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Soul Mate, Twin Flame Or Coincidence?


My partner and I have been together for only six months and I am suspecting we have some kind of deeper connection but I'm not sure what or how.

I will be 22 in November and he's recently turned 23. We first met, when I was 9 and he was 10, when we were at primary school together. We were 'boyfriend and girlfriend' for about a week back then haha. I moved 3 hours away at the end of the year and didn't have contact with him for around 12 years but never really forgot him.

About 2 years ago I started having very vivid dreams that stuck with me so much that I had to write them down. They were about a boy I knew from primary. He was vaguely familiar and remembered me more than I remembered him. Every time I'd dream the dream would have progressed from the last time. For example I dreamt that I saw him in a school/university setting and we acknowledged each other and then next time we would have a conversation until finally the dream turned into us actually being partners. Even though I knew these dreams were significant and involved someone from my past I wasn't aware it was him in particular.

He ended up finding me on facebook at the start of this year. He told me he had a secret to tell me when we met up in person again and then another that he can't tell me for two years. When he came over to my house the secret he had to tell me was that he'd actually liked me all of these years, never forgotten about me, had thought about me approximately every six months, and had been having dreams of us getting married. I thought he was joking but couldn't shake the dreams and feelings I myself had been having.

As we began to catch up on the years we'd been apart we noticed we'd been so close to seeing each other again. We had lived on the same street but opposite ends. We both were at the same concert at the beginning of 2010 and we both ended up in the same area of our city going to schools very close to each other. A little more talking and we noticed that not only had we been so close physically all these years but our life events have been eerily similar. His dad left when he was 5 and so did mine. People close to us have died within months of each other for similar things (both had forms of cancer and another couple had accidents). I know these things are common but it struck odd to me that they were so close in time. We were also engaged around the same time, both broke up for similar reasons and within a couple months apart (his engagement broke off in August and mine was October).

I can't help but feel this is more than just a whole bunch of coincidences.

We also found that at the beginning of our relationship he was able to read my mind. I didn't have to speak, he already knew. And I could feel what he was feeling. Not for me in particular but just his general energetic feeling.

I've also found that he pops up in my meditations, either in the background or right in front of me, and it's like there's some sort of telepathic information trying to be transmitted but I'm not picking up on it.

A little while before we met I noticed that when I meditated instead of one woman coming to guide me in my meditations it was both a woman and a male. They look alike, almost like they are brother and sister, but they have more of a loving energy towards each other.

I have no idea what is going on but I feel it is very significant. When we first started speaking again he said it was like we were soul mates (even though he doesn't believe in this stuff) and I was wondering if it were more like twin flames. I've just started wondering if maybe we've shared past lives together.

Has anyone had any similar experiences or have any advice about what could be going on? I would also be interested in how I could possibly go back into past lives and see what could be causing all of this.

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PsychicThoughts (7 stories) (34 posts)
3 years ago (2019-05-20)
Hi, funny how similar our topics are. Mine is labelled as 'Soulmate, Twin Flame Or A Love Spell.'

I'm going through the exact same things. A lot of coincidences to keep a track of. I have intense dreams of him. We end up marrying each other.

I studied with him until tenth grade. Never really spoke to him apart from the dance 'couple dance' we shared when we were three years old. I've been seeing him since August 2017 and I am yet to meet him.

Here's the link of my story if you want to check it out:


Also, I'm really glad you shared your experience!:)
Deepthoughts (3 stories) (11 posts)
11 years ago (2011-09-04)
Wow, since writing this our connection seems to have gotten even better but I have no idea why. As soon as I hit send to submit this story he text me. Then there have been times where I've thought about this story and trying to figure out what's going on... And hello... A text from him while he's at work! I know texts aren't big deals but...he's a guy so Also I found out we've been watching the same videos on youtube on the same days. These aren't just normal videos that EVERYone is watching at the moment. I'm talking the 95 VMA awards (I think) of Michael Jackson and Slash... And we even had the same thoughts about it.

To be honest this is all starting to freak me out... But in a good way!

Thank you, Jamiesan, for your recommendation! I found an online shop and am getting ready to have them delivered!
Jamiesan (2 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-30)
I highly recommend Dr. Michael Newton's Books, 'Destiny of Souls' and 'Journey of Souls'. It explains everything. ❤
Deepthoughts (3 stories) (11 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-25)
Oh yeah I know what you mean, owls. Sometimes that feeling can be so strong it feels almost like a yearning. I'm very sorry about what's happened... I kind of understand the drugs part too and how it can affect people. My mother is a recovering drug addict and my father is a functioning alcoholic. I'm so glad you've found a way to keep in touch with him, even if it's through his family, it's still a connection:)

Do you feel YOU have a connection with HIS family? I forgot to mention this (and a whole bunch of other things) but at my partners birthday I saw his mum again after 12 years and she hugged me... Oh my gosh...I've never had such a nice, nurturing hug! I don't hug my mum anymore but when I did it never felt like that.

She remembers me too (she was a teacher aid at the primary school) and she said he tried to give me his baptism necklace or whatever it was... And that she had to stop him because it was from his did. She also said all these nice compliments and remembered EXACTLY how I looked... I didn't even remember meeting her! She said he really liked me back then (which I didn't know either) and now her and her daughter suspect us even though he's asked to keep our relationship secret. It just seems like there's one big, strange connection going on 😆
owls (6 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-25)
I have same feelings about an ex boyfriend. No matter what I always think of him. His family even feels that we have some sort of connection. He has been in prision for quite a few years and right before he went we had decided to try our relationship again and start out as friends. He had drug problem that forced us to seperate originally. I have always known no matter what that he loves me and same with him. He has been gone for 6 years and we do not keep in contact. I still feel a very strong connection with him and do ask about him often. He asks his family about me as well. This is hard to explain to anyone who has not been through it. I just feel like I have known him all my life and have always felt that about him. I am sure you understand. I have hard time explaining it. It's a feeling that is just very overwhelming and you just feel a very strong connection to that person.
WildRoseFlow_r (15 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-24)
I've read that twin flames are meeting at this time in history. But the whole shenanagan shouldn't be seen as twin flames getting together. What happens is that you are shown a path that will create the rest of your life, world, destiny. It is like taking your normal life and what you have expected from it, and you get a great surprise like Christmas all of a sudden, and your whole reality gets to go off on a tangent creating a new world that you never knew you could have. Even a different demension. 😆
Deepthoughts (3 stories) (11 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-23)
Aw thank you guys, I was starting to think I was paranoid or wishful thinking! 😜

Lilylove, don't be jealous hehe, it's actually difficult at the same time as being so...strange. He's been very badly hurt in his past and is having trouble letting me in... A lot of trouble. And because of his circumstances we have to keep our relationship secret. I guess that's another reason why I was thinking I might be paranoid or wishful thinking.

I wanted to be sure that there was definitely some kind of connection that was significant because I want to hold on and get past the hard times and felt there was a reason for me to stick around 😁

It's funny because I'm pretty sure the troubles he's having are actually very similar to mine, he might just have another way of dealing with it and communicating about it.
lilylove (3 stories) (362 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-23)
You two have an amazing and strong connection.
It kind of has me a bit jealous 😁.
I believe You two definitely are twin flames so Good for you 😁.
stephyw2001 (3 stories) (108 posts)
11 years ago (2011-08-22)
Wow, regardless of what you are, that's a powerful connection! I'm sure its no coincidence, you two are meant to know eachother, regardless of the relationship status. I hope you both make the most of this unique bond! ❤

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