Forbidden Love Spirital Connection Remains

Hmmm, Meadow, if you saw the Notebook you'd know why I told you to watch it. It's because both people move on with their lives. Totally move on. Forget about each other, meet other people. Only fate or destiny causes them to meet again. And it's not a fairytale. It happens in real life all the time, but you can't live every moment assuming or hoping it will happen. It's not for you to know right now whether you belong together or not. And you should stop wasting time and do whatever you have to do to live in the present moment, which means not with her. Leave it in the hands of the Universe is all you can do.

Thanks Vanillabean, & Krislove for your responses, I don't want to have these feelings all for not if we're not going to be together then that's the only way I want it to stop. Which it has calm down the last few days I guess, I try to keep myself busy most of the time to forget her. I am moving on with my life if she can't tell me how she feels in an conversation like normal people instead of childish subliminal messages via social media sites and have me thinking I'm going insane if it wasn't for the Facebook post at the same time I wouldn't even gave it a second thought.

As for the Notebook I'm more of a realist and don't like fairy tails I just like knowing what's what and since there's not actual movement of our situation I'm living life as if we'll never be its all up to her. It's ridiculous for someone who is an adult to be such a coward and most of all I'm tired of the whole thing. Hate to sound bitter but life is short and I'm disappoint with myself already for wasting so much time on someone I should be with by now and I'm realizing others don't have that same spark but hey its called settling right.

I've never loved in this lifetime but I know I've had past lives where I've had forbidden love before. I relive these lifetimes in my dream many times. I think one of the reason I am so hesitant about Love this lifetime is because of the difficulties I've had in other lifetimes. I know it's not the same as your situation but if you truly want help with severing this connection ask The angels to take them away from you and for them to shield you.

I used to get psychic attacks from my boss, who is obsess with me in a really bad way, he used to enter my dream state and try to morph his image into something that I would prefer and try to used his energy on me. I finally sat down one day and wrote out 6 charms. I wrote "No one can enter my sacred space except for those who have my highest good at heart and D.D. (my boss) is not allowed in this space." I put the charms around my room and every time I see them I think to myself "I'm protected" it's a form of self hypnosis I think. He's still obsess about me but it doesn't bother me too much. I have to clear my energy every time I'm around him at work. There's a lot of things you can do to help you sever this connect but the real question is, Do you want to? It's a lot of work. Message me if you're interested.

Wow, we are going through some very similar stuff. I am in physically different yet very similar spiritual circumstances. We knew as soon as we met that we were drawn to each other magnetically, yet not necessarily sexually, it was more of our souls being drawn together. We can't physically communicate, we live in different states, and we also invade each others' thoughts. I am just assuming he feels my energy too, even if he's not consciously aware of it and can't explain it to himself. Like you, I also know when he's thinking of me sexually... Or when he's thinking of me a lot in general. I get severe chest pains (not frequent), but it's because HE is in severe pain and is possibly wishing he could talk to me or be comforted by me. He's going through a lot in his personal life. It's definitely a soul mate situation, and I don't have all the answers either. I've also been dealing with all of this for 3 years. I recently broke our connection--or thought I did. For a while (4 weeks maybe) I felt "free" of him. I want so badly to move on with my life and not let him invade my every thought, my every dream, my every feeling. I am so lonely because I can't seem to meet anyone who can make me feel love the way we feel for each other, and I'm not interested in being committed to a man I don't have that kind of connection with, which is difficult since so far in my 32 years of life I have only had this connection once. But recently his energy began to invade mine again. The dreams started up again... But this time I am determined to make them stop. I believe energetically he could sense that I put a wall up to shut him out... And it is distressing to him... And he is wanting to suck me into this energetic relationship again, so his energy is coming back strong, trying to break me down and take the wall down. I do psychic exercises daily to try and block his energy. It seems to work well enough that I can function in my life and focus on other things. It's hard to block him. It takes a lot of will-power because the truth is I am madly in love with him and would do anything to be with him... But these circumstances that keep us apart. And it's on his end, not mine. I am free to be with anyone I want. I feel for you and wish I had more concrete answers. I've come to the conclusion that I have to move forward with life. I am doing my best to push forward, yet live with these energetic connections. In a way, I think they have less power over me now. I was sooooo depressed for a long time. Now I am excited about the thought of meeting someone else... But in the back of my mind I always wonder what would happen if I married someone else... Would this energy between me and him EVER go away for good? What if I met another soulmate?

You should watch that movie The Notebook. I think it's the perfect movie to illustrate these types of relationships. The movies always have happy endings. I'm not sure how our stories are going to end though.

The way I am coping with all of this, my viewpoint at the moment, is that life is short in the grand scheme of the Universe. We are soulmates who have shared eternity and many lifetimes together. I am here on this planet right now to learn and develop. We have a bond that can't be broken, but it doesn't necesarily mean we are meant to be together in this life. Which is fine since I believe once we both die, we will be reunited in happiness and joy. I sometimes imagine us telling each other about the things we learned while we were on Earth. And being together again after that short break would only make us happier to be reunited.

I take that attitude sometimes, but I still think who's to say we won't end up together in this lifetime? I have no idea and I've given up on trying to know. In the movie Love in the Time of Cholera, they end up together at like 80 years old! Good luck to both of us, that's all I can say! ❤