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Spirits Making Me Feel Uncomfortable


I'm not sure if I'm the only medium that feels like this, maybe because I'm still trying to get the hang of my ability. But I hope that you guys don't feel that I'm just trying to be dramatic.

As my ability is getting stronger I can feel, hear and sometimes see the spirits around me. Now that I'm well aware that the spirits are always around me, I have found that I'm starting to feel like I have no privacy.

For example, while showering I know there are others in the bathroom. Or when I'm changing in my room, I can feel the presence of others in the room with me.

The other night I was awoken by a sound, it felt incredibly hot in my room so I took off my blouse. But I saw something move in the corner of my eye and I saw a teenage boy entity looking at me. I immediately covered myself and felt embarrassed and uncomfortable.

There was also anther day when I was with my boyfriend in my room. We were kissing and I felt movement behind him, I opened my eyes and saw a little girl around the age of 6 watching us. I felt dreadfully embarrassed, and I completely shut down on my boyfriend because I didn't want the young girl to see any sort of things like that, especially not from me.

I'm the eldest child in my family, cousins included, therefore I'm told to be there role model. Which is probably why I immediately shut down when seeing the young girl, I took it as, I would never do this in front if my little sister or any child, it's just not right.

My questions to the other mediums on here are, do I simply have to cope with this and in time I'll get used to it? Or is there a way I can let the spirits know that I want some privacy at the moment?

Thank you for reading and any advice will be greatly appreciated.

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Hellokimmy (3 stories) (14 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-03)
Your right gemma1994, It does help me look at the situation differently. I now understand that I have to continue to live my life as if I'm not being watched at all, or I could end up missing out on things that kids my age consider normal (:
Thank you gemma1994; have a great day.
gemma1994 (3 stories) (35 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-02)
i feel the same a lot of the time I was really into all of this stuff a few years ago but I let my abilities go for a while. I still constantly feel that I am being watched all the time its definitely not a plesant feeling. If I were you I wouldn't worry about whoever is watching you yes it is freaky like I have had a teenage boy and even a grown man watching me in the shower before, I'm 18 by the way and its not great but you can't let something/someone who has moved on, stop you from what you are doing. We are on the physical plain and they are not. I hope this helps make you look at things a little differently.
Hellokimmy (3 stories) (14 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-02)
Thank you very much guys, I will try these tastics as soon as possible

Have a wonderful day guys ❤
Seraffa (2 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-02)
Well; I am a bit different than the rest of the folks on this thread, but I can tell you what I do whenever I travel to a beautiful spot in the country that has had a history of spirits hanging around.

Of couse, since I was doing it alone, it wasn't as effective as it could have if I had had someone else alongside me helping, or any way to sanctify the place with water, etc. But I have noticed that it gradually works. People - alive or Fallen Asleep - are individuals, and respond as individuals to one another.

I find that to gently and respectfully STOP what I am doing and pay attention to their emotions conveyed through thoughts is the first step. Just by doing this I noticed that I have remained unharmed even in spots where other visitors have been physically pushed, touched, etc. So you see its a big help already.

And yes, communication should try to be silent but if they happen to be overwhelming you with a pent-up emotion that could be frightening you, then speak slowly, in short sentences they can understand. Try not to move around too much while "speaking". If you can sense their feelings or thoughts changing a bit, pause. See what follows, if anything.

Leave for awhile after you've spoken.

Make sure you're doing your best to bring positive experiences and changes into your own life on a continuing basis. Some of those Fallen Asleep may know why they are lingering in a place, and others may simply not know why they are still lingering (could have been due to mental health issues in their earthly lives.)

When you come back, they could be gone off for a little awhile so enter with sensitivity, and say a prayer for them and yourself first.

Lather...rinse...and repeat... Lol;-)

Oh but lastly... Have your place blessed. It will make everyone feel better that is involved. Guaranteed.
RookDygin (5 stories) (324 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-02)

Please try this... And feel free to ask any questions you may have...

