My friend Crissy died in 2001 tragically in a car wreck, she was very dear to me. This experience I write about in loving memory of Crissy Debough. I use to work and live with Crissy, we were inseparable. I had a bad thing happen to me so I decided to move to another city.
I missed Crissy a lot so after I moved, she moved to the same city. I only saw her once before she died. I went to work where she had been working. While I was on break some of the girls began to talk about a girl named crissy who died in a car wreck a year before. I said "was her waitress name Chantel", "yes" said the girl "how did you know that?" she asked. "She was like family to me" I replied, I broke down right there.
That night I had a dream that we were in our old apartment and my daughter, who was four years old at the time, come down the stairs and was talking to me in Crissy's voice. I screamed and woke up. The next night she came to me again in a dream "tell Rodney I will always love him" she said Rodney was her boyfriend who was in jail at the time of her death. I had never met him before, they were not together when we were living together and I only saw her once before she died. So I had no idea who he was and I didn't try to hard to find him.
Soon the dreams became real. She would come to me at first once a month, then it went to once a week to daily while I was wide awake. This went on for around three months. One day I went to visit a friend of mine. And this guy pulled up and Crissy appeared to me jumping up and down. "THATS HIM! THATS RODNEY!" so I walked up to him and asked "Is your name Rodney?" he said "yes how did you know that?" I said "I'm a friend of Crissy" he said "you do know she is dead? Don't you?" "oh yeah I know she's dead she has been haunting me". "What?, why?" he asked. I said "she wants me to tell you she will always love you" he began to cry he said he felt bad because he wasn't there when she died and he wondered if she was mad at him and if she still loved him. I said yes I know she does because she wanted you to know this so bad, she haunted me all the time.
That night I went home, she thanked me and I told her I would always think of her and love her. She use to say she didn't believe in psychics, she said now she knew. I have never heard from her again but part of me wishes I would I know she is happy wherever she is.