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I have been a Psychic and Medium for 43 years. I inherited this gift from my mother's side of my family, although my father believes I inherited my psychic gift from his side as well. To top it all off when I was born I almost died and so struggled for two weeks to survive. I assume that is how I also became a Medium. Perhaps that portal door to the other dimension remained open when I survived my NDE.

Having a family who knew of my psychic abilities did not mean I had it any easier than other young Psychics. Other than my parents explaining to me what my gift was called and who I got it from, we never discussed it any further than that. My mother is very religious but not so spiritual, and my father is more spiritual than religious but rarely talks about it. (In fact it annoyed them when as a child I won almost every card and board game we played together.) I was bullied somewhat at school since I was such a "sensitive" child, so I decided not to make it worse by telling the bullies about my special gifts.

One of the most important things I have always know about being a Psychic and Medium is to use it only for good purposes and to help others. (Also, I find I can help more people by not charging any fees, so yes I work for free.) I help living people as well as spirits.

During the day I am guided by my Guides to people who need my help, and also to find the people I have dreamed about recently who also need my help. To do this I must be very open to receiving and seeing messages which my Guides send me. Without trusting my Guides and having faith in their abilities as well as my own I would never be able to solve my dreams to the extent that I do. I follow these messages and clues the same way you would follow breadcrumbs on a trail until I find the person or place I seek. My Guides are very good at this. I assume they must be able to see the future. They always seem to know where I must go and when in order to meet that person so I can help them or solve my dream. Some dreams I am unable to prevent, such as earthquakes, plane crashes, floods, war, etc. This is something a Psychic or Medium must accept and never feel guilty about. Some things are fate and destiny and so are meant to happen. Sometimes we are only meant to know about an event for other reasons besides prevention.

At night I now dream up to 10 dreams per night, most of which always come true within a day or two. Although on the rare occasion some of my dreams do not come true for a few months to one year. The person in my dream is usually deceased and they send me a dream about how they died so I can help them in some way. The dream is in their own interpretation so they will sometimes use symbols and representations which they feel I might understand and relate to more. So each dream is a new challenging mystery to solve.

I also have dreams about the living. In each dream I usually know if the person is dead or still alive, and if the dream is past, present, or future. The more dreams I solve, the more word gets out and even more spirits come to me for help.

I can sometimes enter the dream as myself, making it a lucid dream. This enables me to give them a message of comfort and guidance. But understandably only certain dreams can be lucid.

In the morning (or during the night if it wakes me) I write down each dream, try to figure out what it all means and what the spirit is trying to tell me. Then I listen to the news, read the papers, and go out looking for messages from my Guides. (At times I feel like a Psychic Detective working on a case.) Often the dream comes true and happens that morning after I wake, whereas other times I tell friends about it and a few days later they tell me it has now happened. (This of course shocks my new friends but nothing phases my longtime friends anymore after having witnessed so many accurate premonitions from me over the years. So new friends can be much more fun since I can still shock and amaze them and feel special.)

I dream about famous people, local people, and people located in other countries far away. In a way I feel happy being able to travel for free. In my dreams I have been to countries I have never traveled to otherwise. This is one of the perks of my gift. I have also traveled back in time to other eras. That is a real treat. When I dream of famous people it is usually about their death so it is not usually a happy moment meeting them. It is sad knowing when someone famous is soon about to die long before other people know. Obviously those predictions are difficult to prevent since it is hard contacting someone famous (not to mention getting them to believe me!) There are so many times when I wish I could have done more to prevent a death or accident, but as I have already said, somethings cannot be prevented and are meant to happen for whatever reason. What is more frustrating is when I have a dream or prediction that I could have possibly prevented but in the end I could not stop it because no one wanted to believe my prediction and warnings. Sometimes people will not believe until you prove it, and then sadly it is too late.

I am happy to have learned so much about how to use my abilities, how to develop and increase them, how to contact my Guides for help, and how to put this gift to good use helping others. I feel happy being able to pass on my knowledge to others, especially to young Psychics who might feel scared, judged, criticized, attacked, outcast, and confused. I was once a young Psychic myself who felt that way. I know how challenging it is being a gifted person with unusual powers. At times you can feel like a Superhero, and other times like a freak of society. So it can be a blessing finding other people who share your abilities so you can find comfort in knowing that you are not alone. You are a very special person and you can do so much good with your gift, as I have done. Let me know if you have any questions or need help.


