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Connecting Through Dreams?


I have been back and forth weather or not I should post this. But I just finally said "What the heck!" so here it goes. This is something that has been going on for four years now and it has finally drove me crazy. I have been dreaming about this person for a long time now and I really want to know why. My mom tells me that me and this person (which I am just going to name him K) have a connection. I am not so sure about that. I have a theory that its just my channeling abilities that is somehow picking up some information on him. I would love to have some advice or opinions on this matter:)

Trust me when I say that I have had many of dreams about this person within four years. So I have picked at least five dreams that I think are really important to me. I also had I organized this from Dream to Real life like I would in my dream journal. I am really sorry if its too long.

First dream

In the dream I was walking on a street with my friends boyfriend. Me and my friends boyfriend decided to stop walking and wait for my friend to arrive. While we were waiting I was looking around the area when I suddenly saw K walking towards me. Once he was right in front of me he smiled then with his fingers he drew a smokey green Yin and Yang sign. I asked him what was it supposed to mean but all he did was smile at me and walked away and I continued on with the dream. In the dream I remembered that he was wearing a loose white collared shirt and tux. I know he had something red on his left breast pocket but I can't remember what it was.

Real fact

For some reason this dream had left an impression on me and I had a very strong feeling to look him up on Facebook. I didn't know why but I just did. I had that feeling for at least two days and I couldn't shake it off. I ended up giving into that feeling and looked him up. When I saw his Facebook profile I shocked. He looked exactly how he looked in my dream from his features, to his height, he even had the exact same tux that he was wearing in my dream. The only difference was that in the picture he had a tie on and in my dream he didn't. I found it really weird that I would have a dream about K since I hadn't seen him in years. In the end I decided that it was just my psychic abilities being strange on me so I let it go. But a couple of days later I ended up having another dream about him and that was just the beginning. I had more dreams about him here and there for months and then months had turned into a year. All of the dreams were different but I did ended up getting real life information from those dreams. I have no idea why I kept dreaming about him and it was frustrating me.


I was walking around a softball park there were a lot of people around either playing softball or watching the game. I decide to sit on one of the benches so I can watch the game. When I looked at the players I see K in the field playing. I sat there for a little bit until I decided to leave. I walked around the area for a little bit until I saw a vet clinic. I walked into the vet clinic and I think I ended up meeting my spirit guide. I won't get into much of the conversation but I did ask her if me and K are meant to be together just to see what kind of response I would get. She told me yes we are and I didn't really know what to think of that. Later on when I was done talking to my spirit guide I went back to the softball field. The game was done and everybody including K had left the field. I didn't see him anywhere and I went back to the same bench area I was at earlier. There were a lot more people there painting and drawing so I joined them. A couple of minutes later K shows up and sits down right across from me. He looked upset and was really quiet until he started asking me all these questions like why did I leave, why didn't say goodbye, or why didn't keep in touch. I ended up getting really mad and yelled at him. Lets just say I had my reasons. But after I had yelled at him he told me the he wasn't my friend anymore. After that K had turned into a dragon and the dream changed.

Real fact

I have been to that softball park many times in my life but I really didn't

know if there was a actual vet clinic near the park. Two years later after work I decided to drive around softball park area to see if there was a vet clinic and I ended up finding it. It is a small little clinic that is pretty close to the soft ball park.


In this dream I was in a train with my best friend. There was a lot of stuff was going on and I can't quite remember most of it but when the train had stopped my best friend and I walked out into a empty parking lot. We were just hanging out until the train was ready to leave again. When it was ready to go and we were walking back to the train I got an idea. Why not see if I can get into his dreams. So I stopped walking, closed my eyes, relaxed, and concentrated on K. Suddenly I felted the similar feeling I always feel when he comes into my dreams. That same feeling led me to a door at the back of the train. Somehow I knew he would be at the other side of the door and when I opened it there he was. I walked up to him and found him sleeping on one of the long train chairs. I poked him on the rib cage to wake him up and scared him in the process too. I won't talk about the conversation but talking to him felt really grounded and comfortable. I did ended up asking him if he was psychic but his response was I don't know.

Real life

Later in the day I decided to call my best friend since I haven't spoken to her in a while. During our conversation she told me that she had went to a empty parking lot that mourning to practice her driving.


