I'd like to apologize for my english level, it's not as good as it should. Well, since one year from now or so, I think I am an empath. Why's that? My emotions sometimes swing like hell, I don't know. When I'm in a place full of people I get really sick. The subway is the worst place, cause I can't run away from there.
It always begins in my stomach, as if worms were giving a walk inside of me, it's disgusting and then the emotions' swings begin. Every strong heartbeat is a change, I can feel stressed and then feel sad, and then panic and then sadness again. I know they come from outside, it's like they were stuck on my skin or something, and when the change happens, there's a strong heart beat and it seems as if something penetrated me, or something like that. I feel a high pressure on my skull, and it hurts like hell on a physical level. When I'm in an open place I can go and the physical and emotional pain just go away, but in the subway I can't go, and I can't block them out, until I collapse and fall unconscious just for some seconds. It happened 4 times.
There is another version, it's active when I'm with a few people. This began to happen later than the other thing. The sick and disgusting sensation in my stomach does not appear (I don't know why) and then my emotions change. One day, I was drinking with my friends and it happened, I felt so desolate... Like having in the middle of a black water lake, and wanting to get out but it's too thick and it does not let you to move. Well, that's the thing I thought bit later. I told to my friend and she said that's exactly what she feels. And I told her I thought she was happy with us, but after that I think she's pretending and she answered me just "yes, that is, you're right".
But feeling bad is not the worst part. It's when I absorb another's emotions and I don't realize or it simply takes control on me, as when I felt uncontrollable desires to kiss my friend, with her boyfriend (and friend of mine too) near, I was drunk and I couldn't keep myself under control and I tried, it was horrible. After they went away I felt so guilty for being not able to control myself. I don't know why, this seems stronger while I'm drunk.
Could you confirm I have empathy ability? If yes... Could you please help me control it or to block emotions out? You can answer here or if someone wishes, you can add me to my messenger, the address is in my profile, but whatever way you use... I need help... please... I'm afraid.
Thanks in advance.