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CMTP (2 stories) (4 posts)
6 years ago (2016-07-30)
Oracle 101,
I'm 15 years old and I'm not sure I'm a psychic.But,I think I'm different.Usually,I could sense spirits and sometimes I know they are bad spirits and sometimes they are good. I don't think I've found my guides and I'm not even sure if I'm psychic or not. I hope you will help me. I really need help and I'm scared of those spirits as I feel they're trying to harm me sometimes and some made me so scared. I tried to hide but I know it won't work. I sensed things and they usually turned out right. I try to help my friends by sensing exam questions (Lol...rarely).I could do a little telepathy but not sure if it was a coincidence. I really want to find out my true side, what I really meant to be and who I am. I also need some protection as I really feel unsafe being alone at night. While sleeping, I sense spirits near my bed standing there and doing nothing but watching me whole night. I don't know if they have good intention or not.So,I really need your help. I hole you will help me.
carri (22 stories) (221 posts)
6 years ago (2016-07-12)
Oracle 101 can you see anything around me. I have the ability of psycho telemtry, medium and psychic. I dream of things that often come true. Or will dream of murder cases. I also have dreamed of World War 3. I really can do a psychic detective abilities. But different I touch a letter. Or item like a shoe or clothing of the deceased. Then I communicate with the deceased. I am telling the cops of some psychic dreams I had. If only I could touch the evidence. Then I can see things. Also I was trying to solve the Tammy Tracy murder case 1988. Rockford Illinois. I picked up a reading right away with my daughter Christina and Joe, Christina who is a psychic and Joe p. My daughters psychcic boyfriend. I saw red eyes in the woods and the spirit of TAmmy Tracy wanted to tell us what happened to her. It started to snow heavy so we backed off and tried to go home but the car headlights were flickering and the car died. The paranomal activity was so powerful we sped away frightened.
carri (22 stories) (221 posts)
6 years ago (2016-07-12)
Oracle 101. I am a psychic online helping the Mesa Arizonia Police. I have the gifts of psychic telemtry, remote viewing. Medium and psychic. I have had dreams of Mesa AZ killer, Ohio 8 murders. I am trying to solve other unsolved murder cases. The cops won't fly me down there to touch the evidence. So I can get a reading. I guess I am psychic detective. Just starting out. But have had these abilities for years. I am asking the cops to fly me down to Mesa and do a reading. If I touch the evidence I can see the spirits. In my dreams or outside floating around. What should I do to get the police to trust me and fly me to the locations to do psychic telemetry.
cayce17 (8 stories) (192 posts)
7 years ago (2015-05-17)
I think I need help and someone to talk to about this. I've been experiencing a lot of weird things lately and I saw some unsettling things that came true. Do you know what I am or am I just crazy?
danamp31 (1 posts)
7 years ago (2015-05-17)
I recently started giving gallery readings. The other day I struggled and information was slow. How can I improve my connection and what is the average amount of people I could connect to in an hour or so? This is new territory for me so talking to 50-60 people pulls me in many directions.
Thank you so much for reading this.
<3 ❤
Moody (1 stories) (1 posts)
7 years ago (2015-05-02)
Hi Oracle101,

My guides lead me to your post as I have been asking how I can develop my abilities. I felt a sense of calm and peace after reading your advice. I know I have the gift within but sensing myself float out of my motionless body in my teens frightened me. I am in my early forties, and it is only now that I feel I am ready. Thank you for your post.