I was with my mom walking around a train station. When me and my mom stopped on the side of the train I had this very strong felling to the right of my side. I told my mom to wait there wile I walked towards the area the feeling was leading me to. Once I was in front of the train I looked around but I didn't see anything important but once I looked to the inside of the train K was there writing in a journal. He had saw me and all we did was stare at each other until I decided to run the other way. A couple of seconds later I met this girl who was really sweet to me. We talked for a wile until K showed up. He looked really upset with me and sat right next to us quiet. I did not take me long to realize that the girl I was talking to was his girlfriend. Once I had realized this I decided to leave and continue with the dream. Later on in the dream I saw K in an argument with his girlfriend and found out that they had broken up. I walked up to him and asked him if everything was ok but looked at me angrily and told me not to worry about it. But for some reason I felt bad so I had tried to help them work it out. Once I got them talking to each other I continued on with the rest of the dream which was really short.

Real life

It had been a week until I found out (yes on Facebook) that he really did break up with his girlfriend. But here is my question. Why did I need to know this? I didn't need to know this I had nothing to do with that relationship.


I cannot remember most of this dream but K was in it. He had told me that he was going to Pearl University and asked me if I wanted to come with him. I told him that I couldn't and after that he left.

Real life

I have researched for Pearl University on Google. I found it but its a fashion design education institute in India. So I kept scrolling down and found the pearl project at Georgetown University for Investigative journalism. In some of the dreams K either has a journal with him or something with journalism is involved. My question is why?

So there you have it. Thank you for reading this:)

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Nelliel (1 stories) (6 posts)
9 years ago (2015-06-12)
Hello TessP! I am so sorry for the late reply. Anyways I am sorry to say this but I can't help you with that question. I am not that person that can have a good answer for you wile doubting myself in the process. I am also very busy with life & have been spiritually disconnected. So I am pretty much the worst person you can ask. Again I am sorry.

But I do send you love & light. God Bless!
TessP (1 posts)
9 years ago (2015-04-15)
Hi I had a nephew that was missing for 2 years now and I always wanted to see him in my dream and last night I had dream of him and I wanted to talk to him. He is with his friend too and they running it looks like there hiding but they want to see me as I look on there eyes I did try talked to them but they're not talking instead they're waving there head meaning they can't talk so they run again and I did try to catch them on the other side and they see me waiting there and when they passed in front of me they just look at me. There are soldiers too on the other side but they not after catching my nephew. My nephew and his friend are both missing, and they're look younger age in my dream. Please help me to know what is this.
MrE (1 stories) (168 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-17)
As far as I understand, empath would be a very accurate description.

For me, when I was talking to a person that was helping me understand how to meditate and channel, I was getting to where I would feel the pain in the same place in my knee where she got surgery done.

I have had times where I have seen and heard things, and I have personally transmitted a dream or two to another person who was aware of their own psychic abilities.
However, it was only a very simple detail that got through from the complex dream I tried to send.

I tried to spell out my name, saying "I was here."
The next day, without me even prompting the person, or even informing them that I was going to try, he grabbed my arm and said "I saw green footprints. That was you, right?"

I have also seen things, on occassion.

I can also self-heal, to a minor degree, as wel as self augment... Also, to a minor degree.

But the vast majority of eveything psychic I have personally experienced would be defined as empathic.

The most frustrating part for me personally is that, for me to be at piece, I need to either be around people that are at the same level of understanding and temperment...
Or I need to forge strength and temperment in those around me.

It can be a exhausting process, but also very rewarding.

Er, in any case, I suppose that is a elaborated "I think so" in regards to being empathic:)
Nelliel (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-17)
That first part made me laugh.

Anyways I completely understand everything that you are saying. Personally I had to deal with a lot of things myself when it has come to my channeling abilities but due to those experiences it has made me wiser and stronger.

No I am a strong person and I would never allow any of that. If I did owe him anything it would just be a I'm sorry. Other than that I don't own him or anyone a thing.

You are an empath right? I have a family member that is an empath so I understand where you are coming from.

Thank you & God bless.
MrE (1 stories) (168 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-16)
Yeah, it's not always easy to walk away.

It's also not easy to put yourself out there and talk to random people either.

I mean... Lol, what would you say..."Hi, I've been dreaming about you for 4 years!"

