I was scared at first when I saw something I didn't understand in a night dream. I now realized I may have sensed my dad had problems but I was only about 8 or so when this happened. I remember the dream like it was yesterday because I was in bed supposed to be asleep but was not and it was very late at night. Dad's body was floating in mid air without his head and I sensed it had something to do with his back as his lower body was in a cast. I had a very strong sense that something was going to happen to him in the future. About 2 weeks or so later as I cannot quite remember the exact time, dad was in a car accident and was put into a body cast with a broken back.
I met my first boyfriend before I actually met him. I was in an apartment of my own and I could see his blonde flowing hair but not his actual face. I could see where I was standing in relation to where he was in the room. I got an apartment when I was 18 and the boy I was going with was with me that day when I was standing in my small bathroom and looking toward the bedroom where he was standing. Now he had a face and it took me by such surprise that I burst out saying "Oh my God I seen this scene before".
I have had a few such day dreams and night dreams since. Once when I was older I had a dream in the day that there was going to be a terrible accident on a bike I even saw the boy or man floating off. About 2 weeks later a boy died from speeding on his motorcycle. I did not understand why I had this one as I did not know this person at all. However come to find out I did know his sister who was very distraught over his passing.
I called my brother one day I was so scared for his son Robbie, my nephew whom I loved dearly. Something was wrong and Robbie could not tell anyone. I begged my brother to please watch him more closely as someone was going to try to hurt him. A few months later Robbie told his dad he hated his male babysitter and the hairs stood up on the back of my brothers neck he said, when Robbie told him he was being molested. Robbie was only 8 years old.
Just yesterday, a police officer was in my home to take out a bad man and as he was standing there I was hit by the same scene I saw before but had seen it must have been some 3 years earlier.
These are the most memorable déjà vu's experiences and although I am only afraid of the ones that show death I fear the ones that I may not interpret until it's to late. I don't know why I have them when some of them do not happen for quite some time later and I keep praying that they will not ever be something awful happening to my family because I sound like an idiot when I try to tell them to be careful. Like when I called my boyfriend up when he was on the road and begged him and made him promise at least for the day that he would take all precautions when driving. I had such an overwhelming feeling of impending doom on him. I saw him being taken away from me and it hurt so much I cried a lot praying and begging God to let him come home safe. I don't know why these happen and although they are not all the time, I fear them and I react to them when I can in the hopes that if I warn the people I care about that it might avoid the really bad stuff. Of course, I cannot tell people I don't know and I do wish I could although it would make me look like a fool in their eyes I dream I might be able to stop it from happening if I could just warn them. I feel sorry for the ones I cannot warn. These are true events and are to the best of my remembrances as I am older now. Although, there are details I may not have put in in order to keep it short.
My point is that sometimes you can try to change what will happen, but when it is meant to be it is meant to be. I imagine it is much harder for you, since you get more dreams about disasters than I do. Most of my dreams wind up being nothing of importance.
Try to remember that everything happens for a reason. I hope I have helped a little bit.