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How Can I Stop a Premonition from Happening?


I've never had anything like a psychic experience before. But what happened to me a few days ago scared me and is something that has never happened to me. I was laying in bed with my boyfriend and I just came out with 'Adam's going to die'. Adam being my boyfriend. He asked me to repeat it and I did, twice. It was only the third time I said it I realized what I was saying. At the time it was like I wasn't saying it or I was saying it about someone I didn't know. It was really strange, I can't explain it and I didn't understand it. I thought I was losing it and so did he.

It was only when I spoke about it to my brother that I took it really seriously. Because he then told me he'd had a premonition about my boyfriend being killed and he knew how it would happen and it would be at our flat. He told me about how he'd had visions before and seen things, but he never told me because he didn't think I'd believe. Which I probably wouldn't have until I experienced what I did.

It was just too much of a coincidence. At the time I said what I said to Adam, my brother was in the next room thinking about it, he told me the next day so I don't know if I said it because it came from him but I'm now really scared.

My brother told me he could change it because he's changed things he's seen before, but I don't know. I think about it every day, wondering if today will be the day. I've even considered if I should move so then we won't live at the place where it's supposed to happen. I don't know what to do.

I have a year old baby with my boyfriend and I love him so much, I can't lose him. I know who's supposed to kill him, someone who lives nearby who we've had conflict with before, he's not a nice person. I'm constantly on edge and I don't feel safe in my own home. And I'm worried that if I do something to try and change it then what I do will end up causing it if that makes sense?

If anyone could give me advice I'd really appreciate it. This is affecting my whole life.

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lilylove (3 stories) (362 posts)
12 years ago (2011-06-29)
Ok but If your girlfriend cares about you then why would she cheat on you? If she knows what could happen to you then why cheat. Are you sure that your dreams are dreams of the future? You have to be sure before you assume they are real. Speak with your girlfriend about your dreams and maybe you two should take a break if you two are going to be together then it shouldn't hurt to take a break to figure this out.
Ourchoiceourlife (2 posts)
12 years ago (2011-06-29)
I told her who it was with and there are multiple and first was my cousin and then a friend and third a aquatiance she understands the outcome and if she dosent then she knows the benefits of a long happy wealth life with family I trust her and I believe she did because before those I had dreams where I cheated so if I do will she. And if I tell people will it stop them. I love her and seen the good dreams where we will live happily and the bad where I'm in a casket and I hear her crying saying it was all because of me and I'll never love again please help me email me if possible
lilylove (3 stories) (362 posts)
12 years ago (2011-06-28)
If You saw what could possibly happen happen to you then change it.
When visions directly involve you it possible to change what can happen cause you know what can happen.
Some Premonition Visions are possible outcomes that can happen if you make a bad choice or do certain actions. If your girlfriend is going to cheat then maybe you should two break up before something bad happens to you.
Ourchoiceourlife (2 posts)
12 years ago (2011-06-28)
I need help I had dream where my girlfriend cheated and it's the reason I die I don't care about me dying but I know of she docent cheat we will live a happy life but if she does then I die what do I do
Deeppoet4u (1 posts)
13 years ago (2010-08-04)
I had a dream about myself dying. I need help to stop this. Anything I can do?
zaire (1 stories) (1 posts)
13 years ago (2010-02-18)
i've been having the same dreams too. One of my dreams is about to happen today and its a bad one. But I'm trying to tell my mom and freidns about it so it won't come true. But since my dream takes place at a certain spot I'm going to try to advoid where I'm going. Wish me luck =] p.s I'm super scared.
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
15 years ago (2008-04-01)
just me

Sometimes you cannot change things before they happen, simple as that.

Though if you want to become better at changing things you have to become very proactive. This means getting highly involved in whatever you are seeing, that means deeper analyzing, while seeing the premonition figure out how you see it... Through someone else, through non living...ect. If you do see it through something or someone at the site, best bet is being able to get into their head and start changing how the way they think... But most of the time I would NOT advise this. Figure out the time, when do you think it will happen. Take note of all your other premonitions/dreams and make a chart to see when you dreamed of them and when they happened... Seeing 2-3 months apart 2 weeks to six months... Go back and research.

Sometimes I actually think premonitions are actually very easy to understand, if you've been collecting the right data, if not it can be very difficult to piece together.