It's always worked best for me when I've "kept it real" so to say.

It sucks, because I feel like I have to keep part of myself in reserve, and it feels like I am some sort of master puppeteer, pulling this string to get that result... Rather than being more human, interacting, and enjoying.

I have had to walk away from situations like the one you are in.
In order to get to where whatever spirits/higher self/ whatever weren't constantly pushing me, I basically had to argue through a few hundred voices/ personalities/ intents, and had to prove my wisdom to each one.
You could make the argument that my mind doesn't operate "normally" anymore because of that... In the same respect, you could argue that I am more emotionally stableandat peace than 68% of people alive... Atleast, based on the demographic that see psychologists/psychiatrists.

Not trying to go off topic, just saying... I had to make peace with a LARGE amount of different personalities... And a large part of doing so was not dwelling on something like that for 4 years, because that agitates the spirit guides/ higer self/ whatever ALOT.
Whereas, if you are pushed to contact the person, and you do a honest effort to contact them, and communicate, you tend to make peace with these spirits.

The bonus is this. If you e-mail this person, and he goes badly, through e-mail... When/if the spirits try to push you towards another person, you remind them... "remember what happened with this guy."

Now, another thing to keep in mind is that, being pushed to talk to this person, or even owing them in terms of karma, does NOT mean that you owe him a intimate relationship, or sex, or anything beyond friendship.
It might be that you two are just meant to be good friends.

I personally believe that, if something bad was meant to happen between the two of you, the dreams would be of a different nature.

However, I can tell you this... I personally noticed a shift in your energy from your last post.

The first few responses, you felt heavily gaurded, and unplesant.

This time, when I opened up the response, I felt elated, and even a bit giddy.

The thing is, it's not just your emotions specifically that would cause me to feel in such a way, it's also the choices you have begun to decide to make, and what they will lead to.

I can't really specifically read the future, but I feel energy, wether I want to, or not.
When it seems like people are making "negative" choices, it's like my arm is being twisted around the wrong way, I start feeling cross, and I don't want to interact with anyone.
When it seems like people aremaking "positive" choices, it's like a lot of happiness in my chest and gut, and I start feeling giddy.

In any case, take that any way you wish.

I really do hope you find peace.

God bless.
Nelliel (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-16)
To MrE,

I agree with you. I have tried many times to walk away. I even closed out my abilities to see if I could stop them but nothing has worked.

Its ok, I do appreciate your thoughts on this matter. Thank you and God bless.
Nelliel (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-16)
To Anima,
I would say that the dreams would come to me once/twice a month or every couple of months usually in the mourning's. If its a karmic debt that I owe him could it be because I didn't say goodbye? Trust me I am not all gung'hoe on romanticism or even on twin flames I am looking for logical answers. But I am very aware of my past lives and even in those lives I wouldn't hurt anyone.

Thank you for your advice/opinion on this matter.
Bless you.
MrE (1 stories) (168 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-16)
Those are the answers.
You follow this person's activities on facebook to find out about him, and you know about details in his life, that he doesn't even know you know about, much less that you are even looking into these details.

It seems that, even if you walk away, these dreams will continue.

If you want nothing to do with him, then stop looking into it. You will drive yourself nuts, and you will find connections under every stone.

If you are so curious, just e-mail the guy and talk to him through e-mail.

Just "hi" or "how are you doing."

Beyond that, you have been having so many dreams about this person because you are connected to them somehow, or because your subconcious is interested/guilty about what happened between you and this other person that you think this guy is.

That is the answer, plain and simple.

I'm sorry if it's not the answer you want.

It is as Anima said, you have a choice to make.

Right now, the choice you're making is to not make a choice, to sit in status quo.

And right now it seems like whatever spirits are attached to you are doing everything they can, short of physically pushing you into his arms, to talk to the guy.

Whatever your choice, make sure you make peace with it. Good luck.
Anima (2 stories) (16 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-16)
Four years is a long time for something like this to be happening. Suddenly you have a dream of someone you haven't seen in years, its rather strange because this person seems to be someone you barely have any physical connection with for the matter. What I'm feeling is that its less of a matter of constantly thinking about him or 'stalking,' (as I feel stalking has a very negative appeal to it, so I'm going to refrain from using it,) and more that you two may have a form of spiritual bond that could be related to either him being a karmic relation in your life, or something more complicated, like your spirit guide is trying to tell you something.

