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I do not like to categorize myself but empath, clairvoyant, Clairsentience, clairaudience, medium, and psychic are part of my qualities.

One of my questions is that sometimes I cannot tell whether it is just my imagination or I am channeling. What does channeling feel like and how do you know if you are channeling? Also how to help a spirit find the light. Because I tried it for the first time and I am not sure if I did it correctly. I bought a white candle, and before I lit it up, I prayed for God to help the spirits to find the light and if maybe another spirit can lead them through the door into the light. I kissed the candle, (why? I don't know, I just felt the need to). I then lit the candle, put a glass of water with two white flowers from my yard next to it and meditated after but could not. And when I THOUGHT of this one particular spirit, "a flash" of this spirits face popped into my head with white glow next to it, and I sensed the feeling of peace. Was this just my imagination?

When I have this really strong "URGE" to ask someone if their mother, daughter, son, etc. Died, I hold back and do not say a word because I feel it is just my imagination even though I want to explode inside beating myself up for not even trying. But what if I offend this person or cause some chaos? What if it is just my imagination? 1. I do feel some sort of energy 2. I assume they lost a father, daughter, etc. Because either a flash of a male/female pops into my mind[which is why I think I am just imagining] or because I just sense it.

Ever since I have been growing spiritually, I have been having dreams of me giving random strangers readings and I connect them with their deceased loved ones like the show Long Island Medium on TLC. I have no idea what to do. How do I deal with all these things at once?!

Sorry for all of these questions but I have no one to talk to going through these spiritual experiences and wanted to ask all of you gifted people.

Thank you so much in advance.

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Candy_Jane (4 stories) (18 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-28)
Show_me, I am loving all of this new found knowledge. You will not be forgotten. Thanks for the information.
Show_Me (guest)
12 years ago (2012-04-27)
Well anything you think about you can do it when you put your all and might into it. Spirits usually ask for help because you see them and they see you. Majority of the time, when you have these abilities, spirits come seek you because you are a bright light to them. Your light attracts all kinds of things and you have to be careful. Sometimes evil spirits will challenge you how powerful you are. Most of the time the evil spirits will not admit defeat or back down until they are dead dead. They will keep on coming back. In this position you will lose a lot of energy and control, possibly lose your ability/gift also.

I believe that sometimes spirits are wondering around because they are trying to figure out what to do. They are lost in the middle between heaven and hell. You can help them if you wish. If you cannot, you can forward them. Forward as in telling them that you cannot help them because you don't know how, for an example. If you do know how awesome. Basically forward means that you cannot help them and that who ever sees them next and the spirits ask for help, the next person will possibly help the spirit (s).
Candy_Jane (4 stories) (18 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-27)
PathoR thanks. That is very interesting information. I never paid attention to the details when channeling like if one of my hands went cold. I will now! I must get my hands on that book! As a matter of fact, I shall meditate right now;)
PathR (4 stories) (1274 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-27)
Both previous comments are correct!
There is also a comparison of experiences, plus
Group medition which is normally accompanied by
A class helps.

Channeling can be aligned into various groups:
Higher self
Ascending masters
Power animals
Speaking seeing discarnate souls.
Also areas of the Aura
When I am asked to look these are the various groups
Help I enlist.

Some items to look for when channelling are sensations, as buzzing on spine, back.
One hand going cold when asking information for confirmation. Depending on the format you use with your guide.
Sometimes it can be just viewing the energy and waiting then you understanding exactly what is going on with the person.

The idea of meditaion is good for many reasons, increase our capacity to hold higher engergy.
If one is doing this right we can experience headaches
Shifts in our own energy. Dreams that go from Lucid
To full memory recall (astral projection), at which point we receive much more guidance.

As each of us is diffent is our call to work and support spirit.

I do recommend a book: Opening to Channel: How to Connect with your guides. It gives more explanations
Of symptons one can experience for channelling.

Now some people just taking to someone can bring forth higher wisdom, solutions to a problem.
Others connect to discarnate souls giving proof of life, while others channel healing energy to an ill person. In a reading Tarot, Hand reading we collect information psychometry

With any of these connecting to guides, and protection
Is truly helpful. Understanding our own make up to identify if we are sensing someone else's feelings or
Are we tapping into some individual around us.

I do realize some people do not use meditation or protection and seem to go on fine, but are still open
To pull in anothers energy-feelings of depression or anger. I had this comment from a few people whom have studied with me at the same school for mediumship or healing.
Candy_Jane (4 stories) (18 posts)
12 years ago (2012-04-26)
Wow I was unknowingly reading people.oops! I will try not to. Think envisioning myself in a white glowing sphere will do the trick? Either way I will try it. As for sending spirits to the light... Why do they ask for my help? Could one of the reasons be they need help seeing the light?
Show_Me (guest)
12 years ago (2012-04-26)
Interesting. If you look at a person and you get all these images, you are reading them. It's not really good to read people without their permission.

From my point of view or from hearing mastered psychics, you have to be at a certain level to send spirits or to help them cross over. If you believe that you are strong enough, you can send them, but if you not, I recommend you not.

That's good that you meditate. Meditation draws energy or power. When you meditate feelings and emotions come first. Then Images really start to show. Keep meditating it's a good sign. If you need help, ask for help from your angels.
AnneV (4 stories) (1064 posts) mod
12 years ago (2012-04-26)
I would recommend starting with smaller and less important issues than bringing up a death. You have to first build confidence through many smaller successes. I am copying a reply I gave someone else on this site because the advice is the same. Here it is:
I have taken classes from the very gifted Pam Coronado. The environment is very friendly and open. The nicest people really. It's actually not expensive either. I get no commission, just saying her classes helped me. Http://
I also wrote an article on her here:
You can also practice remote viewing through my other webpage and it's free:
In summary, any kind of practice is going to help open your third eye. There is another link too on how to develop your skills:

As far as what perceiving discarnate beings, that varies depending on the medium. Some hear them clearly, some actually see them standing there, some just get fuzzy visions, some come in the form of dreams etc. You'll get more confident once you start seeing success in your endeavors.


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