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My Friend's Spirit is Stuck

 

Denny came to live in my home in 2003, right after I had a very bad car accident. He helped me with the housework as I was unable to walk correctly for seven months. He helped me in and out of the wheel chair at the Physical Therphy where I went three days a week, three hours a day for the seven months until I could walk again.

I believe that people do come into your life for a reason, season or a life time. For Denny it was a reason and season of his life. Denny was quite a happy man for the first two years living here. Then he went to the doctor and not sure what the doctor told him, but after that his laughter was fading and he was going down hill. I often asked him if it were something I did to make him sad and he said no.

He often talked in the last two months of his life that "when it's your time to go, it's your time to go, nothing will stop that time". He was so right on that.

On March 12th, 2006 Denny went to the store to get dog food came back and yelled as always " I'm home". I said did your car act up on the way to the store or back? Nope he said. As his car often would stall out going down the road.

It was about 1:20pm when I heard something that sounded like a thump but could not tell where it came from. I thought the cats had knocked something off the back of the toliet again.

Then I heard another thump noise. I said Denny are you okay? Thinking he may of fallen down. Then the dog started barking and I knew the dog was in Dennys room so I went into the room to find that something had happen to Denny.

At first I could not think what was wrong then called 911. I put my hand in front of his eyes and they did not blink they were fixed and didn't move. I told the people on the phone he was having a stroke or heart attack. I kept talking to Denny telling him to keep breathing as help was on the way. But his breathing was very shallow and he made noises from his mouth that was shaped like an 0, as if he were saying NO or OH when this happen.

Seven minutes later as I was with Denny he took his last breath and a minute later the ambulance and police arrived. But not in time to save his life. I am yelling at the police officer to give him mouth to mouth but the police office continue to talk to someone on his phone.

My son, sister and her hubby came and I told them what happen as Denny laid in front of my tv in the livingroom where the paramedics worked on him for 45 minutes. They finally told me they could not save his life. I looked down at him he looked peaceful but I missed him so with tears runnning down my face. He was my buddy my best friend I felt all alone. I sat on a chair next to him told him how much I loved him and that I would miss him, and that I would think of him and never forget him ever.

For a month after Denny died someone of the family and some friends stayed with me as I didn't want to be alone in the house. I could not bare to look into that room he died in. So I cleaned it all out got rid of all the funiture in that room and painted the walls from blue to lavender. On the first night I had to stay alone by myself that is when I felt Denny looking at me from his room he stayed in.

I felt scared and turn up the radio, not really knowing why. I felt that his spirit was trying to get out of the bedroom he use to stay in and no matter how hard it tried it could not budge across the doorway. I could feel it. I looked towards the doorway his spirit kept on trying to cross over the doorway to come to be with me. I kept looking at the doorway but could not see anything but the hair on my arms stood up and I had goosebumps on my arms. My heart was in over drive beating as if going to beat out of my chest. I got shaky and real cold feeling.

My computer room is across from that one room Denny had and died in. So I can lean back in my chair and see that room. His spirit tried to get out of that room for about twenty minutes and then I felt it was no longer there, not at all near me.

Two months after Denny died. Once again while I was in my computer room(I was in this computer room when the heart attack happen with Denny.) I felt his spirit trying to get out of that room. The hair went up on my arms, I got the goosebumps all over me and I suddenly felt so cold. It lasted this time about five minutes. Then it was gone and I felt okay.

Three months later one morning I got up and I always look in that room he died in(still do it now too). I didn't feel anything at all. I went into the room and looked around told Denny " I miss you Denny I am so unhappy right now". I walked out and went into the livingroom sat down to watch tv and in front of the tv on the floor I could see Denny laying on the floor still like he was the day this happen. Only this time instead of looking peaceful with his eyes closed he appeared to have a smile on his face. I left the room as fast as my feet could take me out of the room into my bedroom and stayed the rest of the day.

As his anniversity date was coming close last year I felt more and more energy in that doorway to the bedroom he stayed in. And I got freaked out. I left lights on at night, I would not get out of bed to go to the bathroom and I was afraid even in the day time to go near that bedroom. Which is close to the bathroom and have to pass that room.

On the night of his one year of passing that spirit was trying harder to get out of that bedroom and still it was not able to. I felt like Denny was trying to tell me something but I was to frighten to stand by the door to listen.

Well it's going to be two years on March 12, 2008 since Denny has died and I still feel the spirit of Denny trying to get out of that bedroom. I don't feel it as often as I did the first year. But It's still there. I felt it last night Jan 26, 2008 it was such a forcefull energy of some sort trying as hard as it could to pass over the doorway to me in the computer room. This usually happens either around the time of the day he died, or late at night around 3am when I am still in the computer room. However it doesn't frighten me anymore.