Recipe for a Home Cleansing/Shielding... (allow for two or 3 days to complete)

Day one: Open all curtains window and doors with screens installed, let fresh air and sunshine into the home. Have all closets, cabinets and other 'dark spaces' open so that as much natural light as possible can enter those spaces. After 2-3 hours take a broom and 'sweep' out each room (this is symbolic and you do not have to really sweep) focus your thoughts on sweeping (pushing) out all negative energies / entities /thoughts. Close home up after completing each room of your home... Please do not forget your garage if you have one. (Optional) Light incense (sandalwood or Dragons-blood works well for me) and let aroma fill the home, and/or play a tape that contains your favorite Church/Positive, Upbeat (songs that give you good thoughts) songs before you begin sweeping.

Day two (or three): Once again open all curtains, windows and doors. Take a White candle (Optional) to the center most point of the home, sit on the floor and place candle in front of you. Light the candle (visualize a white ball of light) and then focus on the flame... Visualize the flame (white light) filled with positive thoughts, energy. (Say a prayer at this time if you so desire... Ask for cleansing positive energy to fill the candles flame/white light). Hold this 'image' in your mind and then visualize the flame (light) slowly expanding outward, visualize it filling the room your in, every corner and 'dark space'. Continue to visualize it's outer edges pushing away (burning away) any and all negative energies/entities out and away from each room in your home. Once you have visualized this flame (light) filling your entire home, picture it expanding to your property lines. Hold this image in your mind for a few moments then visualize 'anchoring' this flame (light) where you are sitting which is the center most point of your home. Once you have done this. Take a deep breath, relax a few moments and then blow out the candle. (If you didn't use a candle just let yourself relax a moment or two.) "

Now you can create a shield for yourself using the 'home shield' technique but instead of focusing on your home visualize the 'flame' simply surrounding you instead of your home... Best time to do this is after a nice shower using a rosemary scented soap (rosemary is good for purification and protection.)


Hellokimmy (3 stories) (14 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-02)
First off; I would like to thank everybody who took the time to read my story and advice me. I really appreaciate it. I have read all of the comments and found some things very helpful.

I would very much love to learn how to protect my home/myself, PathR or Rook. If you guys (or whomever else) have any tecniques that you wouldn't mind passing down to a beginer, I will gladly accpect all advice and tecniques.

Again, thank you everybody ❤ I hope all have a wonderful day.
RookDygin (5 stories) (324 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-01)
Well met and thank you for sharing this with us. There are ways to 'Shield' yourself from these 'feelings/spirits/entities'. The most basic is to picture a bubble/light/flame surrounding yourself and 'thinking' nothing can get through this 'barrier'. If you are Religious, say a prayer and ask your Deity of choice to strengthen this 'shield'.

PathR has brought up an interesting point when they said...

"Please bear in mind that the language of spirits
Is, "Thinking". "

This is because... How best to put this... Ah, here we go... In my Opinion (gotta have that 'disclaimer' LoL):

Our Physical Body is designed to help us function in the physical world. We see, hear, feel, smell and taste only that which is physical. Now our Physical Bodies are merely a covering for our Spirit Body. Thus, inside this physical frame dwells a Spirit that can see, feel, smell, hear and taste things of a Spiritual Nature.

So communication with a Spirit is like talking with ourselves... Our thoughts are nothing more than us - a spirit- talking to 'ourselves'. In effect it's a Spirit (ours) talking to a Spirit. This may be the reason why Spirit Communication can be so 'easy' when we are asleep...

If you have questions about Shielding Techniques please ask, if not here then via my e-mail address on my profile.


calvinvalerian (guest)
12 years ago (2012-05-01)
I can help you to banish the bad spirits who are haunting you. I learned this from a supra natural practitioner in Java, Indonesia. This land I'm stepping on has tons of history of spiritualism and men who are known of their monstrous inner power (chi/life force).

If you have never encounter people with monstrous energy within them, let me give you a picture of it. The guy who has monstrous level of energy can easily bounce off 12 people who have negative intention towards him with a single slap to the ground.

