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Empathic Emotional Connection Vs. Soulmate Bond


I am currently having a psychic connection with a coworker that resembles a soulmate or twinflame relationship. When this all started I was already on an enlightenment journey due to some life changing moments in my recent past. As an Empath, I have developed connections with people that needed emotional healing. Years ago I learned to change the negative energies to positive ones and through touch was able to transfer them back. This worked well in my past career in healthcare. My patients benefited greatly from my gifts. I am no longer working in direct patient care. I haven't been using my gifts.

So when this connection with my coworker began, I thought it was just another person needing healing. But, the whole experience is different and very intense. He and I do not communicate anymore. Earlier this year we began working on a project together. The intense connection began immediately. About a month later, he suddenly cut all communication with me and became silent. We both are present daily for a meeting with several other people. For the past few months he doesn't even acknowledge my existence. I have left him alone. But, the connection never ended. I have been through hell and back feeling his roller coaster emotions and feeling his energy around me constantly. Although we do not communicate in this physical world, we meet in the Astral plane. When I meditate, he oftentimes appears and we have long talks. I feel I'm speaking with his higher self or soul. I vacationed in another country in May and still felt his energy around me. I've never had this kind of bond with anyone.

When he and I were still communicating, I looked deeply into his eyes and saw and felt recognition. I felt a shift within me and outside of me as the feelings of safety, love, and coming home washed over me. It took some time to process this experience. Coincidentally, this recognition and the emotions are the same as what I have felt when I've had a recurring dream about "the one" I'm supposed to be with. He was my imaginary friend named "One" in my childhood and the one whose energy has been with me in my dreams all my life. I feel this coworker resonates the same frequency. Is he "One"or is this wishful thinking? I have prayed and asked for guidance.

I have always received messages in my dreams. I was shown past lives we have had and a future together where we walk together on this journey of light and healing spreading the message to the masses. Also the repeated messages I have received in my dreams is that he is my soulmate. Yet, I wonder if this is all an illusion and I'm the only one that feels the connection between us because I am an Empath.

I have finally come out of this depression, after repeated cord cutting to sever the ties between us that never worked, and after praying for divine intervention. He seems to be in a better place emotionally and the connection I am feeling is not so intense. But, lo and behold at the beginning of July, 2017 he started looking my way again, greeting me, and smiling at me when we pass in the halls. I feel that my inner light is illuminating strongly again and my heart chakra is wide open. This is how I had been before and maybe that is what attracted him to me in the first place. I'm confused. Maybe someone reading this can shed some light on this situation. I have researched this on the internet, but much of the information is conflicting.

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dianemarie3337 (1 posts)
4 years ago (2020-01-18)
Oh wow! I'm just seeing this and it was years ago! Well I read your post and I just wanted to say, don't give up!
StarWolf555 (1 stories) (3 posts)
7 years ago (2017-07-29)
Hello, I would like to contribute a little bit, and hopefully I can help some. First of all, when you mentioned in an additional post about the dark nature of the energy and psychic attacks, I believe that this could have been a manifestation of his own repressed feelings regarding the connection. When you have a soul connection with someone, it does not matter if the physical body follows through, one way or another this connection finds a way to be honored. And so my feeling is that due to the repression, the feelings were warped and arrived to you in a way that was not right. Maybe now that he is in a better place it could be a better time to be near him, but I would just be careful and possibly do some shielding meditation if you experience more attacks from him.

Also, with regards to feeling that you are linked to this man, I have had a handful of experiences like this in my life. Many times, I did not fully understand the path they traveled because the relationship, romantic or platonic did not last irregardless of how strong the connection was. After much searching, I came to some conclusions about these encounters. First, I think these are ones we meet over and over throughout lifetimes and our souls continue to find each other again and again. Each time we re-encounter each other, it is like something clicks into place- it's like a remembering because our soul remembers. Secondly, it has had to do for me with a soul contract. I'm not sure if you are familiar with this idea, but essentially it is the idea that before we come to Earth we make agreements with other souls about their role in our life. It is purely to teach and help us progress on our journey and never to intentionally damage us. So, I might ask- what is he here to teach you?

