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New Empath In Need Of Some Guidance


I'm thirteen-years-old and I live in a small town on the boarder of Maine and New Hampshire.

Ever since I was little I knew I was different. My family blamed it on my anti-social behavior on anxiety problems, but I knew there had to be more. I was never nervous around people or scared. I was only confused. I felt things. Things like when I went near another kid with a broken arm my arm would hurt too. When one kid would cry, I would cry. If kids started fighting I joined the fight.

I never really thought anything was wrong with me. I thought it was my anxiety that my parents told me about. But around six months ago one of my closest friends told me to look up the word Empath. I looked it up and found many of the symptoms match what I have, what I feel, and what I do. For example the horrible headaches I get when I'm in a large group of people in a small room, it make me sick and dizzy.

Once I realized what I was I went in to total denial. My friend as I found out was a clairvoyant medium and her mother has psychokinesis. They helped me see that being an Empath wasn't a curse or a gift but both combined.

But lately my main problem is that as time goes on things are getting more difficult. Like now when I touch people it's like receiving an electric shock of emotions and energy. I've also learned that I can feel the future emotions. Like when my neighbor died, I felt his death coming, I felt the sadness and despair of his wife and son months before he died. But strangely once he did die I felt relieved that all the pain was gone and over with.

Everyday the headaches and touching people and just being around people in general gets harder. My family can't help me they don't believe in psychic stuff. So, I'm all alone, I have no idea what's happening to me. My friend who used to be my guidance moved away.

I'm alone, I'm scared, I don't know who to turn to any more. I'm afraid to tell my friends anything in case they judge me and think I'm crazy like my family would. The only other person in my family that's psychic is my Grand Mother and she's dead.

I'm afraid my talent is getting out of had too much because I'm always bringing people's problems onto myself to heal them and I enjoy healing them, but I always get hurt in the process.

What I'm really looking for is for some guidance and help with who I should turn to. Also in my research I came across the grounding and shielding stuff and I'd really like to know how to do that in hopes that it can some how help me.

Thank You So Much.

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Leohawk (1 posts)
14 years ago (2010-02-02)
I, like some others here, have found out recently of my abilities. I am an empath. I found out about 4-5 years ago. As far as abilities go, I'm still pretty touch and go. I do know that, so far, I can control the mood of a room, sense the emotions of others so well that I can read the resulting thoughts as a byproduct, although accuracy is a worry when I do that. The one thing I have trouble with a good bit of the time is finding a way to help someone with empathic healing. That, so far, is the most elusive ability for me. I can do it, and when I do so, I do so well, but it comes and goes. I'm not about total power control, because I feel there may be no such thing, but I do enjoy a state of constance, and I cannot constantly, reliably, focus on such endeavors. Can anyone help?
Empathsam (3 stories) (109 posts)
14 years ago (2009-12-22)
Although I have known of my empathy o this sight for almost a year, (it seemed to have developed imediately out of nothing)
I have certain troubles with it. I am roughly the same age. Mediation is just discovering or a fancy way of using will power. You can switch functions on your brain (I have learned to function the FPS of my eyesight!) so just turn off the bad feelings.
velcro (7 posts)
15 years ago (2009-11-08)
Your so welcome, someday I may need some incouragement from you. You are important and I do believe you. 😁
lieblingsgirl645 (1 stories) (2 posts)
15 years ago (2009-11-05)
Thank you velcro, I'm glad that I can at least turn to people for help on this web-site, it means a lot.
velcro (7 posts)
15 years ago (2009-11-05)
I have a book I'd like to suggest to you. I'm in the process of reading it now to protect myself. I knew I was psychic but I didn't have a label for it. I recently had a session with a medical intuitive, she told me of the word empath. The name of the book is "Psychic Protection," by Ted Andrews. The book is a paper back, about $12.95, or just go to the book store and read pages 138-142. It's what I'm trying to do right now. It talks about on page 142 aromatherapy, herbal oils, which will help you from being drawn into others' problems. Gardenia Oil works for the above. Eucalyptus oil works by taking the edge off and softening the emotional intensities. I use sage, an herb that is wrapped with twine and looks like a big cigarette. I light it (not on carpeting), and make circles around myself from head to toe. It clears away negative energy. You can also just let it burn as an incense in your room. Be real careful not to start a fire. Use an ashtray or something metal to lay it in. I am 54 years old, I don't know everything, I sometimes have difficulty with this "gift-curse." You are not alone, keep reaching out for help, it's one of the best things you can do. I'm here if you need me. Patti
lieblingsgirl645 (1 stories) (2 posts)
15 years ago (2009-11-04)
Thank you Psionic. That really does help a lot, and really just knowing I'm not alone that makes a big difference.:)
Psionic (3 stories) (70 posts)
15 years ago (2009-11-04)
When it comes to shielding your self, it is all about confidence and self beleif that it will work and you can do it. I suggest is to read different techniques on psychic shields, and believe that you can do it. I have done it, and it worked. I can now read minds, and not go further than I have to.
I would also try to practice your psychokinesis, becauase this will help you control it, and learn more about it. This also worked for me.
Also, don't be afraid of people judging you, I only tell people who need help that I am psychic, while others, I keep my gifts a secret. If they do judge you, then they are not your true friends. Your family will soon accept the fact that you are a psychic, they have no choice. However, I also know how you feel about being judged by your family. Only my mother knows I am psychic, I have not told my dad or sister, because I know they are not ready for it, but they will. Use your powers, and feel or sence when they are ready to accept you as you are. I hope this helps.

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