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My Friend Is Scared Of Her Ability


I have a best friend that I have known since the 4th grade (I'm going to be a freshman in high school this school year). We share all our secrets with each other and something that she hasn't told anyone else is that she has the ability to see and talk to ghosts. But she does not like having this power. She just wants to be normal and not have any gifts. Some of her family has this ability too and they all embrace it, but she hates it. She says bad things come to her and stuff but she's a comical person, so she makes it funny, which makes me think maybe somewhere deep inside she doesn't mind having this power. She is terrified of anything scary so when she sees these ghosts and things she freezes up. One time we were taking a walk together and she just stopped in the middle of the sidewalk, I snapped her out of it but she kept looking back. Sometimes it's the hardest thing for her to deal with. I keep telling her maybe if she learns to control her power and understands it and its limits maybe she could turn it off, but she is just so against it. She can't even talk about it without hesitating. She's the only person I know that has powers so we can relate about things. My questions are how can I get her out of her shell and how I can make her use her ability or just talk about it more. I want to test her ability and see what her limits are and help her control it so how could I do that. What are some exercises or techniques that she could do to maybe stop it from happening or make it happen when she wants. Does anyone have friends like this or are you like this? How do a mediums powers work and what are your limitations with it? Thanks:)

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laurencat (8 stories) (20 posts)
8 years ago (2016-05-31)
Your friend needs to learn to accept who is she as a person. I just learned something regarding personal self worth about about a month ago. Each person has to realize how he or she relates to the world. A lot of people with they were normal tend to view their place in life in the opposite direction.
These people using the world as a starting point instead of themselves. In other words, they base themselves off of how the world relates to them instead of how they relate to the world. Everyone needs to learn how to start from themselves and move outward. A person cannot start from the outward move inward. No one will ever understand himself or herself with that type of mind set. People have to start inward, and then go from there.
Rosetta (1 stories) (52 posts)
12 years ago (2012-08-15)
If your friend wishes to stop seeing ghosts or at least decrease the likelihood of seeing one, she can wear something that she considers a symbol or sign of comfort or think of things that make her oblivious to the ghosts around her. Meditating is one the the best things to do to help her be able to control her ability. Search and find stones that might help with figuring out about her psychic ablities and limitations. I hope that this info can be helpful to you.
LunarKnight (11 posts)
12 years ago (2012-08-15)
I would agree with calvinvalerian, Why throw away a gift? Why fear it exactly when it could be used. Normal HA everyone has the abilities to do this so the supernatural is really just natural for all of us. We all have it just at different levels. But we all have potential so this is normal. I mean why throw the gift away and get used to it were all crossing over to that side some point so mind as well gets use to it rather than be terrified of it after death. I would like to help as well if you would like so contact me at Jonwww1[at] if
calvinvalerian (guest)
12 years ago (2012-08-15)
So sad: (you don't have similar abilities like she do. If I was you, I will tell her to relax because I can capture a spirit with only my hand. And it is my sister which described me how the spirit looks like. Most of the time yea their manifestation is damn ugly LOL but always remember this "Spirit is able to transform to anything they want". The more you fear of them the more they are entertained. LOL this is them and they do this to test your faith how far you can go.

They knew that you have a God but why still you are afraid of them. So they laugh at you when you are scared. Because you are funny for them LOL! Really this is what a spirit replied for why you are disturbing human.

Let her email me at calvinvalerian [at] I will coach her personally:)

Why afraid of spirit? They can be your friend. You can have four types of friend from different races. Human, spirit, angel and God (the name is Allah and not he nor she because Allah is a light and light doesn't have gender). It's up to you as long as you can communicate with them it's fine.

Really? She wanted to take off her abilities? She will be blind from the truth, duh! She is just lacking supernatural knowledge. Don't trow it off! It is a precious gift God gave her. As a human she may not value something which she have but for this one... Don't be stupid!

Her ears and eyes were blessed to witness the truth. She just doesn't know what to do with it! I will tweak her a little bit and she will okay.

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