May your inner light continue to touch the life of others as you have with mine; sparking hope, love, peace, acceptance and understanding. Namaste.
Timfaraos (426 posts)
7 years ago (2015-03-08)
When you have a psychic intuition about someone, don't get anxious! PRAY AND FAST about it to Jesus, and His Holy Angels, and they'll take care of it! After all, He IS GOD, and we're NOT! LOL!
Timfaraos (426 posts)
7 years ago (2015-03-08)
To anandaHya. A demonically possessed or oppressed person, cannot be freed from the demons, unless he/she WANTS TO... Some people ENJOY being under demonic influence, like Judas! They continue to live a life of sin, and do occult stuff. For an exorcism, contact a greek or russian orthodox christian priest, they are POWERFUL in Jesus' name! A great book to read on this is: 'AN EXORCIST TELLS HIS STORY' by father Gabriele Amorth. He is the cheif exorcist of Rome, and writes about his experience from hundreds of exorcisms. I recomend it, even if i'm not catholic, but greek orthodox. To oracle101, it's great to hear that you help people for free, just as Jesus and the saints did, and do. But I am perplexed, because you pray to God, when at the same time, God PROHIBITS US from occult practices, like comunicating with/channeling spirits, telling the future with tarot cards, etc. So you can't expect to get God's and the Angels' protection and help, if you practice these occult things...that's how I see it. It's like the israelites, who worshipped God, while at the same time put pagan idols in their home for extra protection... That made God sad and angry! You may have opened one too many doors to demons to enter your life and home, am I right? See: LEVITICUS: 19:26-31, 20:27. DEUTERONOMY: 18:10-14. EXODUS:22:18. II KINGS: 1:1-4. ACTS: 19:11-20. Good luck! God bless!
steph3408 (1 stories) (1 posts)
9 years ago (2013-04-30)
Hello oracle 101, I posted a story on here, but there are other strange instances, of course. Wondering if you might have some advice? I'm kind of all over the place and not really sure what's happening.
Thank you, best wishes!:)
Pablo (2 stories) (23 posts)
10 years ago (2012-07-25)
Oracle I read your comment about contacting your spirit guide and I was wondering if it could be done with a Ouija Board?
Anthonymichael (6 stories) (22 posts)
10 years ago (2012-06-13)
Hi Oracle101 I read two of your post and you seem to be a very wise person when it comes to this. I've always known I was different from everyone but I just recently started to think I'm some sort of psychic. I learned through some people posting on my story that I'm either an empath or clairsentiente I feel I misspelled the last one terribly. I'd appreciate it you would read my story and help me discover what I am. I'm 17 and just graduated high school and I really want to know what I am in order to use my abilities more wisely and responsibly.
DestinySky (3 stories) (7 posts)
11 years ago (2011-04-15)
Thank you so much for this post <3 It is really helping me a lot. And now I can hear their voices more clearly and know that it's not just my imagination.
Lanix (1 stories) (14 posts)
11 years ago (2011-04-14)
Thank you for posting this... I've been searching for as long as I can remember for help, but never got anything...
So thank you for posting this...
If you could help me with a few other things... I've got it in a story.
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2011-04-13)
How to contact your Guides:

It is important to seek advice from your Guides. Unlike people, your Guides always have good intentions and their job is to protect you and guide you. When they visit you they will make you feel safe and comforted. It is like being visited by a good friend. They will never make you feel scared or afraid.

To confirm that you have Guides (and that they are who they say they are) ask them for signs then be on the lookout for those signs. I asked for specific detailed signs which are not easily found anywhere and they shocked me everytime by sending me those exact signs, so make your requests a bit challenging (but not impossible) and they will comply. Do not be scared. Think of your Guides as friends, Angels, etc. Your job is to develop and use your gift and their job is to show you how. Just make certain you only use it for good purposes. Also make certain they are Guides, not bad entities, by only thinking your thoughts to them rather than speaking your requests outloud, and first pray for your top level Guides to come guide you, and verbally outloud banish all bad entities from around you telling them they are not welcome.

Guides or spirits?

It is very important to confirm that they are good entities which you are meant to help and not bad entities trying to attack or manipulate you. They can see you and hear your spoken word but not usually hear your thoughts so the first thing to do is to pray for your guides to protect you and advise you on what to do. As for the entities/spirits you must speak outloud to them to ensure that they hear you and tell them that you only welcome good spirits and ask all negative or bad energies/entities/spirits to leave. This is also important to do when using lettered cards, tarot cards, scrabble, etc to communicate with your top level Guides for advice and guidance. Always confirm you are speaking to them and not to entities/spirits until you are ready to do so.

If you are contacted by someone touching you, they often disturb you when you are sleeping, tell you they like or love you, and implies they are your Guide, then usually they have not been assigned to you but is a spirit who has died, found you, and decided to "help" you since they like you. It is okay to keep such an inexperienced Guide only if they have good intentions, never do wrong, and only as a "companion" Guide. When in doubt it is best to pray and ask to be sent only your top-level Guides and to be protected by your Angels.

How to make first contact with Guides:

-First be relaxed and in a location where you feel most spiritual and protected.

-Next in your mind and outloud ask for all negative energies/entities to leave for they are not welcome. They need to be told this.

