I would like to ask everyone for their opinion or if they've experienced something similar as well.
Throughout my life I had precognitive dreams, those dreams appeared through symbols or as pure visions. This vision was different because it was the first time I saw a person in details in my dream, and what was even more weird is that this dream came as an answer to my question (at least it seemed that way).
In that time I was a bit disappointed in love in general, cause I didn't have luck in finding the right guy for me. There was one ex-boyfriend at that time who didn't want to leave me alone after painful break-up and who was still messaging me two years after break-up, I never figured out what he actually wanted from me, but it was definitely over for me. Anyway, this entire situation made me sad and discouraged. So one day I broke into tears and asked spiritual entities (angels, spiritual guides, God, higher Self...) whoever and whatever exists on a spiritual plane: "Is there my soulmate and my true love in a male form on this Earth, does he exist?"
That same day or the day after I had a dream, actually it was a vision in a dream because there were no symbols, I only saw a man in a daylight - I saw his head/face and the upper part of his body. He was unfamiliar to me. I started asking myself if this was really an answer to my question and if I really saw someone who is one the same vibrational soul level as myself.
In a less than a year I met a guy in strange circumstances, it seemed like he was put there in front of me with a reason, like a designed scenario. We would see each other frequently cause we would pass each other by in the same street. After some time he approached me, we started talking for hours and hours, and soon we ended in a relationship. There were some red flags about him which I ignored, instead I gave him a chance. After short period of time I remembered my dream and realized he looks exactly like the guy from my dream, it was the same person in a detail. It was just a reason more to believe I have met him, that I have met my soulmate. It was him. And the entire situation about our meeting and my dreams made sense.
But the thing is, what seemed like a dream come true - became hell. Something was wrong with him, either he was crazy or an abuser or both, I went through hell with him - emotional/mental abuse, pathological lying... He also displayed narcissistic traits. It was sick what he done to my head so I won't be going into details. I broke up with him several times, but he was always coming back and I was always giving him another chance, especially when he was repeating love phrases like "soulmate, true love" and so on, but his actions never matched his words. He was a liar and he hurt me a lot.
I understand it's possible to dream of someone whom you will meet in the future, regardless of their personality.
But why would I dream of someone so toxic for my soul - more precisely, why would such a person come into my dream as an important precognitive situation, why would anyone who heard me that day (spirit guides, whoever) send me such a person from hell in my dream as an answer to my "soulmate", why would they do that?