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He Existed In A Dream, Then Real Life


When I was 20, I went to two separate events at my school. Each one featured a tarot card reader. Each told me I would find someone in my 30's.

On one these readings, I asked the reader about a dream I had, where a young man who I believe loved me, was saying "Good-bye" to me.

I asked the tarot reader about the man in this dream. She said, "He shouldn't be popping up in dreams because he is too tied to the earthly plane." What was odd about the dream was I was in a very traditional light blue dress and it felt as though it were a memory of the past instead.

I thought nothing of it.

4 years later I am living in another country and there had been a man who was "in love" with me even though neither of us had spoken to one another except once in the 7 months we worked together. In this culture, the dress I was wearing in the dream is very similar.

I didn't have strong feelings for this man but I am a very strong empathic person. I do believe it's possible I may have had latent romantic feelings for this man or I channeled his feelings and made them my own.

Later after my rejection letter, he refused to see me, stating that he had no feelings for me and that he was getting married. I have no relationship experience at all but he was the first man I had feelings for. But I was due to leave the country and with his cultural background, I would have undergone many social repercussions being with him. I could feel the coldness coming from his text messages.

When he was following me around work, I could NEVER sense it. I knew he was there. I would physically see him and feel as though I was being watched, but I was unable to see it being tied to him.

I can feel so many other people's energies but never his. But I know in spite of the lack of physical evidence and what people later told me, that this man had some exceptionally strong feelings towards me.

I knew this without a doubt. It was just an instinct though.

What's odd now, is that he often appears in my dreams, as a sort of figure that is just there. He says nothings, does nothing, and I never see him clearly.

Whenever I am about to move on in my life, trying to forget him, he reappears in my dreams. He's there and it like memories of the past.

In every dream, I am never comfortable around him. Or rather I can sense his manipulation of events to be near me, but I am never in love with him.

But once I am awake, I feel completely different. I am heart-broken and love-lorn over him.

I had a female boss, who I couldn't sense either, and a psychic told me that, this was the woman she felt, not the man, who was feeding off my energy. So on some level I wonder if I may be secretly channeling her desire for him. She was the one who pushed me to date him, but later told me after I confessed to her that I may have liked him, that he already had a girlfriend.

I asked her why she kept pushing me towards him then. All she did was laugh. I couldn't feel these two people's energies in spite of being able to protect myself against others. If I am channeling either one, I want to stop, but I don't know how.

When I try to explain this to other people, sometimes I just feel paranoid.

I do wonder if he is the man from my dream four years ago and had a deja-vu once about the dream.

I have tried communicating with my spiritual guides to little avail. I want to be able to communicate with them more clearly but seem unable to.

When I was younger I used to dream of a friend the morning before she would either call or visit me. I no longer have them any more.

I had a dream once when I was 14 where I was driven off a cliff. Several years later I had a deja-vu of this dream and I told my friend NOT to get back in the car. I also felt a strong pressure on my heart and I could see a black hand squeezing my heart.

Later on that night or the night after, my friend's father needed emergency heart surgery.

Another time, I was stabbed in a dream by an angry ghost and several days later, my friend and I were in an car accident.

Lately I've been having dreams of murder and being a helper to a medium or stronger psychic.

I strongly believe I was sent these dreams by my guides or perhaps even a negative spirit/entity. I was told that I wasn't spiritually protected and that's why I attract "certain" people.

It's strange how sometimes I feel completely fine, but then out of nowhere, I feel depressed, helpless, and unable to do anything.

I have dreams often of a man, in mental anguish, but I do not know who it is. I would like to know if there's anyway I can figure out who this person is, what I can do help this person or myself.

I started to believe it was just some lingering attachment and there may be symbols but it just doesn't ring true to me.

I can't afford any psychic help and don't have anyone I can ask this about.

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The following comments are submitted by users of this site and are not official positions by Please read our guidelines and the previous posts before posting. The author, Ami100987, has the following expectation about your feedback: I will participate in the discussion and I need help with what I have experienced.

Ami100987 (1 stories) (2 posts)
10 years ago (2013-03-26)
Aquaxamatista, Thank you for the advice. I often feel very vulnerable. I have (extreme) difficulty visualizing energy or visualizing anything actually. I have an imagination but its very word-based rather than imaged based. I wonder if there are any other ways to shield myself.

