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My father died in early September, 2006, of melanoma. His death was completely unexpected. First, we found out he was sick, then we found out he had two years to live, and two months later he passed away. My father and I didn't have a relationship from the time that I was 13 on. He was scheduled to have every other weekend visits with my sister and I, and one day he decided not to show. He never called, never stopped by, he sent birthday and christmas cards but that's about it. We saw him every now and then, very randomly, maybe once a year, twice maximum. When he called and told us that he was sick, we visited him. When my aunt went up to see him and called us to tell us that he was bedridden, and always sort of half asleep, we saw him every day. The last time I saw my father, I went to give him a hug as I was leaving. I kissed him on the cheek and told him I loved him, and he said "Love you too, be good..."

Since then I have dreams fairly regularly where my dad is there. He talks to me, jokes with me, gives me advice. I never pass these off as dreams. There's just a feeling to them where I know it can't be a dream, that it's really him. In my last dream, last night, he wasn't there, but I was contacting him through a clock-radio type of thing. It would light up when he was there, and I could talk to him and hear his voice over the radio thing. I got very emotional and asked him questions about love and life, and if he loved me, and if he was okay, and if he was happy. My dad and I were never really close in that sense, we never really had a chance to spill our guts, so to say... I never got to go to him for advice on love and life or anything like that. So it's tough for me to tell if this is a dream... Or if he's just finally opening up to me.

Do you think he is conscious of visiting me? Like, do you think that wherever he is, he's like, "I'm going to visit my daughter tonight"? I haven't asked my sister if she gets visited or not. She's taking his death very hard, and I don't want her to get upset if I've been visited and she hasn't. Do you think it's really him... Or just a dream, just me missing him? Wishing that we'd been closer? I can't tell, but it feels like he's really there.

Another time, I thought I might mention... This is very weird. And it makes me happy. My father LOVED Bryan Adams. He would listen to Bryan Adams all the time, and his favorite song was Summer of '69. Shortly after his death, I was in a local pizza shop with my older sister, who has a different father. The pizza shop has a jukebox that normally sits quietly if not being played, but will randomly play songs if it goes unused for a long period of time. My sister and I were sitting there, reminiscing about my dad, when the jukebox played his song! I got so emotional, and I was like, he knows we're talking about him, that's all there is to it. Coincidence? Ehh...

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megxc (10 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-01-20)
Hey Ashley,

I lost my father as well, in 2002. I was only 15 years old going on 16 when he started showing up in my dreams. There were some dreams he would be in that were just that...dreams, others though where he would come and talk to me about things... Just telling me he was proud or whatever but they were in fact DIFFERENT. It was clear as day, clear as I'm sitting here typing this at work right now. These are visits. He's making you aware of his presence and of course he loves you. That's why he comes around! I also have the same experience as you with certain music, my Dad was obsessed with the Beach Boys, lol. These are not coincidences, but signs. Enjoy them
megxc (10 posts)
 
14 years ago (2010-01-20)
Hey Ashley,

I lost my father as well, in 2002. I was only 15 years old going on 16 when he started showing up in my dreams. There were some dreams he would be in that were just that...dreams, others though where he would come and talk to me about things... Just telling me he was proud or whatever but they were in fact DIFFERENT. It was clear as day, clear as I'm sitting here typing this at work right now. These are visits. He's making you aware of his presence and of course he loves you. That's why he comes around! I also have the same experience as you with certain music, my Dad was obsessed with the Beach Boys, lol. These are not coincidences, but signs. Enjoy them ❤
ashekt (1 posts)
 
