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Ability Gone. Just Gone

 

It all started a couple years ago. There's a whole long and painstakingly slow moving story to it all but eventually it all ends up here, so here is where I'm going to start. I'm fourteen years old. I think I've seen a tad bit more than your regular teenage girl ranging from the 'super natural' to seeing my mom abused. I am an Empath. Was an Empath. See this is where the lines get a tad bit blurry. Since I was ten I could feel other's emotions as my own, the ideal definition of an Empath. Right? But lately, it's just stopped.

I learned to develop 'shield' type things in my mind but I don't even need them anymore! And, believe it or not I'm worried. I depend on the skill to sometimes realize what others are feeling, where and when to tread lightly and how and what will set a person off or calm them. That's what I kind of depended on to get through school most days. Knowing and having an advantage.

But it's gone.

I don't know what to do, and I've read a couple articles (maybe I should read more?) but I feel I need more direct advice, directed towards me so I can really wrap my mind around it. But just to get on the topic of my MIA gift I'm going to describe it, just so we can clearly tell if I'm an Empath or not because I've just been guessing I am.

When I have my 'shield' up I can only really feel the emotion's pushing at my conscious like steam or a light drowsy fog floating around a person kind of. They kind of lap at my conscious like waves to a beach, there one minute gone the next but always coming back. I could depend on it to come back. It also serves as an alert system when things are about to go awry.

When I don't have my shield up it's like I'm a host to separate emotions and my own emotions separated like a fish tank but still using the same water (the water would be my body). My mind unconsciously pokes around the clouds, sorts through things. The colors change, the 'light drowsy fog' can turn denser and less floaty and be the lightness that it is when calm.

But their all bundled up inside of me, this one person. And the other person doesn't realize what's happening because they don't know! And it's not like that happens every day, someone being able to 'read' and feel their emotions. And sometimes with emotions comes a word (and with that sentence connects a whole different story of mine) and I really can't separate the words from my own thoughts until the person actually says the words and by that time I'm a jungle of confusion and-

But, back to the matter at hand; so obviously as I stated before when someone feels a something I feel something too and sometimes it gets overwhelming and I resort to using my 'shield' (which I learned how to put up from this website. I was so excited when I first did it!). But, what I really want to know is your perspective. How does this happen?

Everyone is their own being and therefor another shouldn't be able to delve into their private feelings right? But then my mind takes me to evolution, are we evolving? Or? I don't know. I just really want to have someone else's opinion on this. A couple opinions would be nice so I could mull them all over at once and make connections and, huh, I really get ahead of myself sometimes. I have more questions' that will no doubt come to mind with each person's words. And I really do hope you'll help me answer a few questions. I really am curious. But anyway, the whole purpose of this was to ask if anyone else's 'ability' has ever gone missing, what you can do about it, and possibly why? And how your Empathy or ability works maybe?

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Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
7 years ago (2013-05-05)
Hi, I was just wondering if somone could explain how to practice with empathy. Since your ability is like a muscle it needs to be worked with. I just don't know how to practice empathy. Since it deals more with others... I don't know. I want to develop my ability but... Hehe, I'm kind of lost on where to start and how to begin. If somone could give me some advice on that, that would be fantastic:)
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-10-31)
I have a question pertaining to psychic fighting. I mean... What does it entail? What are the... Symptoms? How do you know? What is it? The basics. If somone could anser these questions for me that would be fantastic! (:
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-03-04)
I think I have a new ability. Does anybody have any experience with Aerokinesis? I know it's a bit of a far stretch but ever since I was little I've always felt... Connected to nature. I thought the wind talked to me. I still sing to the wind out of habit and it... Talks back, in a way. Not just the wind but nature.

And, as I said my empathy came back but it's not the same, it's... Stronger. How strong? If I focus, and the person is distracted with somethig or other I can influence their emotions. It's complicated.
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-29)
My empathy came back. Not how it used to be at all but it did come back, just to put it out there. 😁
Mubashir (285 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-13)
In my point of view the gifts we have are so many that we can't count. They are sometimes taken away, someties forgotten. If you are using one of the gifted abilities, then you discover a new one, so you start working on that. In that time you may forget how to use that ability. If you have many gifts, then thank God for His blessings and use your abilities to help others as much as you can.
monty (11 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-12)
[at] Icedre, If abilities are gone its nearly impossible for them to come back. If an ability is overused without having the energy to its fullest. If the higher power that we refer to as God decides to take the power away. It can also go away if a person has been involved in a psychic fight either with a witch or a spirit. These are some of the reasons why an ability can get lost. I agree with shapeshifter that ability is in our body and it grows but only when certain things are done to make it grow. If you are born with a gift then its a gift and you have not done anything to make it grow in the first place. Gifts are gifts and not something you have earned overtime following hard work and hence can be taken away.
Mubashir (285 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-12)
Well actually even before coming to this site. I knew my gifts since I was a little kid and I never told anything about myself not even to my parents. Whenever I go outside, don't know how but wild animals attracted to me and try to play with me. You have a gift not a disease. Feel free to talk in a friendly manner. I prefer an environment where you can freely share your experiences with people like yourself. No formality. If you stay positive and show caring nature and help others, but on the top you should try to become very close to God. I know you will become more and more stronger but you should be more careful when devil has his eyes on you. Because I was attacked by devil in my dream last night. 😢
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-11)
I've seen a couple of spirits before. Well, one wasn't a spirit just a person's actions stuck in time. I don't really know how to explain it, it has something to do with time. Because time isn't really how we usually think about it, going in order and what not. But anyway, back on track.