Maybe I'll keep on trying.

Candy, I'm glad my story was of some help or value. Sometimes I dismiss things like this that happen. I do think we all have multiple soul-mates and that sometimes a person comes into our life for just a short period of time or to just teach us a lesson of some sort. I do wish things could have worked out differently, but I have to and will (gradually) accept them as they are. It's a part of growing up, which I've never done.
Candy_Jane (4 stories) (18 posts)
10 years ago (2013-03-24)
Thanks for sharing this Ami, and thanks fossil and aqua for the responses, VERY helpful and I am definitely going to look into dream telepathy, I'm constantly dreaming of an old lover that feels like he is also from my past life and miss him terribly.

Thank you again!
Aquaxamatista (1 stories) (62 posts)
10 years ago (2013-03-24)
From one empath to another, shielding is super important because we naturally don't have strong defenses. My guess is that it happens so that we can naturally feel other peoples emotions without issue but that also leaves us as a sitting duck because anyone can psychically attack us. What I do for shielding is stand barefoot on the grass and be next to a tree hopefully, then visualize my energy traveling from my crown chakra to the ground, becoming one with mother nature. As I do this, I imagine the energy to be white and pure as water. Then I imagine a blue, protective bubble covering up my physical body and my entire energy field (aka your aura). Now this bubble can be any color but it is said that blue is a protective color:) I hope this works! And for purification of other peoples negative emotions you can imagine your body and aura being covered by a violet flame that is cleansing and purifying anything negative. 😆
Ami100987 (1 stories) (2 posts)
10 years ago (2013-03-23)
Wow, thank you so much for your response. This helps a lot.
That explains so much, why I kept being told that he liked, even loved me, and I just couldn't believe it.
This puts a whole new spin on my dreams. Of course, not every dream will reflect this, but it definitely gives me something to ponder about.

Because it confused the heck out of me reading online about what dreams meant, thinking "Wait, I'm not over this guy yet?"
It was driving me crazy. I'm still trying to make sense of my feelings and all the dreams I had before.
Lately the dreams aren't as frequent. I think I tried to talk to his higher self and explained things to him. It was weird.

It explains so much and makes so much more sense. I think he was probably very intuitive like my female boss. I felt like they thought they could read me like a book, but in the end, I guess not.

I don't know if I'm really psychic. Is there a way to test that, I wonder? ^_^ But I suppose I am intuitive. Like I'm good at guessing people-to-people situations. Like what must have happened between two people in spite of me never having been there.

It's strange to wake up one day and suddenly realize like I could be psychic. And a spiritually unprotected one at that. I'm going to try and develop my own "Shield" technique.
fossilera (4 stories) (124 posts)
10 years ago (2013-03-21)
Hey Ami100987,

First of all (in terms of protection), you may want to look into shielding. I make a "big" deal about this because it's an effective tool that may resolve the issue. Basically, shielding creates a "barrier" between yourself and something you don't want to experience. When I was younger, I used to picture my shield as being one of my spirit totems (a wolf - or maybe it was a german shepard). Now, I picture it as the room being flooded with the light & heat of the sun.

In a couple comments, I posted a few basic methods, but there's plenty more out there. If you try the methods, belief is the key - it will only work if you believe it will.

Second, it's possible that this guy was thinking about you - sometimes, when you dream, you are receptive to another's own feelings and thoughts, and in some cases the people on one side or another intentionally try this (the technical term is "dream telepathy"). Every now & then, I still pick up on the occasional dream where a friend is trying to tell me something, and usually I have an email waiting for me in the morning from them.

Third, I don't feel that your "negative" dreams were sent by a negative entity, but rather were a warning (I would think a negative entity would rather do you harm than warn you about a possible accident in the future).

Fourth, it's possible that the reason that you weren't able to sense the guy at work was because he was either another psychic (that knew how to reduce the amount of energy being sent out), or he was "closed", either due to his mood, feelings, or attitude. Sometimes, this can act as a "Shield" alone, which would make it hard for even a psychic to read him accurately.

Hope this helps a little.

Edit: Sorry it's a little rushed (While I'd love to spend hours talking about psychic abilities, I'm afraid that sleep & work won't hold off until I'm done 😁)


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