-Next pray innerly (not outloud). Ask to be protected from negative, bad, evil, or dark energies/entities/spirits.

-Once you feel at peace and protected, pray innerly to communicate with your Top Level Guides. Only those who guide you, care for you, protect you, and are of the white light.

-You will then hear some inner thoughts, which at first you might feel are only your own, but they will catch you off guard because you will know you yourself did not think that thought. Reply to it. Listen carefully. Ask it questions. Listen for answers.

-Now at this point you will wonder if you are crazy, and are imagining things, or making it up in your own mind. This is when you need to ask to be sent signs as an assurance that they do in fact exist. They do not mind doing this. They understand. Request a sign which is challenging and not so common so you will know for a fact that it is from them, but do not choose a sign that is impossible.

Be aware and watch for the signs.

Keep in mind that Guides do not always come forward until we know they exist, believe in them, and need them. Even then it might be against the rules for them to come forward. Others like to remain hidden and watch over us silently. Remember that Guides are on another level. They can make mistakes, be not so experienced as other ones, and might bend the rules and get in trouble for it. So be careful when making contact and making demands. They do have to answer to the highest power aka God.

Ways to communicate with your Guides:

-Rune Stones
-Asking for and reading signs

To get your Guides to TALK to you in a more physical voice they need to develop this ability just as you need to develop the ability to HEAR them.

Until then they will use whatever other methods they can in which to communicate with you (Inner Thoughts, Tarot, Rune, Meditating, Radio, Signs, etc).

Remember not to pressure your Guides with being able to communicate better with you. They want this as much as you do and it is a two way street. You try more on your end, and they will try more on their end. Teamwork.

Thinking of your Spirit Guide, and sensing them, might make you feel all kinds of emotions, such as nervousness, excitement, peacefulness, etc. Never will Guides make you feel cold, scared, threatened, or overly worried. Although communication with Guides can create confusion, frustration, and the occasional tear, since it is like any relationship in which it takes time to understand each other.

If you cannot receive messages from your Guides, even after following my advice on this, then either you just do not hear those messages from them, or for some reason they feel it is best not to communicate with you in this way at this time. They do know what is best for you, and everything happens for a reason, even if we do not understand or know that reason.

Be patient, keep trying, and pay attention to messages. Remember, Guides rarely can show human form and a spoken message will sound not like a physical voice but more like an inner thought. Ask them to speak louder and to repeat the message until you hear it.

Having trouble hearing your Guides is quite natural. It takes time. You may even only hear or see them in your dreams, or when you are sick and getting rest. Especially if you are a busy person (such as a wife and mother with many "distractions").

This is why teen psychics have decreased abilities while they attend school and date, and why some psychics do not date, marry, or have children. Some even live like hermits such as Leonardo DaVinci, John Dee, Nostradamus, and Howard Hughes (or like an Oracle. LOL)

Everyday life can distract psychics. Crowds can overwhelm us. Concerts can be nerve-wracking. You are married with three kids. Finding the time, quiet, and peace of mind to hear answers and messages from your Guides is going to take time and patience.

Remembering a Guide's message to you in a dream or visit might be difficult to recall later. This is quite common. It usually means your conscious self is not allowed to remember for whatever reason, only your soul is to know.

If you have any further questions do not hestitate to ask me. I am always happy to help others. Click on my profile name to read other helpful tips.

The best way to message me is to click on my name to read the stories I posted then post a comment on my story, and you can visit my blog, and email me.

Psychic, Medium, Oracle, Healer, and Teacher
DestinySky (3 stories) (7 posts)
11 years ago (2011-03-28)

I need help finding my spirit guide, I don't know how and I have tried: (

- DestinySky ❤
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2011-03-12)
To increase your Mediumship (or other) abilities simply use them, call on your Guides to help increase it, and go out of your way to research messages you receive. The spirit world knows you care when you put in an effort to help them and so will seek you out moreso.

Also search for my previous posts on how to increase abilities. (or email me)

adah-D (3 posts)
11 years ago (2011-01-23)
OK Oracale I have latley been loosing my medium abilities but not my other ones. Anyway how do I get them back? What meditation do I use. HELP: (

With ❤
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2011-01-19)
If you keep holding your breath around this one spirit only then it might relate to how he had died. The best way to rid of a spirit is to communicate with it to help it with what it wants then tell it to leave. It is always best to help it first.

