Communication Through Dreams?

So aside from my obe's, hearing spirits, fending off spirits in astral projection, feeling others' emotions and reading someone correctly when I meet them...I'm pretty normal LOL. Ok, but really, I'm 32, married and have kids. I work a regular job, take my kids to sports and music. Since I could remember I have been having paranormal and psychic experiences. This one in particular, has to do with a dream or dreams about a person.

This person, is a man I dated when my husband and I separated for a few years. Mind you, my husband left for another woman and I mourned for a long time before I picked myself up and said "Enough, no more crying for him". My husband was a horrible person during this time, but I always felt like we would fix things and put our family back together. Which we did (not easy either way). Anyway, this guy was very much like me. We spent so much time talking and laughing and communicating at work just by looking at each other. We had a very odd connection. I asked him a question one day in my head and he answered me aloud. I looked at him and said "I didn't say it out loud" he laughed and said " I know". I can honestly say I have never had such a connection with another person, not even my husband (maybe a couple of my kids). We saw each other for a while and I felt very strongly towards him. He was younger and sometimes acted so, but for the most part he was an old soul. As I am. He did some stupid things, I did as well and we drifted. My husband eventually wanted to put our family back together and I felt that was the best thing for the kids, which it turned out to be. Not for me as much as I deal with many obstacles with this marriage. Which I also knew was going to happen and was prepared for it, not just in a common sense sort of way either.

However, I have not been able to let this other person go. I think of him, and dream of him constantly. It's been a couple of years now. Sometimes it's unbearable and frustrating. I try not to think of him and I dream of him, seriously non stop. The last dream was very lucid and recent. If you have ever seen the Lake House with Sandra Bullock, my dream was this way. We were communicating by writing on something, questions and answers. I would put in under something and he would receive it and write back. At first he seemed mad then let his guard down. He told me I didn't look the same and he knew because of his special sight. (Which is true I have gained some weight, but not alot:) ). The very odd thing was how in control I was in the dream. Being able to control what I was writing and see and read what I was writing, and read his replies.

It's odd how I can't forget him and can't stop the dreams of him. I also had a sort of obe and immediately thought of him and felt his touch. I don't know if anyone has ever heard of anything like this. I really do try to move on, but something won't let me!

I have also had communication dreams with my grandmother who has passed away, in which she asked me how my kids were and once showed me she was unhappy with the family not talking. Advice someone please...