Let me ask something, do they come often these dreams? Or are they very rare, once every year sort of thing? If its the first, then I would say that subconsciously, your mind is actually very interested in this person, and that something deep within yourself is seeking answers to it. If it's the later, then I would certainly say this has to do with a karmic relationship and that some kind of event is coming your way that will either involve him or require you to make a decision about him and the things happening to people around him and yourself. Please don't go gung'hoe romanticism with it however, understand that karmic relationships and past-life energies are more than just love and romanticism. Honestly you could have killed him in a past life for all you know, and suddenly you've involved yourself in a relationship with rather dark energies. Please, take it from me, don't become too drawn into what is about to happen. I once did and it ended up in me going through a psychotic breakdown and getting lost in the conundrums of Twin Flame lunacy.

Understand that whatever you are guided to, that whatever decision you make, whether to involve him into your life, or distance him will effect the energy of your life greatly. Know that neither choice is right or wrong no matter how it might feel otherwise and that this is a process of spiritual development and learning. Why did you suddenly hear of his lass breaking up with him? Could have been a chance moment, could be your higher self guiding you to see something. The most you can do is make a choice and let it be, that or let go.

Choice. The matter here is choice really.

Also remember that dreams are subjective, reoccurring people in your dreams does not necessarily mean they have a connection with you at spiritual or higher level. Your Higher Self may just be guiding you to see events that haven't happened yet, maybe it wanted you to see that he was breaking up and going elsewhere else, maybe this will have to play into something that will happen in the future? The Dreams themselves can be interpreted in so many ways, that honestly you can't be sure what's happening. All I can say is that It'd be a good idea to stay in a more 'detached' sense of self when it comes to this. Only grow closer if you feel that's the right thing to do.

May the heart and spirit of the Oneness guide you.
- Anima.
Nelliel (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-15)
I am not chasing anything I just want answers that's it. I don't want this person as anything in my life. I already have a hard time believing its actually him in the first place. Again I just want answers. This had been going on for four years and I had enough. Stop saying that its stalking because its not trust me.
MrE (1 stories) (168 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-15)
It seems like therecould be something between you two.
It also seems like you're the one that cut off the connection.

In reference to you telling him you're sorry in the dreams...
I once asked one psychic how she knew how her friends were doing. She said she picked up the phone and called them.

You're stalking him on facebook.

Not saying it's right or wrong or any of that.
Just observations.

Who do you want this person to be in your life? A constant dream you are chasing?
A good friend?
None of the above?

It's simple. You dream of him because you have a connection somewhere, maybe even feelings.
Maybe he even has feelings for you.

But you won't know if you don't talk to him directly, if even through e-mail.

What's the worst that could happen if you e-mail him saying hello.
Nelliel (1 stories) (6 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-15)
No I have not seen him in years. The last time I saw him was when I was 13 years old. I feel that it would be really weird just to even try to contact him. But I have told him I was sorry in my dreams.

How am I sabotaging myself when it comes to him?

I am not stalking him its just that I have no idea why I am having these dreams about him. Coupled with the fact that I am psychic I am also a naturally curious person so when I have a dream about him I have no other way to get answers other than to look him up so I can get some sort of confirmation.
MrE (1 stories) (168 posts)
10 years ago (2014-03-15)
First and foremost, are you, or have you been, in contact with J in any way beside dream?

If you haven't had actual contact with him since you stopped talking to him (I am going to assume you basically cut him off, based on the comment you said about having your reasons) then you should possibly contact him again, and apologise, and talk to him.

It seems to me like you are sabotaging yourself in regards to him.

There might be some sort of karmic debt that you owe him, and your guide, and possibly his guide, are trying to work to get it repaid in the best fashion for both of you.

That likely accounts for him writing in the journal.

However, it does seem like the ball is in your court, and you need to make the next move.

Sometimes, when emotions are strong enough, and two people are connected strongly enough, dream walking does occur.
Sometimes people don't even realize they are doing it.

In any case, it seems like the answer you are looking for is to talk to him, and to stop running away, stalking him, or using his dream self to appease yourself, whilst leaving his physical self wanting.

God bless, and be well.

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