Hope it helps!
Chomba (guest)
7 years ago (2017-07-25)
Hi, I just wanted to thank you for your advice. I know this is very soon after, but I did the spiritual cuts of the cords and it actually worked for me almost immediately. It must be that I was wrong about the connection I thought I had with this person. Whatever feelings I had, it was one sided and only coming from me to him. Since the spiritual cuts worked so well, I can only conclude this was actually the case. I also found out (not through any person) That he is already in a relationship and is actually leaving the state very soon. I'm a bit saddened but glad to be able to avoid any further emotional attachment to this person. I hope your situation resolves soon as well. Be blessed.
cranberrykitten (1 stories) (2 posts)
7 years ago (2017-07-22)
I'm dealing with the same thing... Oh my god it's nuts. I have a same connection with someone I can't tell if it's a twin flame or a connection but I believe twin flame he got sent off too the military... We still mind chat its insane
SpanishQueen (1 stories) (3 posts)
7 years ago (2017-07-19)
Greggb, thank you for your comment. Please clarify "one of your own kind" since you refer to this as a possible explanation for my experience.
SpanishQueen (1 stories) (3 posts)
7 years ago (2017-07-19)
Chomba, thank you for your response. I googled cord cutting on the internet. I tried different metods, but none of them worked. From the Internet and youtube videos, I've gained my information on soul and twin flame bonds. The man I am bonded to is a foreigner who I had no romantic interest in the beginning. There is also information out there on the Internet regarding the false twin or catalyst that is the preparatory experience for the true twin flame. While the cord cutting didn't work I tried protection visualization and even prayer. I didn't mention this in my original post, but this whole experience has a dark supernatural feel that led me to use protecton when around him. I am a Christian, and so I called on the archangels, Jesus Christ, Mother Mary, and my deceased relatives to stand around me while I hold or wear crystals. I started this after experiencing psychic attacks for almost the entire month of October, 2016 before he and I began working on a project together. At the end of October, through dreams it was revealed that the psychic attacks were coming from him. They were sexual in nature but I don't believe he is aware that he projects his emotions so strongly or that he purposely means harm. These religious symbols and visualization I use have, I believe, caused the disconnection between he and I. Divine intervention will step in when you ask. I am still confused. I hope you find peace in your situation.
Greggb (6 stories) (25 posts)
7 years ago (2017-07-18)

It seems to me there are two definite issues, or sides to your situation. One is the psychic connection you've described, and the other is normal human romance, and all the fun stuff that goes with that. I think you feel a strong connection to this person and are also romantically attracted to them.

I'd suggest sitting down and really trying to figure out which is which... How much of your attraction to this person is romantic, and how much of it is spiritual, or more at the level of the soul?

I've only ever experienced what you might call a "psychic connection" with one other person for sure... Possibly two. That was with a woman I met in a dive bar. She was able to discern things about me that should have been impossible. That's how I knew there was something to it.

I felt a very deep psychic connection to her, and it was the first time anything like that had ever happened to me. It almost felt like there was an invisible wire connecting our brains. I felt like I wasn't alone for the first time in pretty much all my adult life. At the same time, though, I wasn't very romantically attracted to her, or attracted to her at the level of the soul. I should clarify that for me, romantic attraction is at the level of the soul.

I think the situation I've described is a little different than yours, where mine was more a kind of meeting of one of my "own kind". One of the same species, where I've felt like I was of a different species most of my adult life.

Would you also describe your situation as a meeting of one of your "own kind"?

I know I haven't answered many of your questions. I'm mostly trying to get a better feeling for the situation and maybe, perhaps, help you assess your situation.

Hopefully that helps.
Chomba (guest)
7 years ago (2017-07-18)
Sorry, I accidentally repeated a couple of sentences after doing a spell check.
Chomba (guest)
7 years ago (2017-07-18)
Hi, I am new here and just came across your post. I decided to respond because I have a similar situation developing in my life right now, although not the same scenario. Several years back, I had a dream in which I saw myself walking along a stretch of a street mall in the city I now live in. In this dream, I was holding hands with a man I was madly in love with and we were incredibly happy together. Anyways, I could not see his face, but he was taller than I am and had fair skin with dark hair. I've always thought of this dream as a very vivid one and as a premonition of the future (I am also an empath and before I've actually had other dreams, psychic impressions or feelings, come true). A couple years ago, I met someone in a virtual college class whom I felt very attracted to. However, the class eventually ended and while I was sad about this, I mostly forgot all about it. Anyway, now this same man is teaching a current class that I am taking and those feelings not only have returned but they did with a vengeance. I don't know if he is the man in my dream (described above) but all I can say is that I can't stop thinking of him. He also physically resembles some of the aforementioned physical characteristics. What seems to have triggered all of this, is that he told me a few days ago that he was watching a football game and that the US was playing against my native country and that there was a tie (Yes, I am foreign). But, then he said that he was thinking about me. I did not know what to respond except an awkward statement: "Oh! Well, I'm glad." It must also be taken into consideration that he has to be careful about how he addresses his students, as the university I go to, has recently started to crack down on teacher-student inappropriate relationships. What can I make of all this? I actually would like to forget this whole thing. Since you stated that you made cord cutting to severe these emotional ties, I think that maybe the best thing for me to do too. Would you mind telling me how you did this? But, like you I feel that I have a strange connection to this man. I don't know what to do and I wouldn't dream of telling him anything about this. I fear rejection or worse. Since you stated that you made cord cutting to severe these emotional ties, I think that maybe the best thing for me to do too. Would you mind telling me how you did this?

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