I need to gain some information/insight into what I feel is a really deep connection, but am not able to openly speak about to the people in my life. Hopefully, some of you have had or know of others with similar experiences.
I'm currently in a relationship with a guy that is relatively new but its completely changed my perceptions on everything. I'll start with when we met.
Usually I'm a very shy, reserved person and it takes me a while to fully open up and be free around people. When I met him it was completely different. Instantly I came out of my shell and didn't feel like I needed to hold anything back. However, I didn't notice this, I felt intrigued and curious at the time. He felt the same. We both had a lot of fun together.
Throughout the months we got to know each other we would always show up at the same place, same time every week just to see each other. (neither of us would admit this at the time) We were both going through rough times and hung around to secretly escape that within each other. We started out as rivals for everything but soon became best friends.
Skipping on a bit to when we're together, this is what makes me think its something more than just a karmic connection. Throughout our time together he would get lots of deja vu moments when we were together. I started to have more premonition dreams featuring him. Usually I have random premonition dreams but these were all focused on him.
Also, I feel like he is an empath. Whenever something is wrong with me, I'm feeling down, ill, thinking about the past etc. He would always be able to tell (and still can) even when he's not here. He says that it makes him feel 'empty' inside. I don't think I'm a natural empath like him. However, when we first met my gut feeling told me that he was a good person and later on it told me to trust him with stuff I've never told anyone before. My gut instinct has told me in a lot of situations if the outcome is going to be bad or not. And its given me useful preparation for when something is going to go down. So I knew for sure to trust it on him. It hasn't let me down yet.
What makes me think we might be twin flames is that our personalities match each other exactly. That's how we are able to completely understand each other on such a deep level. It's like he is the male version of me and I'm the female version of him. Some of our traits might be more prominent than the other person's due to varying life experiences. But we know exactly what the other is going through and how to deal with it. We can get into each others heads and understand what the other is going through where to others our behaviour would be inexplicable.
Some extra information is that we are both Scorpios, born only a few days apart. We've never experienced anything as intense or crazy as this. And we face a lot of opposition and adversion due to us being of different races but we always get through it. I can work with energy and have been practising healing for a little while now.
Is it possible if anyone could give me more information on twin flames and soulmates? I know some people view them as different things and some view them as the same...