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I Feel When My Loved One Is Unusually Unhappy Or Very Happy


Lately, I have been experiencing some of the emotions and pain my girlfriend experiences. She is the most important person to me, and I love her immensely, more so than anyone in my life.

Sometimes, I'll feel random depression and worry (they always go together.), or elation. I've asked my girlfriend how she felt when I have the worry and depression, and she tells me she's upset or just unhappy. And as she gets happier, the feeling disappears. When I feel the sense of elation, her answer is that she's happy, or generally on the more positive end of the emotional spectrum.

On a separate example, the other day I was out of town, and I became unconditionally sick (stomach-wise.) in the day with no explanation. I asked my girlfriend how she had felt, because I had the nagging feeling of worry that something was wrong with her. She told me she was feeling very sick. And later in the day, my sick feeling intensified and the worry was slightly stronger. I asked her how she felt and she told me she almost vomited. Eventually later in the day I felt normal again, I asked her how she felt and she said that she felt better.

A similar thing happened a year ago when I was in a serious relationship. My ex-girlfriend would randomly text me when I felt very depressed and tell me she knew something was wrong, same for when I felt sick, was very happy, or was in pain. I, however, did not have this ability to tell how she was feeling as she did with me.

I'm not sure if the part about my ex has anything to do with my ability now, but I thought it was worth mentioning.

Can someone give me a reason for this (if there even is one.). Does anyone else experience something similar with people they have a strong attachment with?

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halfmoonbay (2 stories) (10 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-27)
You are not alone by a long shot. I get this all the time. But because I don't like this feeling I try talking to them about it and getting on a deeper and personal level. And that is how I get that nasty feeling to go away. I completely understand how you feel. Its a nasty feeling. But I have just discovered that I am a Empath, but I'm not sure what type. I'm sure there are ways to help with you and this feeling. Take care 😁
wolfes9911 (1 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-27)
Ok, I've been looking for what this is as well, glad to know I'm not alone lol. So it's just a deeper sense of epathy then? I've had this with 2 people. The first person was someone I consider a sister, although after I moved and we didn't get to see each other for several months, we lost that ability. I also have it with my fiance', and vice versa. I think this bond we have with each other has just made us closer together even then we were to start off with.
Ahlaya-Avlyn (2 posts)
15 years ago (2009-07-28)
^~^ I have been told that it is a deeper sense of empathy. A bond of sorts. I have one with my significant other. As well as vice-versa. Lucky I guess. Suposedly you only develop a link like that to one person per lifetime. Generally the same person in the next if you are lucky enough to meet. Normaly empathy only extends as far as feeling others emotions. Lucky you. Feeling other Phisical aspects of it is abit more taxing though.
fossilera (4 stories) (124 posts)
15 years ago (2009-07-28)
I've felt this as well. Even though we aren't in a relationship, I can still tell when my friend is feeling upset or depressed, and she can tell the same somewhat about me.

Love is a powerful thing. I would not be surprised if people are a little more in-tune with their abilities when a strong emotion like that comes along.

If there's one thing I learned from my experiences, it's that you should keep listening: if you consider it a gift, then it was given to you for a reason.
Dragonsflight7 (2 stories) (11 posts)
15 years ago (2009-07-27)
I could feel when the boy I loved was about to come in a room or if I was going to see him that day I would get butterflies in my stomach that morning. I think it only happens with a few special people.
laurenge (3 stories) (46 posts)
15 years ago (2009-07-27)
Sometimes when in love, there is a strong connection between each other. You will feel their emotions, or if they need you with them.
My boyfriend and are like this too, so don't worry lol!
epoy1984 (14 stories) (644 posts)
15 years ago (2009-07-27)
I believe in the power of love. Love connects both of you because of the strong emotion between you and your girlfriend. You can feel other people's emotion. 😊 😉 ❤

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