Since my Grandpa died in 2003 - I have been regularly visited by a "thing" at the end of my bed. I have never wanted to know what it was, as I was always too frightened by it, it just didn't seem to be happy. I was speaking with my Mum this morning and she said that she read somewhere that depending on which side of the bed it stands, can determine which side of the family it comes from. So the left hand side is the Mother's side and the right hand side is the Father's side of the family.
And any dreams I've had where my Grandfather was concerned has been negative. The first one was about a year or so after he passed, and it was like any other family occasion - everyone was there. Except I was a small child again, maybe about 5-6yo. I was the only one who could see him, and the only one that was trying to let them know that he was getting increasingly agitated. He stood in the kitchen and was getting angrier and angrier, yet, I still don't know what it was over. I tried to tell my Dad that Grandpa was angry, but he just told me not to interrupt the adults conversation. I don't remember much else from that dream.
Another dream I was at his house with Mum and he appeared to me, I think it was me only, again. And I dropped to my knees crying, just so happy to have him back. He was still upset about something, and again I don't know what. So this has all left me wondering, if I am the only one that can see him in my dreams, does this mean that he's trying to communicate with me, or is he angry about something I did? Could it be him standing at the foot of my bed? I really would appreciate any help possible.