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Extra-sensory Feelings from People and Places


Hi everyone! I'm nineteen years old, and have been reading all the wonderful advice you have been giving others, on this site, and I was wondering if you could extend this to me? This is kind of long, so I'm sorry...

All of my life, I have noticed all these "weird" things happening... Like when I was young, I began to notice that I would have these weird "hunches" about people, and I have always been correct. For instance, growing up, my mother's best friend and her husband would always come over. Now, the husband was my father's very best childhood friend. He gave me NO reason to dislike him. He was always kind and polite and pleasant to me. He was a seventh degree black belt in Karate and when I took Karate later on, he gave me a Gi (A uniform) and these wooden weapons that he taught me how to use. He was also an artist and used to draw me these beautiful pictures.

For some odd reason I NEVER liked him. There was just something about him I didn't like. I never told my father because he was his very best friend. Whenever he would come into the house, I would immediately retreat into my room, and feel these weird vibes... There was SOMETHING I didn't like. Well, a few years later he wound up cheating on his wife, then leaving her suddenly after twenty years of marriage, sponging money off his family and taking up with a prostitution ring after running away to taiwan. My parents were completely shocked... I wasn't.

I get these hunches with places... For example, when I was about eleven, and I met a new friend for the first time. Her family seemed really nice and fun, and she was really cool. However, whenever I went to her house, I would feel horrible things. I would feel tense, angry, upset and even sometimes physically sick to my stomach. I never knew why. The minute I would leave, I would feel better. Instantly. Come to find out her family was a lot more messed up than I thought. I don't want to get into much detail, but there were A LOT of very bad problems, that she didn't tell us about.

These are just two of the many examples I could give. This basically happens all the time. I will walk into someone's house and get a feeling of anger, or worryness or sadness... Only to find out something bad had happened. And it also happens all the time for people... For instance I will be talking to a complete stranger at work, and I will feel a stab of anger or sadness or happiness completely unrelated to what I've been doing at the time. Or I will just look at my mother and go "What's wrong?" even though she looks perfectly happy at the time. She get's annoyed with me, but I persist and she will usually tell me what is wrong.

It's getting more intense now though, and that's why I want the advice. It's like I can't control my feelings. For instance, I will be at work, and I will encounter someone, a stranger who is so bad and invoke such bad feelings in me, that it ruins my entire day. They don't even have to say anything, and I feel so angry or sad... I could be having a grand day, then I encounter one of these people and bam... with a glance, my day is down the toilet. Or I can walk into a room, and be overcome with anger... All of a sudden... Then I leave, and I feel instantly okay again.

Can anyone tell me, what's going on with me? ANY advice would be GREAT!

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lisamarie (25 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-30)
I would love to know if anyone has the same feelings that I do, I have a tightening in my hand when spirit is trying to contact me.
I feel a tightness in my arms and chest when they hug me. I feel my head being touched, I feel allsorts. When I ask a question in my mind, my hand squeezes for yes and lessens for no. Does anyone else have this? And if they do please tell me what they think that means, am I empath or is it something else?
vendettaBabes (3 stories) (335 posts)
14 years ago (2008-10-27)
ooh, you're an empath! Research it, there is many things to be said about empathy, and too much to write. Go to google and type in empathy. Oh, and BTW, empathy is NOT the same thing as SYMPATHY! They are completely DIFFERENT! Think positive, it helps. I know, weird, it actually helps! JK.

