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Mild Empath Or Just Good With People?


A lot of this story is my personal speculation, but my friend who's more knowledgeable on this stuff tells me to go with my gut so I'm going to do just that.

I've always been really good at making friends randomly. I've walked up to someone random on the street and been friends with them and hanging out the next day like we'd known each other for weeks if not longer. The way I usually do this is I have a sense for if I can be friends with people or not. Just a feeling I would have when I look at someone.

Recently, as I've said in my other story entry, my friend has been speaking to me about her abilities. She can see auras and apparently spirits too. She thinks it comes from her Cherokee blood. Apparently, her great-grandmother married a chief. She told me my aura is very strange in that it is very overbearing, and stabs other people's auras. Not like an attacking way though. She describes it as tendrils giving little shots to the person I'm trying to make friends with. All of this is her words, and I have no personal experiences to back this up. I just thought I was naturally gregarious.

I also have a tendency to meet people with problems. To express how random this can be, I have a friend in Texas who I met on a trip to Washington D.C., and he has a friend in California with issues. Well I try to help these people through talking them through it. Not giving them answers, but trying to at least lead them to peace within their mind. Well my friend says that because of this my aura is covered in splotches of other people's problems, and that my aura almost feeds off of other people's bad energy and cleanses it in small doses. Again this is all her analyzing me for a few years though she hasn't told me any of it until recently.

The thing is though, one of the reasons I've always been good with people is that I can read them pretty well. I have a knack at just looking at a person and knowing what kind of person they are, and their personality. I've been told I have a knack to make people trust me. People I talk to about these problems say they trust me easier than they have anyone before. Apparently my "stabbing" is responsible for this.

Sorry this is so long but there are many parts to this and I feel I can't get or others could give a good response unless they know it all.

Well as I said in my first story, ever since my friend told me I had a spirit following me I've been wearing an evil eye around my neck. I've also had one on each wall of my room for as long as I can remember. When I wear the evil eye around my neck it makes me feel contained, but not like a wall keeping it in. My gut feeling is it has a warding affect that is caused by drawing directly from my energy and storing it until it would be needed. I've felt since I've been wearing it that I'm not as good with people, that I can't read them as well.

But the thing is, I've been sleeping in a room with four of these for my entire life. If my gut feeling is true and they DO draw from me, apparently every night for my entire, what would that mean for my energy level if I removed them from my room, would my ability to read people potentially increase? Would my ability to make new friends instantly become more powerful?

My friend though has told me quite strongly not to remove the wards. She says the sudden non-existance of these wards would be an invitation to malignant entities. I saw her point so I haven't.

But that's my story. If anyone can relate to his in anyway or confirm any of my gut reactions please tell.

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academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
16 years ago (2008-11-13)
contd... I'm like, " why can't this person see this? " I can see what they need, (spiritually, mentally not physically) and can gently steer them... Again the surprise is, they don't go " huh, you're a flippin barm pot and you don't know what yer talking about... " they say " oooh, thanks very much, I see, that makes sense! "
Anyway I think I have discovered what we are, It's kind of like an empath, but I think I got it nailed last night. A tad more research to do today, and I'll come backatcha!
Cheers Arcani,
See you on the flip!
Peace, and ebay flourite! ❤
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
16 years ago (2008-11-13)
Thanks for he email, I only repost here so I can go back and check the details of your story, I will mail you also.
I did some further research on evil eyes and what I discovered is briefed below;

1/" It is not the symbol that holds the power, it is the intelligance that holds the symbol that commands the power.

2/As you already have/ had (a number) of evil eyes in your possesion, does that not imply an existing level of feeling unprotected already... Why is this and unprotected against what initially, prior to your evil eyes?

3/" Fending off evil with an evil eye is highly ineffective. If a place resonates evil, it will draw unto itself the same resonance.

4/In essence (as I suspected) It appears that Evil eyes wink back to evil and say " come hither " whereas, something with the values of purity, love and compassion would be more suitabl, love always wins. "

I will mail you the links and you can go and see if there is more interest there for you, in the meantime, since my first proclaim of "oooo you are so like me," I have done further investigation into these occourances, ie; meeting randoms, proffering advice etc, personally when I meet somebody in a strange circumstance and they lay me their lifestory out on a plate, I look at them and before me AS CLEAR AS A BELL, to the point where
academylin (14 stories) (303 posts)
16 years ago (2008-11-03)
Hello Arcani,
Ooooh you got me quite excited here, it would seem you and I are remarkably similar. I don't tend to " meet people" with problems, it invariably is the case that they end up (randomly!) on my doorstep, and as you said about the intuition which leads you to believe that you "know " about them, I too can make this judgement and decide their " healing" within a moment. I also understand when you say your "story" sounded long winded, some of this stuff is too difficult to explain sometimes isn't it?
Your evil eye thingios...Wow, it would seem that you're surrounded by the things, I wonder if perhaps too many of them may have a counter effect and you have pushed me into a further line of research, which I will inform you of further as I know. I would however begin removing them slowly, and personally would start with the tranquilment you wear.
I think a pendant made of flourite (semi precious gem/ crystal) would be an alternative replacement. Not only does flourite protect you on a psychic level - it also prevents psychic manipulation - More importantly for you it cleanses the aura and helps to stabilise it. It will also ground you and at the same time heighten your intuitive powers. Flourite makes you more aware of higher spiritual energies and can quicken your spiritual awakening, so you need to decide first if you want to work with what you've got or dismiss the ability.
Hopefully you will choose to use your special power and learn to control it for the ultimate benefits, however if you choose to ignore what you have been given...hmm, perhaps buy another evil eye!
Hope this was some help!
See you on the flip! ❤
arcani101 (2 stories) (8 posts)
16 years ago (2008-10-15)
Thank you for commenting.
I feel it protects me, but I feel it takes its energy from me to create that protection, it just filters and refines it... As I feel.
Does that sound like what you experienced with the evil eyes you wore or with other charms?
Oceangirl091595 (3 stories) (16 posts)
16 years ago (2008-10-15)
I think your an empath. If you feel the evil eyes protect you, wear them. I myself used to wear an evil eye around my neck, but I lost the evil eye charm. Its weird whenever I get an evil eye I lose it within 1 or 2 weeks.

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