My name is Stesie and I'm fourteen. I've had paranormal abilities since I was two (that I remember). My most recent incident was last night (4.3.10) I identified a spirit that has been in my house for about three years now. I only ever saw a shadowy figure, not enough to see any details. Last night, however, I really concentrated and closed my eyes. I opened myself up and I got three details. (I never previously got any information about him) The name Gerald, the age 33 and the eye color blue came to me. I felt like my grandma should know him and I asked her if she knew a Gerald. She informed me that she had in fact known a Gerald when she was around fourteen. She dated him and he promised to come back for her when she was eighteen (He went to the army). Of course, she didn't believe him and moved on with her life. At her eighteenth birthday he was there with a wedding ring in hand. She was pregnant and already married and she never had a chance to speak to him. Someone else did. I always feel like I can feel his pain and it brought me to tears last night. I knew it was him. He always walks in the hallway leading from her room. I had no knowledge of any of this before and neither did anyone else.
I feel like I have a strong connection with Gerald. I can feel what he feels (I feel other people's emotions, desires, needs etc. A lot). I know that he is sad and angry as well. I believe that his love for my grandma never died and that is why he is here.
How do I help?
Shouldn't he cross over or something?
I'm confused about what to do next.