In the past few months I have been having many different experiences in my life that I have never had before. I am in my 30's and have seen a few spirits "ghosts" in my life but not many.
I work the night shift and one night during the summer I went out to my car for my break. So this was between 3 and 4am. I was looking at my phone and saw a man about 6'6 and wearing a trench coat outside of my driver's side window. Then I looked directly at him and he was gone. A few moments later I was looking at my phone again and he reappeared outside my drivers side window about 10 feet from my car. At this point I got outside of my car and looked for this man but was unable to find him.
My wife a few nights later had a dream with the same description of the man but he was showing her a knife. At this point I had not given her the description of the man that I had seen. Then she began to feel like something was chasing her upstairs to bed, but would not bother her in our bedroom. My 1 year old son sometimes look into mid air and just start screaming like something was sitting there scaring him.
My wife kept feeling uncomfortable on the 2nd floor on our house for a few weeks like someone was following her up the stairs. Once and a while she would get to the second floor and she would experience something to the effect of feeling complete panic come over her.
So this continued for a few weeks and then one night I went to bed and had an experience when I was sleeping that felt just like I was there in an awake state. During this experience I had executed this man by placing a gun to the back of his head and killing him. Upon waking up I actually looked around to see if this had actually happened.
I talked to a family member that can talk to spirits and said that it was some type of energy that found its way to my home and that it was my way of dominating the energy or spirit.
So to fast forward to now witch is a few months later. When I go to sleep it is almost like I am walking around my house going on patrol looking for things in my house. For the most part I do remember this in the morning but never find anything. Last week I ended up going to sleep and fighting this energy that was tall and had spikes all over it. I won the fight and it left my "world".
So now here is where I need help. I am being told that I have physic abilities and the reason that these energy are bothering myself and my family is because I am going out and looking for them in my subconscious. I was also told that I need to stop questioning my abilities and just let them develop on their own. Another thing that I was told was if I do not embrace this that it will just get worse with the energy's bothering myself and my family.
Can anyone give me some suggestions on how to work with this and how to accept it? Also if anyone has heard of fighting these spirits in your sleep if this was normal?
Thank you for any help or suggestions. Please feel free to expand on any of my topics in here.