- what I know to be called- the realm of atonement. Our spirits undergo a cleansing of negative energy there- we are taught the what-ifs of the decisions we made in the physical realm. Like what would have happened if I hadn't made the choices I made- what if I hadn't carried so much anger in my heart or fear or whatever. We also get to know how the love we felt and gave affected us and others in our lives.

This is the great gift he is giving you. For all his faults and yours the divine spirit loves us all and forgives us.

Love and light... Always
Lyro (468 posts)
11 years ago (2013-04-05)
Not weird at all:) And no it's not just some psychic babble self soothing thing to me;) Sometimes the things we need to hear are the most simple of things, and sometimes they're the most meaningful.

And on a side note, hey AnneV, long time no talk. It's been a while. I used to have more posts then anyone on here, even you;) I've been slacking. Lol. Figured I'd come back and see what's going on with the site. When I left there were others on here that could help people, and just didn't feel I was needed anymore, but I never got rid of the site:p
shellshell3030 (3 stories) (40 posts)
11 years ago (2013-04-04)
I was unsure about posting such a personal story. But I think it is important to keep telling people so they understand, that this is normal, this is how things really work.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
11 years ago (2013-04-03)
What a wonderful experience for you to have. Most people don't have that comforting closure to a difficult relationship. That was also kind of you to extend that message of peace and forgiveness to your other relatives.

Life is very difficult for many of us. We all make mistakes, say things we later regret. May we all rest in that kind of peace once our time here is over.

Thanks for sharing.

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