Dreads- how was it weird? What did the spirit look like?

Mubashir- It's nice to talk to other people about things such as this. Before finding and communicating on this site, I thought I had a disease or something. I will believe and work with my spiritual ability, don't worry.

And I think on Monday I'm going to 'hand in' my story of this encounter I had with this spirity thing. It's been really bothering latley and it's better to follow your instincts, right?

Anywho, thank you to all who have been responding to my article so far. It's REALLY helpful!
Mubashir (285 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-11)
I can't see spirits but I can feel them whenever they around. When it comes to psychic abilities, only I have them in my family, that's one reason I can't share anything with my family or anyone around. Its really a pain when I can't talk about these things with someone. I found this site recently and made my account here. As for spiritual abilities you should never stop believing in them and ask God for help. I sometimes lose my abilities when some intense negative influence covers me that drives me crazy. But my abilities return when I get better from the influence.
Dreads (2 stories) (111 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-11)
Only time I saw a solid spirit was in my dreams. Well actually, I have seen 1 solid spirit while I was conscient... It looked really kind of odd though.
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-10)
Ah- thanks for the clear up. I was definitly panicking a bit. So meditating and being healthy are definitly being fit into the schedule now. I miss my ability.

Dreads, you said that youre gift was seeing spirits and then premonitions. About being able to see spirits though, have you ever run into a kind of solid spirit?
Dreads (2 stories) (111 posts)
+1
8 years ago (2012-02-10)
No, you will never really lose your power if you use it in the right way, for the right reasons and if you use them regularly. Think of psychic abilities as a muscle, you gotta do the right combination of Streches, Weight Lifting and other exercises to keep it nice and working properly... In other words meditating and practicing your ability will make it come back faster and stronger than just sitting at the television watching cartoons 😊.
shapeshifter78 (2 stories) (169 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-09)
No, you didn't lose it forever. Even if you did lose this "limb" it would first have to been cut off. I am not even sure if it is possible to cut off since it is spread through your entire body. It is more like it is a limb that is always changing and growing during your whole entire life. Sometimes having a block in your chakra from something happening to you might cause this to not work or it is just your abilities are changing. I don't know why monty said that.
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-09)
So what you're saying is that it won't come back? Once my empathy's gone, it's gone for good? Or that in most cases or some cases the likely hood of it coming back is nada but there's still a chance. I'm leaning towards gone for good what with the whole limbs metaphor but...
monty (11 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-09)
Powers or abilities are like a persons hands or legs. If it goes then it really goes and will not come back. There are numerous reasons why some lose it. Main reason that I can state here is that some people lose it because it was meant to happen that way. All these abilities are linked to us not just for one life but for lives together. Over time how you act, react to the powers will determine the future of it (if it will stay or if it will go away)
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-09)
Wow... That sounds almost easy. Well, it really does sound easy. So stress can cause it? Well I guess that makes a lot of sense, stress can cause a lot of things.

And I have a question: Can a... Ghost (well it was a little more solid then a ghost.) somehow cause a change? I had a 'run in' if you will, with a 'ghost' but it wasn't a ghost. And since then my ability left, but I've also been stressed out about school and friends and all the drama that those bring...
Dreads (2 stories) (111 posts)
+1
8 years ago (2012-02-08)
Exactly what duff said. Except for your abilities might change and you just didn't notice.
duff (3 stories) (28 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-08)
if you want it back, if it is a truly big part of your life, its very simple. One day just clear your mind, look into yourself, and tell yourself you still can. Empathy doesn't just fade away, it gets burrowed, most likely from an outside factor. If there re any problems in your life, try to come to understandings with them! Maybe its as simple as you might just not believe in yourself, because the gift you have is controlled by you, nothing else. It makes you who you are! So just try and focus and let yourself go! It'll come back, don't think about it, just do it!:)
Icedre (2 stories) (10 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-07)
It just leaves? Like perminintly or does it eventually come back? And do your preminitions usually come true?
Dreads (2 stories) (111 posts)
 
8 years ago (2012-02-07)
My ability goes from time to time. I actually lost it at the New Year but got it back earlier today. My original gift was seeing spirits but that changed into premonitions... I actually just had a premonition in Spanish class about a earthquake that's going to happen on the 29th of December where I live.

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