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I'm thirty now, but have had psychic experiences for as long as I can remember. Once when I was a child, my dad told me that both he and my mom have ESP to varying degrees. He said his faded as he got older. He told me it was important to marry someone with ESP so that I would pass the trait on to my kids. He said he thinks that's how people are evolving. I think it's a little strange of him to tell a young girl this, but whatever.

One of the first experiences I remember was as a child. I was somewhere in my pre-teen years. It was spring, and where we live there are often big grassfires on spring nights. My dad had some land, and we always worked hard to protect it from fires. I was restless, I couldn't sleep. I told my dad. He called somebody to check on our land, and sure enough it was on fire.

The worst car wreck I've been in to date. I was driving my dad's car. A red fox ran across the road in front of me, and I knew I was going to have a wreck. I whispered a prayer. Please God let me be ok, and let it happen a little farther down the road. Less than ten minutes later I rolled the car.

As a child I had two visions of my future. One I was driving a red sports car from somewhere to my parents place. I had three kids. I could tell there were two of one gender, and one of the other. I didn't know what the breakdown was though. I have three kids now. Two boys, and a girl.

I also had a vision where I was walking two collies down a city street. I was wearing a brown fur coat. I walked into the office, and kissed a handsome man who was tall, had dark hair, and was a little older than me. That one hasn't come true yet.

I was crazy about my first boyfriend when I was around 14-15. One day, I was out at my dad's land again. My left arm suddenly started to ache. I knew he was hurt. He was. He had broken his left arm. I felt this 50 miles away, before cell phones were popular.

I've had deja vus. They aren't my strongest sense though. I will dream something, and sometime later it will happen. I usually feel they are a fork in the road of my life. I also usually have a vague feeling about what I should do to choose a certain path. They freak me out with their vagueness.

Lately, my senses have been pulling me toward a person. I fell in love with him without meaning to last spring. When we were together all the cliché romance story stuff happened. I couldn't think straight, I couldn't talk and make sense, I couldn't concentrate without him around either. We worked together, and when we teamed up on a project we were unstoppable. We would also almost every day--wear matching clothes--by sheer coincidence. Like down to the shade matching. I'm not sure whether he loves me in return. We had a falling out. I felt he didn't respect me. I cut him out of my life. However, I keep feeling pulled back to the area where he is. He owns a business. I ended up renting an office upstairs in the same office building. We haven't really talked in months. A relationship between us would never work. I still think of him every day. People are telling me to let go. I think some of them are starting to think I'm crazy. I have never felt this way about anyone. I'm trying to let go of him, but my heart is fighting it. I had a strong feeling he is coming back into my life the other day. I accidentally bumped into him at the elevator. He made an excuse to talk to me for a few minutes. We were both wearing dark, dusky blue. His was a tie. Mine was a suit. Yesterday, I felt so strongly that he was coming back into my life, that it seemed as sure as knowing where my house is located. Today, I woke up and felt that I would see him, but something said don't hurry, take your time. I did. I got all fixed up. Put on perfume. Came to the office. After a couple of hours, I went back to the parking garage to get something from my car. I almost walked into him. He looked amazing. He was wearing a sweater of a dark teal green. So was I.

My sense of perception has never been so strong with another person since that first boyfriend. I think it is actually stronger with this guy. I'm not crazy, or a stalker. Are my senses getting stronger as I age? (According to my dad they should be weakening). Is there something I should be watching for here? I am not making up excuses to be where he is at. I feel it and it happens. I mean what are the chances of meeting someone at the lobby elevators at odd times of the day in a 22 story office building in a big city? Do we have unfinished business? Could it be some project we are supposed to work on together? (A close friend told me she had a dream I would be working on a big case soon.) Could this guy be my soul mate? (Even though we are both in committed relationships with others.) Am I bending my senses to pick up when he will be somewhere so I can see him? Could I feel this strongly pulled to someone who does not feel anything for me? This is tearing me up inside, and when I see him I am upset for a few hours. Yes, I shouldn't have come back to this building, but I feel it is my office-home. Any words of wisdom are much appreciated--even if they aren't what you think I want to hear.

