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My Friend Is Dating A Dead Person


My best friend has recently informed me that she has a relationship with a dead person.

She says that he just appears and disappears all the time, it doesn't matter when. She said that she has seen some other dead people THAT HE KILLED IN A MASSACRE. She knows everything about him and is now in a relationship with him.

This relationship has been going on for a few months. I don't know whether to think she is crazy or that she has some kind of gift that she can see, talk and touch dead people. She doesn't think she has a gift or what she sees is a gift but she isn't calling herself crazy either.

We tried to figure out why she started seeing this person. If any events occurred that made him come to her, but we can't figure it out. This (dead) guy can travel between Australia and America. This is because he was one of the shooters of a massacre and then committed suicide afterwards, but he doesn't remember much. We have no idea why he came to Australia, and neither does he.

When This guy and my friend first met, he had no idea that he was dead, and neither did she. My friend does not know why he has chosen her. They are so close now, she talks to him about everything, and does everything with him. No one else knows about him except for me. My friend and him stay up all night every night just talking. He doesn't remember much about what he does throughout the day when my friend is at school, besides just hanging in her room.

I have no idea what to do. I am still trying to get the fact that my best friend is dating a DEAD person into my head. WHAT DO I DO?

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Timfaraos (426 posts)
7 years ago (2015-05-04)
She's having the same experience with poster "eleiriel" who has an intimate relationship with her twin flame spirit man... I agree that this man spirit (demon?) can get jealous and agressive, if she decides to have a relationship with a human male, sigh! These male spirits become so possessive, that they sometimes ask the girl to commit suicide, so that they can be together forever... In hell that is! You can only advise your friend of the danger, but she's young, inexperienced and impressionable, and love tends to make us blind to what's real. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink LOL! All you can do is pray for her. It's her life, and her choice. God bless+
Peppermint (1 stories) (30 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-27)
I think your friend may just be emotionally stressed! Often people turn to fake or imaginary people if they feel stressed or lonely... Kind of how little kids have imaginary friends! She probably is goimg through a stressful time in her life, just continue to be supportive!:)

Haha & the title really caught my attention-Hope this helped! ❤ ❤
AshStar31 (10 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-23)
I Am Not Trying To Be Sad But I Would Tell Someone, It Isny The Fact That Seeing Dead People But The Fact She Is Dating A Killer! 😲
Eagleclaw (386 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-13)

You friend probably has had the gift of talking/seeing spirits for along time prior to this. So for her this is a normal thing to do. He may be appearing to her in human form as well. Maybe your friend does not have the experience or realization to know that he is a spirit. Some spirits can appear so real at times. And, just so you know, there are many spirits that are around us but you don't know that they are there. And unfortunately for some reason some spirits don't realize that they have passed on. You say that she has a relationship with this spirit. Here's where it gets dicey. I have seen and spoken to many spirits all my life and some continue to visit me. So, in my eyes, it's fine. I don't think that your friend is actually "dating" the spirit. She is probably telling him her secrets and dreams. And, he is probably listening to her. My only advice is to make sure that she is always in control of this spirit at all times. She needs to tell the spirit what the boundaries are. She will be fine after she does that. Hope this helped. It's great that your friend talked to you about this.
Cristine (8 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-13)
Where do I begin? I'm not sure as to what context your friend can see this deceased male, whether she is seeing a physical manifestation of a ghost in human form (clothed), or she is seeing a ghost through clairvoyance and clairaudience? It leaves me to think that she is making herself crazy with the idea that a ghost can take the place of a real, life-breathing human. It's sad in a way because I have been there, myself and unfortunetly when the time does come and she meets a man to take his place; the switch is and can be bad for both her and the new guy. Reality is that when this does happen, the ghost that is attracted to her is going to in most respects just like any other male suitor is going to have anger, resentment, and jealously is very often a huge factor. She is a young, dumb and full of () that is going to be a bad decision in the long-run.

If I were you, I would talk to someone and adult about this to that person. Do not keep this silent among friends and teh Internet because this behavior is extremely abnormal and not typical of a lonely young woman without a date. Her decisions are in need of supervision and adult intervention.

If your friend was an older woman, mature in her mid thirties, forties, fifties and so on... She would be rather strange and eccentric, but given teh circumstances that I have known women in an older age group to lose their husbands or boyfriends and in an attempt to keep his spirit alive (so to speak); she would have sex with him (her dead husband or boyfriend). Sex wasn't in the conventional way as it is with a mortal soul as it was... Ah... It was different. I wouldn't be that shocked to tell you the truth because there was at some point a prior relationship before and that woman is in denial or she is having severe mental/emotional problems that do need to be addressed.

Your friend and if you are a true friend needs you to intervene though you will not be able to do this on your own. Do not ignore the vivid signs of mental illness because she doesn't sound as though she is wrapped too tight. Seriously, and older, more mature person would never tell you to ignore it and go about your own business---that is unacceptible for a friend to ignore a serious cry for help. Get involved and tell an adult for whom you trust and you know will help make some much needed changes before the final conclusion is a future straight-jacket for your friend and a handful of anti-psychotic meds. 😊
JasmineS (1 stories) (5 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-09)
This seems pretty amusing but quite amazing, maybe she has a gift but just doesn't know it yet and thinks this "Dead guy" is alive you know... Who knows...

slirpie125 (2 stories) (21 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-08)
Hahaha, honestly I think it's cool, but in a sense, kind of funny. This 'guy' seems really nice (have you ever met him?) and I think that you should just let your friend date him, no matter if he's dead or not. I have a few questions: Does he appear human, or is he 'ghost' like? Is he a teenager, or what? I was confused at that part. You don't have to answer any of these questions if they are too personal or something like that. I really think it's cool! Honestly, it is on my bucket list to meet a [good] spirit before I die. It'd be really cool. Nice post =)

Becky666 (124 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-08)
huh what one was that? I would have loved to see it *sigh* oh well. What you do is absolutely nothing do exactly what you would do if he was alive it must be somewhat scary so hold in there be brave and be nice
Paws (3 stories) (16 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-08)
As a big fan of the series American Horror Story, this post reminded me of the show. Very close to how the young girl who is in a relationship with a boy who killed many other kids at his high school with a gun, then was shot by officers that were taking him into custody, when he was attempting to draw a gun on them. She didn't know he was dead, but he did.
TheOne71 (5 posts)
11 years ago (2011-12-07)
umm all I can say woow and yess this does sound like it came out of a horror movie...
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
11 years ago (2011-12-07)
This is definitely one of the more 'out there' posts but it reminds me of a remote viewing class I took. The teacher knew of a woman who claimed she was having a relationship with an extra terrestrial. Everyone laughed and dismissed it. So she invited them to her apartment allowing recording devices and cameras should they choose but what happened instead is that when they arrived, every person in the group, minus her, passed out all at once.

So is this story of your friend true or not, who can really say. But as far as what to do, I'd say tend to your own business. I love the phrase from an excellent self help author "There is God's business and your business and everyone else's business is not yours." We on this site help others because they come here looking for that. So unless she's asking for your help in some way, let her live her life and make her own choices no matter how outlandish. I find people do exactly what they want in the end anyway. I'm of the opinion that unless someone is hurting a child, animal or the welfare of humanity, what they do is their business. We all have opinions on what's going on here but she's not the one coming to this site looking for them so I'll leave it at that.

You're being a good friend (whether or not she's imagining this or not) by listening to what she has to say and staying non-judgmental. If we could all be such a good friend.


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