I am not sure if spirits get upset when they see another man in the house that was once where they use to live or not. But I met David he moved in will be a year in February and perhaps, Dennys spirit is upset I don't know. One night after David moved in and the room where Denny died in, I said " Denny it's time for me to move on in my life, I can't keep crying like I have from your death. I still care for you and I think of you often but it's time for me to move on". I felt cold and felt a lot of energy around me but didn't see anything.

I am not sure what is keeping Dennys spirit locked into that room he died in from coming out. So I am hoping someone on this site can tell me. And also tell me if there is something I can do to help him be at rest and go to the other side and find peace.

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Starlight22 (11 stories) (166 posts)
 
9 years ago (2010-05-25)
sorry if I wasn't really reading your story and this comment may not make sense but if your friends spirit will not leave some house or building or where ever the spirit is, it may be he/she is spiritual bound to that place... It may have been and important place and you can only help them pass on by figuring out why that place was iportant to them. Maybe they are there because there is something there important to his/her family or something there they want to show someone who can then tell his/her family... I don't really remember how to help a spirit that is bound to a place...it's hard to explaine... I'm sure there is something about that place that they need to show someone they care about... Maybe they will leave then...
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-14)
[at] Boldylocks I went to that site and as I was reading in there, I heard the Morse Code coming from the area where Dennys room was. I don't know Morse Code but he was retired from the Navy so he would know that kind of stuff...
After that I heard the sound that sounds like when someone has a push button phone and dials with it... I have one line here and my line was busy with being on the internet reading the link you gave me... I looked that way to the room and it stopped.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-14)
Thank you Boldylocks for the link. I do feel he is stuck the force is so great, at that doorway. Maybe he even wonders why I won't let him cross over the door way. I am not sure... But thanks for your message.
Boldylocks (guest)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-12)
FlutterofWings, I just copied your testimony and posted it at Spiritrescue.ning.com so that you or Denny may receive help.

The reason you feel cold when his soul is near you is a common symptom when around earthbound souls. And it's not something he can really help

Believe it or not, there are many spiritualists and mediums that help souls cross over. Many times they CAN NOT cross over and need help to.

He soul seems to be trapped in a vicious circle. Like he doesn't even know he died-- it happened too fast. I wouldn't doubt that he feels confused and really can't leave the situation his soul is in right now. I can almost feel his frustration and confusion.

I am going to say a prayer that a guardian angel may be able to open a gateway for him to enter into the Light.

I reccomend you read the following website: http://www.sacred-gates.com/ You may be able to contact this woman or the moderator over at spiritrescue.ning.com for help for Denny.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-12)
Oh yeah [at] aramasamara I been reading some of your other stories about who you are, and your psychic abilities very interesting indeed.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-12)
[at] aramasamara No I am not going to just forget helping Denny's spirt to get to the other side. Nor will you let me. However before I enter into helping his spirit out of the room to the other side. I need to be able to keep myself and others in here safe as well, before I do this. Or any of the thoughts of others who have commented on this story.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-12)
[at] aramasamara I think your a wise person whom ever you are. The smoke could well be what you said. However I have not smelled it before the other day in here. Nor after that day have I smelled it thus far. Not sure about that one...
Thanks for your comments
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-10)
No, I am not testing you -.-,as in a game...no. But I can't tell you if you don't do it because it ruins the thought process... But if you're not going to forget about it. As for the smoke that is simple, us humans day to day have many delusions. For example you might hear your mother... But she is not present that is an auditory delusion. The smoke is another sensory delusion, being smell. Same rule applies, most of the time we do it unconciously, though we can do it conciously as well.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-08)
My friend Denny he was a smoker. I have smelled his brand of cigeretts he smoked in my computer room for the past three days. I never smelled smoke in here before. I wonder why now? Any help here? David and I don't smoke nor do I let anyone smoke in my home so can't fiugre this out.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-08)
No I didn't cut up the carpet. It's new and I don't want holes in it. So why did yo ask me to do this? Testing me?
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
hhaha...anywho did you do what I asked you to do? When or if you do... Tell me then I'll reply with something back.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
No belt, he didn't like to wear belts on his pants. He liked lose clothing most of the time and only one color of dress pants he would wear, in which he had many of that color of that dress pants he owned.
In the closet in that room, is hanging a shirt he wore with those dress pants all the time. And his glasses he wore.
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
This is going to sound really weird, but I want you to do something. Go into the room, take a pair of scissors with you and cut the carpet... Literally just pick a spot and cut the carpet