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Eagleclaw (386 posts)
12 years ago (2011-12-15)

I am very happy to read that you are feeling much better. And, you may be right about tuning in but most people don't tune in for many reasons. That was so nice that you sent a hug. You are already learning new things. You can use that to help many others. Cheer someone up. Change the mood of a room. Or simply send some love to another person. If you think it it will happen. You should also think about taking a class in Healing Touch and get certified. I believe that you would be a natural. You've already got the sending love to another down pat. And, that the most important thing to have in order to help another. Congratulations and I know that you will have a bright and happy future.
dorarosenbaum (1 stories) (6 posts)
12 years ago (2011-12-15)
This may sound ridiculous, but I've always thought that we all have the ability to know what is going to happen in our lives. It's just a matter of tuning in. However, I don't necessarily believe we are predestined to one set course. I think maybe we are presented with choices that lead to different outcomes.

I appreciate the insight into the relationship dynamics with this guy. If I understand you guys correctly, the conclusion is that I've developed a personal psychic connection with him. That connection is what is allowing me to 'feel' when we are going to see each other. He may also have some sort of connection or psychic ability of his own. Your comments have helped. I looked up some of the empath methods of reaching out to people psychically. I tried to use my empath connection to send him warm thoughts, and give him a hug. I feel much better now. I feel as if the big gaping hole of loneliness and sadness in me, has been filled in. I feel happier, and almost healed. I don't think I will try to talk to him. There are some people who it is just not healthy to be friends with. Since we both work in a 'helping' profession, I just wanted to understand what this pull was. If we are needed to collaborate to help more people the way we did last spring, then I would set aside my feelings and get to work. However, if this is just some lingering personal connection--it needs to be severed so we can both be healthy, happy individuals.

Finally, if my abilities are strengthening, I want to know so I can find a way to use them in my profession to help people all the more.
Eagleclaw (386 posts)
12 years ago (2011-12-15)

It seems to me that you have the ability to know what's going to happen in your life. Not much is left to guess on for you. You are fortunate to have this ability.
What your dad said about marrying another with abilities is half right. My abilities come from my mothers family line. As long as there is one parent with abilities the traits can be passed down. And, some children don't realize their abilities until much later in life. It depends on the person. Also, abilities are not guaranteed to be passed down. Sometimes they skip a generation or only get passed to one child. Abilities are like genetics.
Now, about the guy that you fell in love with. You still have a emotional cord connected to him. It's your way of "knowing" where and what he is doing. He seems to be a great coworker and has the same career goals and ethics as you. The both of you share common thoughts in many areas. I have a sneaking suspicion that he would love to still be connected to you but not romantically. You have a decision to make. Will you continue to be his friend without romantic connections or will you avoid him for fear of wanting to be romantic with him. It's a very difficult decision for you. Follow your gut feelings about this. Try to talk to the guy to get a feel of what he wants. Hope this helps.
dorarosenbaum (1 stories) (6 posts)
12 years ago (2011-12-15)
I posted this the first night I really started reading up on psychic abilities. After doing some reading, I think I'm an empath. I've always had a knack for seeing people's true colors. I used to think I just noticed small details of behavior that others missed. Now, I'm not so sure. I have an ability to connect with people, and really feel what they feel. I've noticed when I'm upset, the people I'm closest too soon start having the same types of issues I do. For example, when a relationship I'm in goes south--suddenly my friends' do too. Also, people frequently tell me talking to me makes them feel better about their problems, but it will often get me down. It's almost as if I absorb their pain.

I had never considered the idea that the guy might have some ability too. Would that explain why my abilities are suddenly stronger with regard to this one person?

I am just beginning to learn about the different types of psychic abilities. I feel being able to tune into things that most people cannot is a gift. I believe we have these gifts in order to do good works that help others. I also feel that at certain times, we are guided to where we are most needed. I've never had abilities this strong, or this specific. I'm confused as to why this could be happening, and have become curious.
Becky666 (124 posts)
12 years ago (2011-12-14)
i think that he must feel something for you and I also think he is psychic

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