I hope I am in the right place for submitting my story. This thought has been on my mind and I can't seem to shake it off. Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
My life was going reasonably well. I lived with my parents in an awesome condo and I had a steady chilled job. I was single at this time. Then I met a man at a friend's party and we started to go out. This man was recently laid off and he was having problems from find a job to car problems. Every day he would call about a problem he was having. All the drama he has came from his being raised by a poor single mom and he having a job that paid minimum wage because he followed his dream. Meanwhile my life was moving along just fine and I was just having fun. All this time both my parents are healthy and just enjoying life with me.
Fast forward and two months after he proposed to me, my life started to go downhill. My dad decided to go for a walk without his walker and he ended up falling down on the sidewalk. The brain scans came back with nothing serious except for normal aging on his brain. But during the whole year after he fell down, he would talk about people from his homeland, people that no one in my family has met before. He started to show signs of dementia and started to act erratic. He started to yell in the middle of the night or bang on the table during the day. But he was still eating and walking with a walker. However, his health was slowly deteriorating.
Then this year arrived and everything was moving along okay. Or so I thought. Then his mother died and immediately one week afterwards, my dad could not eat or move. We ended up bringing him to the ER one week after his mom died and now he's living in a nursing home and his health seems to be getting worse. But as the year progresses, my life starts to go downhill while his is starting to go up.
So my questions are:
1. Did he bring me bad luck or is it just circumstantial events?
2. If I were to break up with him, can I get my regular luck back?
3. Is his mother's spirit causing my dad's illness since she couldn't handle the rest of us enjoying life without her?
I know it's stupid to think but I can't help that I can't marry him anymore. My brain keeps going back to if I hadn't met him then my dad wouldn't get sick and my parents would be at home with each other. I going crazy trying to not think he is the reason my regular luck was zapped from me and transferred all to him. I can't help but get really angry when I see him now.