I have to go
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
No didn't paint the room any of the colors he was wearing. Actually painted it a color he didn't like.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
He didn't die in a t-shirt but with a short sleeved shirt of two colors. He had on pants but not jeans. And your right his eyes were Hazel in color.
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
Was there a brown belt as well? But more importantly I think you should tell yourself it is okay and get help if you need to do that.
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
I could be mistaken but I don't think he had brown eyes... Unsure got more of sort of hazle green or something... Not sure, but contact imprints, died in t-shirt and jeans eh, did you paint the room the same color of what he was wearing that day?
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
[at] aramasamara His hair was dark brown almost black why you ask? No I don't think he was ready to die, just from the impression I seen on his face. His mouth shaped in a perfect 0 like he was saying NO or OH. What more can you tell me?
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
Question I was wondering... Did Denny have black hair? Just curious

Thanks
aramasamara (22 stories) (577 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-07)
Flutterofwings

From what I heard in your story and the picture I am getting in my mind Denny in no way was ready to die. Even though he said 'when it's your time to go, it's your time'...I think he seriously is a hypocrite of his own beliefs. More importantly from hearing about the doctor, I think he gained this pessimistic attitude of dying on a 'set date' as some do, due to well the doctor must be right. I think this really really upset him because it just hit a part of him emotionally that didn't want to die, but on the outside look 'cool' like okay when people know they are going to die, they have to act like they are making peace... Trying to give you that impression. I think by holding in these emotions he really handicapped himself, which just killed him, but left him in this state. Sometimes we tell our selves one thing, but do another. Sometimes we keep the bad (myself included) because we don't know how to live any other way or do it because we think it is the only way to live. I think you being scared, is not helping the aspect at all, you need to stand up and be very confronting about this, you need to realize what this person is going through and guide them back out, instead of 'painting' over everything.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-06)
Thank you GlendaSC for your comment. Don't know but that could be possible. As I don't feel his presents all the time. So this could be true. Thanks once again.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-04)
Flutter - I do think they can just visit, at least some spirts. Had my dad "visit" my mom in the hospital. He was deceased but felt him. He didn't stay there. Left this earth at his home years before. I don't know if spirits get stuck in a place or go there to visit someone important or some go to just jerk our chains who are playing around. Maybe all of it.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-02-01)
I don't know if they just visit... But I do know that the energy that comes from that room trying to get out and can't is there not all the time but it is. So maybe they do just come and visit I really don't know.
GlendaSC (5 stories) (1475 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-01-31)
Is it possible that some visit places that felt good to them, without being trapped? The night my dad passed, I think he walked around the house. My mom loved like a daughter, the woman and her husband who bought the house after she passed later. A light that had been out months back came on when she was moving in. She said, "I really love your house Mid, but it's hard moving with this kitchen light out..." It came on. My sister and her thought it was funny. Her husband freaked a little. She threw down dish towels. Then they were neat. She thought it was funny and sweet. Her husband took a new job just to move. I never thought they were trapped. I live in another state so wasn't there for any of it. Went there once and didn't feel them trapped. But I do think they might have visited.
Flutterofwings (28 stories) (257 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-01-31)
Iwill try what Edmund and Kelly said first if that doesn't help how do I get some one like a psychic in here? I don't know whre to find one of these kind of people. Thanks for your comments everyone.
kellykessler (2 stories) (4 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-01-31)
Flutterofwings...I would have to agree with edmund. Start by telling him that you are so greatful for having known him and that he will always have a special place in your heart and in your memories.

Than just ask him to please go to the light. You may even ask him to send a hello or an I miss you to some one who has also passed. He may feel as if he needs to take care of you still. Unfinished buisness is what he feels he has. Let him know you are alright now and that you can, thanks to him go on with your life healthy.

I would light a white candle in that room and as scary as it may be stay with him while he goes to light. Might provide some much needed closure for you both. Good luck and my thoughts are with you.
Edmund (578 posts)
 
11 years ago (2008-01-31)
Flutterofwings... It could be as simple as sitting in his room and telling him how much he meant to you and then thanking him for his help and telling him that it is time to move on into the light. I would try that first... He just might feel compelled to watch over you when he should be working on his spiritual development on the other side... 😁
Anonymous (guest)
 
11 years ago (2008-01-31)
I think you should sprinkle holy water from the ganges in your house especially in that room, it will rid the place of any negativity and bad energy, if you wish you could probably bring in a psychic to help you communicate.

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