15 years ago (2009-05-10)
I want to share my story with you all. I lost my Mom in a terrible and sudden road accident this year in Feb. She is the one I love the most in this world and will always do so. Not a single day has passed when I have not cried my hear out for her. I can never imagine my life without her. She is the best Mom in this whole world (I avoid using past tense for her!) and I know how much she adores me. My mere sight would bring smile on her face. I still remember each thing that has happened to me since the time I heard this news and could not believe all what I saw. From the very first day, I never accepted this fact. I kept saying to myself that she will come back to me, she has to. I saw her in dreams many a time from that fateful day. Those are not normal dreams and they do tell me something. The common theme across those dreams is babies. I feel as if she listens to me, recently I said to her that she do not talk much to me in my dreams and to my surprise she visited me and we did talk a lot and the amazing thing about this dream was that she was sitting at my bedside table where I keep her picture while sleeping. I know she is around me and there are lot many others things that make me believe in it firmly. The best dream I had about her was when I held her hand and said you will have to come back to me and she said yes and then I again said not for a short time but forever and she said yes she will come back to me forever. I have a feeling that she will be soon have a rebirth as my baby. I saw a baby in the very first dream I had of her. I know it might sound absurd but it is not impossible. She knows I cannot live without her. Presently I am alive not living and my love for her will bring her back. She will live her life again and can complete all her unfinished tasks. I keep interpreting my dreams and they all give me very positive signals about her.
Phantomxhail (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-09-15)
I just came across this site on a google search. I had a dream the other night that involved a co worker and someone I have never seen. I am a strong believer in dreams and so I immediately called her upon waking up, which is another strange part of it. I usually remember my dreams, but do not usually wake up immediately after one. Anyways, upon talking to her about my dream and explaining to her the person that came and the fact that I had an impression it was a brother who passed away, she informed she did not have a brother who passed away and so we talked some more. I gave her a detailed description of the person and the house that I saw this person at in my dream. I also saw an experience she had a few days before in my dream of her and her son in their vehicle I was in the back seat and they were interacting like I was not there, I gave her the details of that and she was stunned. Explained to me that it had happened a few days ago. Well to sum things up, her husband is going through some rough medical things and possibility of cancer and is in the hospital every other day for more tests. We got off the phone and in ten minutes she calls me back and says that I gave her the exact description of her husbands brother who passed away and the exact car he died in as well as the house his brother and he grew up in. My question to any and all who might be able to answer is if this a common thing for spirits to visit other people to inform someone else they are with them? For me in this case the brother visiting me in my dream to inform my coworker and her husband that he is with them and watching over them. Any quidance and help in understanding this would be greatly appreciated. I can be emailed at phantomxhail [at] hotmail.com. Thanks ahead of time for your help.
Melinda (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-08-28)
ok this might make you emotinal, (I hope not) but THAT IS SO COOL! True, it probably makes you sad, but think of it this way, Your dad loves you. I don't know why he kept away from you. Mabye he was always drunk for some reason. Or mabye he was half phsyco. Or mabye he just thought of himself as a mean person. If those three thing are correct, then he was trying to make sure you don't end up in a bad sittuation like him. Then, after he died, he probably figured out there's a way to talk to you in your dreams. That is pretty much the only way the dead can talk to the living without being creepy. This is a good thing. It's real visits from your father. You are so lucky. :)
Anonymous (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-07-09)
I believe your dreams are real visits from your father. I have dreams like this... Not with my father but with another person... I see him in my dreams a few nights a week. I'm starting to get more tuned into things... Like when he will show up in a dream or when I feel he is around. I can tell...it's been going on for well over a year now. I understand how you feel... It feels real because it is real.
jo (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-04-29)
I had an experience similar to Lealu33 about a year ago. I was meditating, and I saw a little girl that I didn't know. I was not sleeping, and I was rather confused by her presence. I not only saw her, but as she came over to me and wrapped her arms around me in a hug, I could actually feel her embracing me. I felt the heavyness of her on me, yet I was unable to move. I don't know who this child was, nor do I understand what happened. I also seem to have limited psychic abilities. Many times, I tend to feel (not a vision, but a feeling that comes to me) what is going to happen before it occurs. I also know things about people without understanding how or why. I would like to develop these abilities, but I am unsure of how to do it. I have tried calling my spirit guides without success. Does anyone have advice or explaination for me? Thank you.
kristy (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-04-23)
thanks for telling this on night I had a dream of a man that I do not know but he called my husband little man. I told him the dream he said his pa-pa called him that when he was a child
angie (3 stories) (23 posts)
 
17 years ago (2007-04-20)
ashley,dont worry about this, I feel prophetess doe's not truly understand the spirit world so fears it, she will know the truth herself one day, both my mum and dad have been to me many times in many different ways(read my story DAD) this was just one way of him letting me know he was around, I have had many experiences with spirit and truly believe they come to let us know they are ok, I have felt their pain as they passed and experienced those feelings that you had, so please don't worry, just feel blessed that he chose to come to you
love and light xx
Prophetess (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-04-19)
Ask the Lord to cleanse your home to bless it, it was not your husbands father, your husbands father is in Heaven Lealu, he is with the Lord and the Angels of the Lord, and loves it so much he would not travel back and forth, but wait until you join him their one day, the Lord loves him to much to let him wander, that is why your body felt heavy, it was one of Satans messangers, one of his demons, ask God to bless your house. You do not need a minister or a priest, that is a myth and movies, as long as you have faith and prayer, Father God will do that for you, for free too! No paying a minister. Also reading scripture aloud cleans the home too-try any of the psalms, that gets them out of their along with prayer!
Lealu33 (guest)
 
17 years ago (2007-04-19)
I had the strangest experience last night. I was in a guided meditation group, nice and relaxed and then BAM, I had a visitor. He was my husband's father, I have never met him, he was killed 10 years ago. He introduced himself and he looked like a younger version than I have seen in photos. He had soem messages for me and for my husband, nothing traumatic just life info. Then he was done talking and when he was gone I had the weirdest physical sensation. My body was so heavy it felt like it was weighted down, I couldn; t move my arms or legs and it was difficult to breathe and it took me about 15 minutes to come out of it. It was so intense that I had tears just pouring out uncontrollably. Has anyone experienced this, does anyone know what happened to me?... I am so freaked out.

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