-val, the 3rd vendettaBabe and 1st empath.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
15 years ago (2008-01-04)
Ouch Holli - hate to think of what would have happened to you too, and the twins. The sick feeling seems to happen in situations also. My brother was going on a double date, blind date, never meant the female. Just before they got to our house to pick him up, he got very sick. Couldn't go. They left and almost immediately he was fine again. A little later they had a car wreck. His would-have-been date was killed and the other two injured, one seriously but recovered and the other more minor injuries. I once was going shopping and got the feeling not to go. Argued with it/myself, a true argument, that I was house happy and had to get out. Put the keys down. Picked them up. Finally went. Had my purse in the cart, and turned around and took a few steps to get milk. Someone snatched my purse. And got away. Had to cancel credit cards and get a new license, and call the hubby to come and get me. Shoulda stayed home and knew it.
hollinor (3 stories) (127 posts)
15 years ago (2008-01-03)
Oh Glenda honey, I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's times like that I am glad for my gift. I've come across people that literally made me want to throw up. I got stationed in Savannah, GA and had to go downtown to get my utilites set up for our new place. The twins, who were less than a year old at that time, were with me. It was the first time I went down there, and I felt like I was going back in time to the 1800's. They keep all the buildings perfectly preserved. Anyway, my spirit was just humming away. I thought I was going to see an antebellum southern belle in a hoop skirt carrying a parasol walk out in front of my car at any moment. This was before I had a handle on my gift, so I didn't understand why I was getting weird vibes. Anyway, I park the car and get the twins into their stroller. I didn't know where the place was for sure, so I was kind of wandering. The whole while, my anxiety was climbing higher and higher. I turned down a side street and I heard a voice screaming in my head, "TURN AROUND! TURN AROUND!" I immediately swung the stroller around and as looked up I saw a guy headed toward me in the direction I had been going before I turned around. He looked straight evil and was headed right for me. But then as I was running back in the opposite direction, I saw ANOTHER guy headed for us with the same look. He was coming from the side. I got back to the main street and the crowds just in time. I looked back and saw them stop, looking at me with pure rage and hate in their eyes. I just hauled tail out of there, shaking so badly I could hardly get my twins back in the car. God was with us that day. I shudder to think what would've happened had I not been sesitive enough to hear the warning. Even before we got out of the car, I was being warned. I'm far enough along now to know when I get that feeling it means evil is about.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
15 years ago (2008-01-03)
It may be more intense now because you are more on your own now. That's the age. The parents aren't around, and a husband isn't either. I was very sensitive to danger at that age. Thank goodness. Not careful natured on my own, so needed the help.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
15 years ago (2008-01-03)
I've had physical reactions to people too. Once at a restaurant got very sick to my stomach. Then saw a man, across the way, and got sicker. Hadn't seen him earlier. He left, and boom, felt fine. Then went outside, and felt sick again. Told my female friend to run to the car. We ran, and I locked the doors. Started the car and turned on the lights. He was in front of my headlights, being ugly. I won't go into details. Shoulda called the police or ran over him, but just left instead. My friend was too upset. I took it as a warning. You are just very sensitive to people. I've done that a few times. Trust it and be safe.
Oda (guest)
15 years ago (2008-01-03)
When I read your little text here I got so amazed. Not so much by the things you wright about, but the fact that there are others out there like me. I have been worrying sick over the fact that I can read people and places. Because of a case of insanity in my family, I was afraid that I might be heading in that direction to, even though I am being told that I do not have any reason to worry. I too can get strooong feelings about people I see or bump in to on the street. I get this thoughts and feelings that suddenly jumps in to my head. It´s the same thing with places. And also sometimes I brush it of as a random feeling or thought, to later on now that it is not.
Well well, thanks for giving me the faith in me back:)
Mystery2me (1 posts)
15 years ago (2007-10-25)
Shielding techniques is an excellent suggestion. When you feel these people around you, pop a little force field up around your aura, in your space, and just let them bounce off.
Stacey (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-24)
Try working on shielding techniques. Stones work well for this. Wearing specific stones on your body in the form of a necklace, earrings, etc, or in your pocket that you can hold in your hand or rub your fingers on (and no one will know you're doing it) can help a lot. As long as the stone rubs against your body in some way. Stones like onyx and obsidian should work well.
Krista (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-23)
I have this too. Not to the degree you do, with environments, but I could always tell people's intentions... Their core and fundamental raw truths.
And yes, I have been called judgemental, but as stated, in good time, the truth comes out always.
You cannot let the negativity ruin your day though. You need to learn how to tap into the brilliance of GOOD out there, and I'd suggest some medatative practices to help you get in touch with the calm loving natures.
The more you meditate the easier it will come, and soon enough you could use it almost like a shower, after meeting with these people.
I don't know, personally I have taken this route just because I don't want to be contributing to the negativity in that great big "general" sense and carry it around with me.
However, this works with physical empathy as well. Though it usually takes me awhile to figure out where I picked it So if you KNOW that from the get-go, that's kind of cool because you can skip the discomforts!
Good luck sweetie.
Denae (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-22)
Mine is bookishfreak05 [at] please feel free to contact me.