Well let's get back to the main topic. I've read that you were annoyed by bad spirits. As far as I can remember there are 3 types of races in spiritual realm: demon, satan and devil. And each of them has their own job within their world - TO TEMPT PEOPLE. Not every of them are bad. Those who tempt people are the bad ones and good spirit will never ever show up or interrupt human because they are doing something else like guarding cemetery, meditating, etc *whatever it is*.

These being do this because of several reasons, those who harms human to death has the need of a friend. Those who show up to human has the need of entertainment because it's funny to them that human are scared. Be brave buddy:)

Do not think I know everything about their world. These are just information I have gathered from the supra natural practitioner. He is a man with great faith and able to infuse a spirit to a medium's body (different spirit has different character).

Sorry for this one but I have to tell you even though my religion is spiritualism and not any other way around. In human language you call your creator God, Lord, etc - but in spiritual realm they call their creator 'The Prince'.

Many people question the existence of God. What I can say is this... Listen carefully big key here "Do not ask human. Ask those beings who live at the same dimension as The Prince". Human are clueless with this the existence of God because we ourselves are unable to see God. People who can shift dimensions are those which all their 6th sense (subtle: taste, touch, hear, smell, feel) had been awakened. These are all subtle senses that any human has but dormant. Too much into technology = Weaken your psychic and spiritual antennas.

One spirit said that their senses are far more powerful than human and their age can reach 1000+ years. The hell with that! 1000+ years I want it too! Hahaha but impossible T_T no one in the physical ocean is immortal.

An interview with a spirit by supra natural practitioner Hakim (his name). "Our beings likes and only tempt those people who do not have faith. And we are unable to tempt those who pray for protection because their body emitting shiny white light that burns us. And we fear of them."

Do me a favor for the sake of your own damn good. The next time you see demons, say this in your mind with sincere heart to The Prince "Prince, please protect me from any temptation of bad spirits". You don't need to visualize anything. Just say this word with sincere heart and believe it.

Bad spirits that wanted to tempt you will be burn. Have fun with fried ghost! Hahahaha!

Extra information:
Dead people cannot communicate with human. Human souls have had their own place and no longer belong to this world. If you encounter someone possessed by a demon and say that he is a dead person from an accident bla bla bla years ago. Big key here! This bad spirit is testing you! Just laugh and say "Really? As what I know a dead person cannot talk to a human". And you will soon watch them smile, buddy.

I hope these information can make your life to a better day.
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
12 years ago (2012-05-01)
You are asking some good questions?
I actually use a shield around my home day/night.
I do regular smudging, and use certain incense
For the purpose of keeping my home clear.
Shielding myself has help not to bring them home.

If you are in a haunted house you can keep spirits
Out of a room I tried this when my husband
Book us into one of the most haunted homes in
Scottland. Super active!
It was a little Castle was founded when the Vikings
Invaded. So part of the trick was closing holes
Under the floor as I did an assement.
The result was a sound sleep for my husband,
While I was awoken at 10pm and 11pm the next night.
Now the scenario is my husband sees/hears and always
Has all his life since a small boy.

Even with these there are still spirits that come.
But seem to come around the dream scape of
The hours 10pm-3pm in the morning.
Which is the time I work with them if they need

Please bear in mind that the language of spirits
Is, "Thinking". Yes if you wish to say to a spirit
Not now come back at so and so time. Just Think
This as you look at them. No need for words to come

Despite doing the items indicated above.
I notice energy and orbs passing in my home.
As for the energy I think I have seen that all
My life.
Theanimalchick (5 stories) (21 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-30)
I feel the exact same way! It used to creep me out so much because I was like they definetly wouldn't be watching me if they were still alive, so why should they be watching me now. As mediums I suppose this is something that we have to live with though. I'm just thankful that I know they are there, I would rather be aware of it and ask them politely to have some privacy then to not be able to see them and never know that they are watching. I'm so glad I'm not the only one that feels this way.
Girasol (3 stories) (49 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-30)
Hi there,
I felt a bit like this at first. I think we have to just go on as normal. You should simply send out a message that you want privacy and they should leave you alone for now. You are here to experience all aspects of your life on this planet so should not feel guilty about doing that just because you can see more than you could before.
Best wishes,

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