1. Figure out geogrpahically location
2. Research on most likely place it could be
3. Do these places consist of places you are/have going to visit, or very remote?
4. Chart of all past premonitions... Date them all
5. List people, plants, houses any landmark
that is either unique or helpful
6. If you can listen to voices, music, any type of noise that might help you get a better idea of where it is
7. What is the main occurance in this: an assassination, fire, flood, natural disaster, murder, suicide, car accident ect.

Other things like that
Pay attention to colors and any type of name
from a person, plate tag to billboard

Note: Numbers can be very hard to remember
Thomasmorley (3 posts)
15 years ago (2008-04-01)

premonitions are difficult to deal with and more harder to understand. Your obviously sensitive one way or another. Everyone ha spirit guides most of us have more than one that protect us throughout our lives, some come and go and some stay with us for life.
When people experience these things I found our guides either pass on messages to us using sleep as a way to offer guidance as were much more able to hear spiritual guidance. These message you received does not mean it will happen. Because the fear that you hold for the situation your in may also have resulted in the message you recieved. Id like to offer you some form of guidance your welcome to contact me I don't know if this forum has private messages if not then post your email address and ill contact you.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
15 years ago (2008-03-30)
I'm 49. At 19 had a stalker. I've told people so I guess okay here. He was military/a life guard. Good looking but made my skin crawl. I told him no to a date back then. Then had a stalker. Called me about 5-10 times a day. Four in the morning, two, later. Then I'd walk out of the mall, after hours, and see someone by my car run off. Had my number changed. Contacted the police who ignored me. On and on. Finally called my dad in another state who planned to bring the "men" down and find him. I was afraid he'd go to jail. So I told him, No. I'd take care of it. He knew me. He paused and said okay. I had a male friend. He was secretitive but artistic. We talked of art stuff. He then admitted to being a soldier of fortune. Won't go there. He told me, no problem. I told him, firmly, to be nice. That was the end of my stalker. He swore that he was humane. I'm not sure what that means, but okay. After a year, I was tired. But, I do think it was a major problem, and I do think, though I don't know, the was as kind as possible. It was the best possible ending. I had to be patient though.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
15 years ago (2008-03-30)
Ouch - this is a scary one. I have no idea what I'd do. I'd get angry first. Then I'd tell him to prepare in case he's attacked. Then I'd listen extra carefully and be watchful. I'm protective. You can't stop or change everything. But, you can warn and be watchful. If it were my hub, I'd tell him to go sit on the front porch and clean all his guns as a friendly warning. He hunts.
Katie (42 stories) (369 posts)
15 years ago (2008-03-28)
yeah that reminds me I had a dream that I had a stalker and I was going to get kidnapped so I stayed in for the past 3 weeks everytime I was going out I be with a friend or my boyfriend or family. If I needed to get to a place or go home then I get a lift of one of my parents.
mystical2 (16 stories) (483 posts)
15 years ago (2008-03-28)
From my past visions and premonitions, they can sometimes be tricky. For example, I see a coffin, but that doesn't always exactly mean death. It could be they get hurt and come close to death, but still live. I suppose somethings can be changed. I had a premonition that a friend and I got pulled into a van by some man. This happened around my senior year. I brought this up with someone and was told there was a man with the same van description I gave trying to abduct kids. I didn't watch the news then. Well, when I got home from school each day I didn't go anywhere for weeks, nor did my friend, whom knew my abilities. Nothing ever happened. All I'm trying to say is just be careful and try to avoid the cause. Good luck!
Katie (42 stories) (369 posts)
15 years ago (2008-03-28)
right this has happened to me alot. Mostly the person its going to happen to nearly died but doesn't. Like me I've had loads of chances and also the people around me have got lucky. I had a dream a tooth dream it said on the internet someone is really ill or near to death. For some reason grandma popped up in side my head. I said to my dad is grandma ok he said she's in surgery today I didn't want to worry you just in case it goes all wrong. Anyway everything was fine. I had a dream about that I was in danger with a socket or something and I didn't want to believe it but then it happened I lost that day memory and 2 days which had already gone. Then 2 days later I got a bad feeling but I didn't get told about this one. I wa in the taxi going to the airport and we nearly had a car crash and we nearly didn't make it. I've had a vision of my nan getting rushed to hospital but I couldn't do nothing because my mum wouldn't really listen and I was bit scared of telling her. I did say nan
shouldn't be going rushing around going shopping it make her ill. 30 minute later mum calls and says nan fainted and had a black out and getting rushed to hospital. It depends what ever happens to your boyfriend if its a illness you can't change it but if its a place at a wrong time you can change it. Good luck!

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