(in reply to xrated)
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2011-01-19)
Demons can only possess a person who is weak and allows themself to be possessed. Thus you need to protect those children from those people who are molesting them, not from the demon.

A demon can only remain where it is welcomed and if not then it must leave. It's power and energy comes from being wanted and invited. No tools are needed to cast out demons other than to command it to leave; especially by the person it is trying to possess. Power is within us.

Psychic Medium for 44 years
Always happy to help others
AnandaHya (guest)
11 years ago (2011-01-09)
oracle101 what study material do you have on casting out demons? I've read the bible but it only tells of event but not the procedure needed to do it. I've prayed and asked GOD and was told I need to learn how to do it myself, that angels can only do so much it the demons was invited into the person's heart.

I just need to know how to keep it away from the children of the church I've joined. They've already had 2 child molestation case in the 3 years before I started attending. One by the Sunday school director's and Head deacon's son and the other by female sunday school teacher and the former pastor's son. They recognize the problem but will not admit she has a demon inside of her and still is Sunday school teacher and her husband is still head deacon. I just want to know what can be done to keep the kids safe? I'm in direct consultation with the new temporary preacher. They will replace him if they knew he believed me about the demon.
xRatedBlackOut (1 posts)
11 years ago (2011-01-07)
Heeey Oracle101,
Since a few years I know I see things who are not really there... I thought I was going nuts...
But since like 2 weeks, its getting all clear
I see&sense ghosts, There are all diffrent ones I see but; there is one who keeps comming back and whenever I see him I feel like I have to hold my breath and I'm getting this adraline rush, like I have to run away... And it terrifieds me... Every night I sense that he is walking trhough my room like he;s waiting for a very long time and being very angry because of that & I get those holding breath&adraline "sympthomes" like 2 a day... I hope you can help me how to deal with this situation...
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
11 years ago (2011-01-06)
If you sense a distance between you and your brother sit down with him and ask him. Allow him to talk and express himself and he will explain why.

Psychic Medium for 44 years
Always happy to help others
sweetz (12 posts)
12 years ago (2010-12-20)
Hello Oracle I just wanted to say thank you for your advice from the previous questions. Very helpful.
sweetz (12 posts)
12 years ago (2010-12-20)
Hello Oracle I just wanted to say thank you for your advice from the previous questions. I have a new question for you, I have this gut feeling that my younger brother doesn't have good feelings towards me anymore. I try not to get sad about but everytime I look into his eyes I see a man who doesn't care. I hope that I' am wrong, any advice would be so good at this point.
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2010-12-08)
Numbers have a meaning. Look up the number 4 in a book on numerology. It does not always mean death.

Always happy to help others.
sweetz (12 posts)
12 years ago (2010-11-18)
hello oracle101 I being seeing the number 44 alot, I think about a year now. I would love to here your thoughts about what it means and what it may have to do with me. I would really appreciate anything you meant think it is. ❤
Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2010-10-18)
To control an ability to see the future you must first know what control you want to have over it. Do you want to not see the future? To prevent it? To not see certain things? When you understand exactly what you wish to know you can ask me here or contact me at: becomeenlightenednow (at)

(in reply to SnowAngel's question)

Oracle101 (2 stories) (506 posts)
12 years ago (2010-10-18)
Power comes from within. If you have negative energy it is coming from (or can be rid of) from the power you hold inside. No one can harm you unless you allow them the power and control to.

(in reply to RiteFate's question)


I can also be reached at: becomeenlightenednow (at) yahoo (dot) com
SnowAngel12 (guest)
12 years ago (2010-10-11)
[at] oracle 101

Hello once again,
This time my friend needs some advice on controlling her ability to see the future. It scares her, and I have heard from different people on what to do, but it hasn't helped her much. I would like your input on this topic if you know anything about it. Thank you for your time.

RiteFate (2 stories) (61 posts)
12 years ago (2010-10-11)
during a migraine its very difficult to touch heal on the head since there is a lot of activity going on at that moment. I have tried this the other day including "willing" it away, but there's was WAY too much activity. Like a magnet pushing against my brain. I found on youtube how to rid a migraine, you want to touch your feet to pull all that activity away from your head and towards your root chakra. This had helped some, but it was really bad. The only relief I had was sex as that opens the root chakra. Hope I don't sound crazier than "normal" crazy...haha. But its my experience. Anyways, hope this helps anyone else out there.

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