The Same Black Figure

At age nine my daughter saw a black tall figure at her grandma's house and told her aunt the next day. My sister said she woke up to use the bathroom and as she was going to the room and turned her head there was a tall man standing, looking at her down the hall. I got worried. My family convince me to take her to a man that blesses and prays to get rid of evil spirits. That is our belief, however he told me something that puzzled me. I didn't know to believe him or not. But he told me my daughter has a gift to see spirits and among other things. I was willing to help my daughter. He lit a candle and prayed over her and it actually worked. For about some months everything was fine until we moved, within the same town. She started school at a new campus, J.R. High and everything was fine until she came home upset that she had seen the "black figure" at school. I told her to pray and say a blessing and everything would be ok. She couldn't focus her attitude change and was always tired. One day my sister called me and told me she mentioned to her friend Dahlilah, who is gifted, about my daughter. To my sisters astonishment Dahlilah said. Well, my daughter had apparently drowned and died and came back to life. That is how she got her gift. That I needed to talk to my daughter and find out what happened. So I did. I remember letting her go to a pool party and she didn't know how to swim but she was going to stay in the lower part and of course parents were going to be supervising them so I was okay. My daughter didn't want to tell me what happened, afraid I was going to be upset. She remembers not feeling anything but just peaceful when she was underwater. She remembers something helping her move to the edge of pool but couldn't figure it out because her friend was on the other side of pool and no one else was there. Is that even possible? Ever since then she had been seeing things especially the black figure. She is now 13 and continues to see it. It doesn't bother her. My daughter has asked me if it is safe to talk to it or perhaps it needs help crossing over. I told her not to. Was it a good idea?