Spirit Projecting Through Me

My boyfriend recently lost his father on Christmas Day. It was very tragic and he's broken up about it obviously. He knew I could do "weird things" so he asked last night while we were laying in bed if he could talk to his dad because he wanted to ask him questions. Beforehand, on Christmas Day when I went to his house he wanted to see if he felt a presence. He put his hand over his fathers bed and I got a huge knot in my stomach and had to leave immediately. Odd right? No I'm used to those kinds of things. Anyways while lying in bed, I let his dad speak through me. Right before I went into my own little world to let him speak, I knew someone or something was coming through. He was asking his father a question (I had previously answered a question) and when he asked the question I said it feels a bit fuzzy on the other side. As soon as I said that, the tv lost signal and started changing channels by itself. I said okay and we kept going. By the time he was done talking to his dad, my boyfriend picked up the remote and flipped to the next channel. The tv had signal again. I don't think that's a coincidence. Boyfriend started talking to me and I was literally drained. I jerked up and said I just wanted to go to bed because I had never let someone talk to someone else through me. That was my first ever experience with tv losing signal and changing channels. The puppy helping in his sleep etc. I brought my board up today and wanted to find some other answers but right now I have chills and I am feeling a very bad vibe so I've decided not to use it here. Have you guys ever had anything strange happen to you while reading someone or whatever? I told him his exact thoughts before we started. Is this a gift or curse that we have you guys?