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Is My Psychic Relationship Real Or Imaginary?


I've been in a "psychic relationship" with someone for a few years now. Whilst we've seen each other physically, and communicated with gestures etc from a distance, we haven't actually met. Not only would meeting be extremely difficult, but we've both developed a horrible fear of meeting, in case we turn out to be wrong and the relationship isn't real. I'm sharing this to ask for opinions on that, since I'm sure there's people who know more about this than I do.

It's quite hard to describe without full context, but my partner is a performer and I first saw him at one of his events, which I enjoyed so I kept going back. He began to show affection and signs of interest from a distance, which I denied since I thought there was no reason he'd want me. Eventually, it became so obvious that I accepted it and began to feel attached to him. We began to develop what seemed like a psychic connection; it started with a strong feeling that we had a bond, then visions and vague ways of communicating by telepathy (hope that's the correct term). As it went on longer, we were able to communicate properly by telepathy, and spend time together via astral projection. I kept going to his events, and we'd always have this thing going on where we would communicate via gestures, lyrics, etc.

Sometimes I'd telepathically ask him to do things on stage and he would. It seems that he's written about me, since all of his latest pieces describe an affair with a woman exactly like me, in a similar situation. I've known many things about him and his circumstances before they became public information. He's also posted things online after agreeing to do that as a sign that it's real.

However, there are also things which imply that this could all be in my head; such as not knowing where he was or what he was doing at times, and occasional affection for the partner he's supposedly leaving. These things have certainly become less as our relationship has progressed, but every now and then he does something that makes me think "this can't possibly be real". I've blamed these actions on addiction problems and mental illness, since he suffers with both, but is that an excuse? Could all of the physical proof be coincidence?

We have had a few opportunities to meet, but when faced with each other we froze and turned away from it, in fear of finding out that it's not real. I know that one of us has to make the jump one day, but before I do anything crazy, I want to know if it's even possible for this to be real. It's come to mean so much to me, I feel like this man is my soulmate and we want to spend our lives together; but I just want to know whether I'm crazy or not.

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crazy14 (2 stories) (28 posts)
10 years ago (2013-06-14)
Normally I'm one to be very believing in situations like this, as I know a few different people who can telepathically communicate with their spouses or boyfriend/girlfriend including myself, but when you say affair, then it becomes a problem.
I'm of the opinion that something like that is a gift from god, and that he would never, ever encourage someone to have an affair ever. I'm not saying automatically that you can't communicate with him in such a fashion or that you aren't using some sort of psychic ability but when it is an affair it will not work out for you or him. I would advise that you break such a relationship for that reason.
Such a relationship can be the most beautiful and amazing experience ever and it is not to be misused.
Sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear.
samcat7 (1 stories) (1 posts)
10 years ago (2013-06-14)
Thanks for the reply RevSilverson. I have wondered that myself - if it's just psychic abilities and no relationship - but wasn't sure if it was possible or not. He hasn't vocally told me about his issues, but it is public information since he's a performer. I feel that if it's real, it'll be worth dealing with his issues, which is why I haven't questioned that.

The closest thing to physical proof of what he senses is going on is his writing, which describes an affair exactly like the one I believe is going on. There's also his physical actions that imply he knows what's going on too, but I suppose I could have projected both of those things onto him.

I feel like I just can't know either way. The physical proof seems so convincing, but then I start to feel crazy again. I've definitely been considering walking away from it recently, but I'm worried that I'll be throwing away something special.
RevSilverson (103 posts)
10 years ago (2013-06-13)
you have written much about what you sense is going on and not what he might sense is going on. Is it possible that the things he telepathically tells you he is going to do are actually you predicting that he will do them and being correct? Perhaps your psychic abilities are forming the bulk of this relationship. Did he tell you vocally he has addiction issues or mental illness and why would you not take pause with being with someone who has those problems? You write that you thought there was "no reason he would want me" and this indicates you have self esteem issues. Until this "relationship" becomes verbal I believe you are creating a fantasy relationship- not a psychic one. Perhaps this man is more of a kindred spirit than a soul mate.

Please be careful sweetheart. I too have fallen in love with someone in my mind only to be hurt to discover the feelings weren't mutual.

Love and Light... Always

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