Budyardjo (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-22)
I would like to help you with stuff I read on the net. I am sure it will give you new vision. But please give me your e-mail address. My e-mail address is: budyardjo123 [at] anyone who would like to contact me is welcome.
Be blessed.
Denae (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-22)
Thank you Pixie...:) And Katie... I appreicate all the great advice. :)
_PiXiE_ (1 stories) (2 posts)
15 years ago (2007-10-22)
hi Denae,
i have the same problem! I can met someone and withina few moments I know wether or not that person can be trusted, even if they haven't given me in reason to like or dis-like them!
i spoke to a gentleman who is an expert in these kinds of goings on and he tells me that some people are more intuitive and can pick up on the energy that people can give off in this case negative.
so don't worry YOU ARE NORMAL
xxx 😊
Katie (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-21)
I can't control my gifts or what I go through I can't ignore them cause it will get my attention how much I try ignoring these things It won't let me guess I have to live with it. I've learnt that you have to live with it. If you have a gift god gave it you. I would say your lucky to have a gift because some people don't and they really want one.
hotandcold (5 stories) (218 posts)
15 years ago (2007-10-21)
I'm really sorry, but you can't control empathy no. I know its hard, but you just have to live with it.

Alma (9 posts)
15 years ago (2007-10-20)

There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with you. I have EXACTLY what you have. It's called clairscentience(not sure if I spelled that right). It's kind of sucks because sometimes, you feel like you're being judgemental. The truth is, you are not. I can walk into a place and tell you exactly what I feel and what kind of energy resides and the cause of it. I am 26-years-old now and can honestly say that I am proud to be a clairsentient. I want nothing more than to sharpen my ability. *When I was in middle school, my class went on a trip to the local cemetary to do some block printing on tombs. When I was there, I felt strange but I dismissed my emotions because I figured I was just scared of being in a cemetary. When I got home, I felt completely disoriented and utterly depressed. This feeling lasted for 3 days and then it was gone, as if nothing had happened. When I was 22-years-old, I met Sylvia Browne and she explained everything that happened to me.
I get feelings about people too. There are some people who LITERALLY make me sick. I can barely be around them and no one can understand why. It is only a matter of time until people see that I wasn't just being mean/judgemental.
You have a WONDERFUL gift. Sharpen it because soon, if you are willing and open, you will begin to have psychic dreams about these people or places. And believe me, you will KNOW that it is a psychic dream because you will feel VERY different when you wake up.
Love to you and keep asking questions.

Katie (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-20)
It could be that your more emotional and you have to learn to control it. Sometimes you will have bad days, good days and funny days and all that. I have controlled mine just feel positive and be happy. Enjoy life don't let it get you down.
Katie (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-20)
hi I go through that I can get a strange feeling about a house when walking in it such like something is there with us which we can't see. Yeah I feel other people's emotions maybe if you are feeling the same emotions maybe there getting to you or the house is getting to you. Maybe you need fresh air which could help. When I was sat in this lad house with my mate we kept getting to each other getting mad at each other for no reason I just think people get angry and that when there stuck in a house bored and that.
Denae (guest)
15 years ago (2007-10-19)
Thank you hotandcold. Do you have any advice on how to control what I'm feeling?
hotandcold (5 stories) (218 posts)
15 years ago (2007-10-19)
Where you feel other people's emotions, that is empathy. But the house thingy, I don't know, but you have just reminded me of an occasion I had when I was about 7, it was practically the same. I was at this museam, one of them outdoor village ones, and looking around and things, when we came to this forest. My grandad and sister tried to make me go down there, but I refused. I felt anger and fear whenever I went near there, and I would say "No! I'm not going! The man on the horse will kill us!" and I ran away. We later found out, walking around the museam, that a highwayman murdered several people down there, and he rode a black horse. Strange! Thankyou for reminding me of that story, I might just post it on here!


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